"Honey, I've decided to be a sl*t and break our marriage vows. I am whoring around with another man. Just thought you should know."
2007-07-11 10:07:05
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answer #1
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answered by Anonymous
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I have no idea how you tell him but you must tell him.I found out my wife of 7 years was cheating on me the hard way and it just about crushed me!I was angry,hurt,dissapointed,and just down right pissed off.If you don't/didn't love him anymore you should have just told him so.
I may be a little older than the norm here,but let me ask you a question!Do the words VOW,HONOR,RESPECT,and TRUST mean ANYTHING anymore?You stood before God,family,and friends and made a vow to do all of these and more for and with your Husband and you have broken everyone of these.Unless you have been cheated on by your Husband you will never ever know the amount of heartache you have caused to another human being.
I wish you luck in your life and may you NEVER go thru what your about to do to your husband.Tell him because he WILL find out!
2007-07-11 17:13:17
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answer #2
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answered by VROD 2
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Unless you got caught by someone else who knows your husband, do NOT tell him.
If you're feeling guilty, tough! You cheated, so live with it without telling him. If you suspect that your lover gave you some nasty disease, then go to the doctor and find out. You can figure out what to do if you have a STD.
If you want to keep on cheating, then tell your husband you want a divorce.
2007-07-11 17:15:06
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answer #3
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answered by Chef dad 3
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2007-07-11 22:01:28
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answered by Anonymous
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Why are you cheating on him? What may you start to cheat and what made you stop the cheat?
There will be no way to tell him that he will not be crushed by the whole thing, so you may want some friends about
2007-07-11 17:03:10
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answer #5
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answered by Experto Credo 7
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1. Pack a bag
2. Make reservations at a motel/hotel
3. Sit him down and tell him do not sugar coat or rationalize
3. Be prepared to see the curb coming towards your face
4. Be prepared to lose your husband
5. Go to your room and face the ugly truth
6. Deal with it
2007-07-11 17:16:33
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answered by theladygeorge 5
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Just tell him. It is just like I tell my kids. "it sounds better from you than from someone else." Either way he won't be happy. He will feel dissappointed,hurt and betrayed and will have every right to feel that way. Get some couples counciling if he is willing to try and work it out. If not, have a bag packed and some reservations at motel6 because he might not want you around for a while.
2007-07-11 17:06:10
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answer #7
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answered by MJ 6
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Wow that is something that should be said up front and honest. I did that and I ended up divorcing the man I was first married to because no Man wants to share their wife with another man and even if he did threes no trust in that relationship. Do you have God in your life,Talk to God tell him what you've done ask for forgiveness. good Luck.......
2007-07-11 17:15:38
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answer #8
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answered by Tina the cat lover 4
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Unless you plan on leaving him for this other man, you don't tell him. If you made a mistake and realized it and are truely sorry for it and will never do it again, you take that secret to the grave with you. Oh, and make darn sure that he will never find out via 3rd party, either.
If you're gonna leave your husband for this man, I suggest telling him you want a divorce first, and when he asks why, then tell him.
2007-07-11 17:09:00
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answer #9
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answered by Anonymous
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If you want to leave him, you tell him , pack your things, and leave.
If you want to stay with him, you don't tell him. Telling him in this case is only to make yourself feel better. It isn't to help him. Then, get into counseling. Figure out why you had the affair. End the affair. Fix the problem(s).
2007-07-11 18:08:02
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answer #10
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answered by starrrrgazer 5
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are you cheating on him? or did you cheat on him? if you still are you should leave your husband b/c you obviously want the other man. If it's something you did and are remorseful then tell him but don't blame it on him. I am sure he'll be angry and have some angry words, if you want to work it out let him say what he needs to and if he has questions be honest. Time heals all.
Good Luck to you.
2007-07-11 17:05:40
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answer #11
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answered by ofsoundmind 4
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