i feel lame asking this. but i need to know. ALL of my relationships end up bad, and i dont know why. Ive been either cheated on, lied to, treated bad, or abused in every relationship. Every guy who says hes different then my exs always prove me wrong, they all are the same. I dont get why this happens, because i never do anything bad in relatinships. Ive never cheated, never lied, never done anything bad, in my opinion im a good girlfriend. Most people would say that its the guys that im dating. but im starting to think its not.
what the hell is wrong.
2007-07-11 08:28:45 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ha, thanks for the answer allegra. but you know the kinda people i date..
2007-07-11 08:54:56 · update #1
i have the same problem and have been looking into it aswell. I dunno about you but for me i think it has been that i am too good and understanding. I dont put my foot down or my needs first so it gives the other person ability to walk all over me.I guess its better to hold back and make sure ur needs are met instead of putting ur whole heart out there.
2007-07-11 08:36:30 · answer #1 · answered by mon 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't think this is a lame question, take a look at the relationships you have been in, what are the reason that they have ended bad, did they all cheat,lie,abused, if you are abused it is the person doing the abusing that has a problem, cheaters and lie rs are not secure people, how many relationships have you had? It does not sound like it is you it sound like the people you are dating.
2007-07-11 16:57:34 · answer #2 · answered by michael c 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably just the guys you're dating. In these times, relationships are games, they're something that people use to completely control and manipulate people. If I were you, I would just be more careful with who you give your emotions and heart to, and of course be careful who you give your body to.
Also, perhaps you should be a guy's friend first before his GF or anything like that. Then you can really see where he's coming from.
2007-07-11 15:45:20 · answer #3 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a lame question at all....but people can only do to you what you allow them to do. You need to find your own self worth and learn to love yourself. When you realize what your worth so will others. Step back and take a look at yourself, and realize your worth being treated well.
2007-07-11 15:40:44 · answer #4 · answered by KlrBluEys2002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋