2007-07-11 08:19:26 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you're even asking this question.. then do your fiance a favor and call of the wedding.
IF you marry (in your state of mind or mindset) you'll be ruining HER life.
2007-07-11 08:21:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
If you are serious, then don't get married. If your already having thoughts of this other person, what's going to happen if you go thru with the marriage. You spend the next 20 years being miserable and ruining someone elses life. If you really feel this way, follow your heart and go after your true love, but don't drag down this other woman in the process. Think hard before you act and make sure it really is love you feel for this other person and not some delusional memory of what you once had together. Good Luck!
2007-07-11 15:31:53 · answer #2 · answered by Green eyed girl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are about to get married, ALL former flames should have been EXTINGUISHED a long time ago. Shame on you for even considering this. Your marriage is already doomed because you're not 100% committed. I hope your fiancee finds out what you're thinking and calls the whole thing off.
2007-07-11 15:22:39 · answer #3 · answered by tooblessed2doubt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are about to get married, don't even think about the old flame! You have promised to marry this guy before God and everyone! Evidently you and former flame weren't good together, or you'd still be together. Thank God that you found someone to love you for all time!
2007-07-11 15:22:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bro you really need to wake up smell the coffee then pour the hot cup into your groin. If you are getting married then be a man and forget the old flame. Just remember marriage is the leading cause of divorce, don't say I didn't warn you.
2007-07-11 15:28:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There's not enough background information to give you a proper answer. Are you still in love with your former flame? How do you know they still love you? Did they tell you just as you were announcing you were getting married? Do you want to get married?
2007-07-11 17:21:38 · answer #6 · answered by GreekGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be getting married if you want to date around? That makes no sense what so ever. Do both of you a favor and bail out before its too late. Marriage is supposed to forever with someone you love and want to spend the res of your life with. Obiviously this is not the case with you. Think about what you are doing very seriously.
2007-07-11 15:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by TABBY 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but if you are thinking this way, DO NOT GET MARRIED. If you aren't so pationately in love with your fiance that you would even consider being with a former flame, break off the engagement...dont' hurt this fiance any further by marrying him. You don't love him.
2007-07-11 15:23:26 · answer #8 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even have to ask this question you have absolutely no business getting married!! Call off the wedding and spare your fiance the heart break of being married to a woman who has one foot out the door before she even says I do!!
2007-07-11 15:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by juda75 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I HATE people like you. I hope that your fiance finds out what a pig you are and leaves you at the alter. Oh and you have no chance with the former flame unless she is as pathetic and trashy as you.
2007-07-11 23:28:48 · answer #10 · answered by hiyall123 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋