I loved my girlfriend but she said that she didn't trust me and that I shouldn't trust her because she never sked me to. I broke up with her because i can't handle a relationship without trust.
But now i'm spending my nights crying as well as my days, and i feel as there is nothing left for me. I know im young but I told her we could work on it, and she is spending time thinking about it....but i can't handle it, this added to all the stress in my life just makes me want to kill myself...
please any advice would be nice...do you have any?
i miss her so much i am crying right now....
2007-07-11 08:12:27 · 16 answers · asked by Chris 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just get through the day---the sun will rise and set again. Emotions take over us so much that we can't think straight sometimes. The trick is--finding someone just like you that has the same values. Never settle or commit to a relationship without feeling 100% sure. It's okay to make mistakes-now move on. There are plenty of fish in the sea--just get over that emotional hump and start fishing for someone all about the trust baby!
2007-07-11 08:19:00 · answer #1 · answered by tizzasho2 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh dear one, you are acting like she is the reason you breath. Stop and take a look at all the people around you that have smiles on there face. They put it there on there own. You should never rely on someone else to make you happy. Call an old friend and go out tonight. This has fallen apart because just in front of you waits something sooooo much better. Relationships are just not supposed to be hard.
2007-07-11 08:18:46 · answer #2 · answered by New Nana 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a toughy. I know what it's like to be so in love with someone that you think you'll stop breathing without them.
Due to my personal experience in failed relationships, I do know that this feeling will pass. Give it time.
Please don't kill yourself over the actions of another human being. That's just silly, selfish and pointless.
If she is saying that you shouldn't trust her, then she's probably right. You sound like a sensitive, well-meaning young man and you deserve better than that.
My sister always says, "Never think of someone as a priority if they think of you as an option." You just cannot win that way.
Good luck!
2007-07-11 08:22:47 · answer #3 · answered by YSIC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off... don't kill yourself. Its only normal for you to be sad when you think you lost someone you're so close to, but how in the world were you planning on having a relationship without trust? you seem like a pretty nice guy... I'm sure there are ladies just waiting to meet someone like you... wait scratch that i know there are. If your girlfriend wants to play games like that, let her but don't be one of the players. If she truly cares for you she will solve this problem. So stop crying and get out there and have a guys night out to get ur mind off of her! Good Luck! =)
2007-07-11 08:39:35 · answer #4 · answered by Lil Shorty 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to go through lots of relationships where you get hurt and some where you do the hurting. She doesn't deserve to be with you. You need trust in a relationship, period! Every relationship we have helps us realize what we do and do not want in someone else.
Life is stressfull, but killing yourself is not the answer. You need to speak with someone about your stress and your thoughts. a parent, friend, someone! Missing someone sucks, but you will get through it and you will be a better person because of all this. I promise! Hang in there, it will get better for you. I am sure there are LOTS of girls that would love to be with you and treat you the way you want to be treated- you just don't see that because you are so wrapped up in this one girl.
2007-07-11 08:24:00 · answer #5 · answered by T19 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well don't kill yourself. that would make her feel soo bad. i know she likes you but maybe she isn't ready to be serious right now. i think you two should try to get back together. and tell her you trust her and its ok if she doesn't trust you right now. i know she will later on. and just wait until she is ready to be serious. don't pressure her into anything either.
i know its easier said then done but i think you should call her and just tell her everything like how you've been crying over her. and just how much you care and how you strongly feel about her. and tell her you want her to understand and you want to get another chance just to work things out. once you can work things out it makes your relationship stronger than it is now because once you get through the hard things in life you know you can get through anything.
p.s. i wish you the best of luck with this. i hope you two can work things out and then everything will be ok again.
♥crystal
2007-07-11 08:24:46 · answer #6 · answered by ♥Doll Face♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you think that this is the end of your world as you know it... but it's not. I know you love her, but she obviously doesn't feel that strongly about you if she doesn't trust you and she says you shouldn't trust her. While you're sitting around waiting for her to decide whether you will have the privledge of being with her, she is out doing what she wants to do. I seriously doubt she is as upset as you are.
You are going to hurt, but it's only temporary. Things do get better. Eventually you will find someone who loves you AND trusts you, you just need to wait until you find her. Be patient. It does happen.
2007-07-11 08:33:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
awe wow. well remember she did say she would think about it. just give it some time. use it to find a way to work out this relationship, one with trust. you both need to come to an agreement that you need to trust her and she needs to trust you, because with no trust there's no love. but hang in there. like u said ur young and everything will work out just fine. oh and dont kill urself with no life there's no trust or love. just a dead body noone wants that.
2007-07-11 08:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by cuban cutie 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i hope this makes sense, it might not be what you want to hear, but here goes, get on with it! go to the nearest gun shop and buy the biggest one you afford, you can afford a nice expensive one, cuz you won't be needing the money anymore when you are finished with this job, go to an EXTREMELY remote area, so that IF someone hears you, it'll be way too late when they find you to get you to any help to save you, stick the gun in your mouth and pull the trigger, problem solved! THEN, we'll see how hard your girlfriend cries at your funeral, IF she even shows up.
just so you know, the above advice is ABSURD, just like pining over a girl that tells you up front she is not WORTH pining over, she said it herself, GET A GRIP MAN!!
2007-07-11 08:31:41 · answer #9 · answered by Railrider 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude four years ago i was in the same position a let a girl drive me nuts and i attempted suicide a freind found me and called 911 obviously i survived .and now every day i thank god to be alive and that the most selfish thing a person can do didnt work i have a family and 3 kids of my own and i live for me and for them and we all find the right person we just dont know when
good luck keep your head up
talk about it let your feelings out to someone that you do trust
please do not kill yourself she's not worth your life!!!
2007-07-11 08:33:21 · answer #10 · answered by jmcgraw1975@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋