Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

i feel lame asking this. but i need to know. ALL of my relationships end up bad, and i dont know why. Ive been either cheated on, lied to, treated bad, or abused in every relationship. Every guy who says hes different then my exs always prove me wrong, they all are the same. I dont get why this happens, because i never do anything bad in relatinships. Ive never cheated, never lied, never done anything bad, in my opinion im a good girlfriend. Most people would say that its the guys that im dating. but im starting to think its not.

what the hell is wrong.

2007-07-11 08:28:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok my boyfriend and me are really close we both love each other and everything- but he just wont ask me out! i really want him to! and i told my guy friend to tell him i want him to ask me out and he wouldnt believe my guy friend!! it stinks but i dont want to just say "hey i want you to ask me out" so HELP!

2007-07-11 08:28:29 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my sister has a son with a guy who lives in a different state. once my nephew was born, this guy became verbally abusive to my sister and threw her out when my nephew was six months old. she stayed with friends and then moved in with my parents. she has now moved by me and this guy has been screwing with her emotions, and also got another girl pregnant.
needless to say, im not a huge fan of this guy. well he told my sister he wanted to move here and be with her... she flew down with nephew to get him and drive up and when she was there his family told her he was screwing with her bla bla. so she puts her foot down and flies back here. now she is saying he is renting a uhaul and on his way. I know she can do better and i want to be supportive but this is super hard!

2007-07-11 08:28:09 · 4 answers · asked by carly s 1 in Family

solve these problem?

2007-07-11 08:27:35 · 4 answers · asked by tina g 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Alief, Texas circa 82-83 It's Gary...Give a shout

2007-07-11 08:27:00 · 2 answers · asked by gary12850 2 in Friends

My parents and I have been fighting for the past 4 years, we just cant get along. I have a boyfriend I can go live with, who can support me but i dunno if its right. BTW Im 16 and my boyfriend is 27.

2007-07-11 08:23:47 · 13 answers · asked by Brittney B 1 in Family

I had to move back in with my dad cause my ex has the house. Due to child support pmts. and the boys live 1 hour away w/ their mom, I want to do things with them when I go get them, but living in a 2 bedroom apt with my dad and not much money, I don't know what kinds of things I could do with them to keep them entertained. I am trying to get my own apt. to have more room, but money is tight. Does anyone have any ideas on some activities to do with my boys? My boys are 6yrs. and 2 yrs. I love them dearly, I just want to have activities to do with them. Please give me some pointers on activities. Thanks....

2007-07-11 08:23:27 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What about for a married man to be friends with a single woman?
Can they just have a plutonic relationship or is that just not possible?
Do you think there is a double standard that makes it Ok for men and not women or vice versa?

2007-07-11 08:21:15 · 32 answers · asked by girlzmommy 5 in Marriage & Divorce

i live in georgia but we are gettin married at amelia island, fl do i need to get our marriage licenses in florida or georgia

2007-07-11 08:20:57 · 7 answers · asked by Lacie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband says i can't name my child poop but i really want to name it butt or poop how can i win this argument

2007-07-11 08:20:45 · 12 answers · asked by fart nugget 1 in Marriage & Divorce

can anyone help me my son who as just left school wants an id card can i get him one on line and if so how he is 17 in sept i would be so greatfull if some one could help me with this he hasnt got a passport at moment thank you

2007-07-11 08:19:57 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

hey ladies I was wondering what do you think about guys who have a foot fetish. I have one and have wondered what you really think? I am relly serious please help me

2007-07-11 08:19:50 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 08:19:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 08:13:40 · 8 answers · asked by runninkid07 1 in Singles & Dating

I was thinking seashell shaped chocolates, BUT they are 20-40 bucks a pound, the ones I have seen? Anyone know a good idea for cheap favors for a beach wedding???

2007-07-11 08:12:58 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I loved my girlfriend but she said that she didn't trust me and that I shouldn't trust her because she never sked me to. I broke up with her because i can't handle a relationship without trust.

But now i'm spending my nights crying as well as my days, and i feel as there is nothing left for me. I know im young but I told her we could work on it, and she is spending time thinking about it....but i can't handle it, this added to all the stress in my life just makes me want to kill myself...

please any advice would be nice...do you have any?

i miss her so much i am crying right now....

2007-07-11 08:12:27 · 16 answers · asked by Chris 5 in Singles & Dating

he's been living with us for about almost 7 months now. and next tues the 17th is will be leaving out of the country for three weeks. and i don't want him to stay with us after he comes back...i thinks hes over stayed his welcome. also when he gets back we'll be in our new house.

2007-07-11 08:12:18 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am in a California, in a serious relationship, and would want a prenup agreement done prior to marriage. I have relatively more assets than her going into the relationship, plus I have a daughter from a previous marriage. I am just not sure what is the best way to approach my fiancee about it. Any thoughts ?

2007-07-11 08:08:49 · 20 answers · asked by ckaadev 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my boyfriend got into a fight on the 4th of July. He showed up with a friend and two girls and just tapped me and didn't talked to me the rest of the night. I felt hurt and I didn't like that he had been with two girls all day so I gave him the cold shoulder.

He sent me a text that said "You always do this. You had to of accepted the fact that at soem point id hang out with a girl or two. i dont want to have anything to do with this anymore."

I said "I don't care that you're with other girls. I just wish you would of talked to me instead of tapping me and running away"

Then he said "I was with friends. if i stopped i never would of found them again"

Well he has a cell phone and I'm sure he has their numbers...It's not the 1600s! We haven't spoken to eachother for a week now. Is it over?

2007-07-11 08:08:26 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok - I'm just me. Last night, I was talking to a male friend who knows me quite well. We were discussing my relationship with a man currently my life. He surprised me by telling me that he found me to be very intimidating at first and that maybe the problems I have been having getting this man to move into a closer friendship/relationship may have something to do with this. Looking back at some other recent relationships, I'm thinking that he may be on to something and maybe I need to figure a way to still be me and not come off like this because the irony is that I am the most insecure person I know and can't see how anyone would look at me and think I was anything but! Help!

2007-07-11 08:07:45 · 2 answers · asked by Rabbit 5 in Singles & Dating

And Vice Versa
The thing i don't like about guys is they never ever talk =)

2007-07-11 08:07:31 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do you think that women should be the dominant person in marriages? Why or why not?

2007-07-11 08:06:34 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...so I just got a phone call from my wife and apparantly she found all the porn I've been looking at online. Should she spank me like a naughty little boy?

2007-07-11 08:05:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

shouldn't i be considered residential parent, her mother only has her while im at work 8 a.m. to 5 p.m. how can i go about becoming residential parent???

2007-07-11 08:04:53 · 5 answers · asked by shaun b 1 in Family

Ex-grilfriend and I have been together for 4 yrs. Weve been through alot but always managed to maintain our relationship. The first 2 yrs. I had the upperhand broke her heart a couple times but came back to what was important to me. Aug. 06, she changed, was bored, unhappy and unaffectionate, not always but sometimes. We broke up in Feb. 07 but maintained friends, it was rough and filled w/ jealousy, she stayed alone, I messed w/ 2 girls, I told her she forgave me. In June we got back together a she was just like the old her for 2 wks. then she became cold. 2 wks. ago she told me she didnt see our relationship going anywhere so we had to end it. 3 days ago she went out on a date w/ a guy she was introduced to 2 mos. ago but was not interested in. So for the past 3 days she has been talking to him and seeing him constantly, she still me daily and says she cant take me just falling out of her life but she is unwilling to stop talking to him because they are "romantic friends" who

2007-07-11 08:01:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm not sure if this is the correct place to ask this, but I'd like to do something special for my boyfriend on his birthday Friday. He's a U.S. Marine and this might be the last time I get to spend his birthday with him for a long time. I'm kind of on a low budget, but any ideas as to something I could do would be appreciated.

Thank you!

2007-07-11 07:59:29 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I allways like kissed to be a little longer,, i mean , all my experiance are women who kiss with lust and get it over with so i can move on,,but i dont like it like that, i just wish they could kiss a little longer and play around that area a bit, sort of teasing you for more kinda kiss,,,, hmmm is it only me ?

2007-07-11 07:59:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He has been divorced for 12 yrs. has his own place but comes here to eat and sleep. Does not want to get married again. and does not want to move in with me. Just wants a snuggle bunny. But says he loves me. How do i get him to change his mind,. What more can i do to show him I am faithfull and will not hurt him.

2007-07-11 07:57:57 · 25 answers · asked by o1dreamer45 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 07:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by audrajean05 2 in Singles & Dating

don't know why, but I just can't bring myself to touch people. And I don't mean in only inappropriate ways, I mean at ALL! Even if they're my best friend or the girl I really like, I just can't touch them even in a friendly, "Hi, how ya goin'?" type of way. How would I go about getting over this "phobia", if that's what it is? Oh, and I'm a 17 year-old guy.

By the way, I did not grow up in a non-hugging family. I hug my mom and dad pretty much every night. It's just my siblings and I that don't hug.

Please don't tell me that it's okay and that some people just aren't huggers. I WANT to hug and touch. I feel so left out. A lot of people I see and friends I have high-five, pat each other on the back, and other friendly things that almost scare me that I'm unable to make myself do them. And these are boys and girls being friends, not just one gender.

2007-07-11 07:55:26 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating