Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

Can you list things that I may need for a wedding party.That are common in any western wedding party

2007-07-11 09:12:28 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

ok so i chat online occasionaly, just for laughs but is it really that safe?

2007-07-11 09:11:13 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

...to meet a guy's parents? I introduce people to my family all the time and it doesn't mean anything to me or my family. I just have a fun family and everyone loves to meet them, so it's no big deal. But I guess it's a big deal for guys - why is that?

2007-07-11 09:09:37 · 7 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

I am happily married, with a child, and awaiting another one. I just want to know for my 12 (soon to be 13) year old niece if there are people out there who focus only on the looks. I never had those problems, as a matter of fact, I really didn't suffer much with boys and looks, my husband is unique. But since my beloved niece is a little chubby, (not so much) but really pretty and with a great personality, considering today's youth, will there be anyone who will accept her for who she is and look past her appearance into her personality?

2007-07-11 09:09:18 · 3 answers · asked by Luciernaga 1 in Singles & Dating

Alright this is going to sound very unrealistic to a lot of you out there, and im pretty sure im going to get scolded for this from quite a few of you, but I can not find a helpful answer from anyone in my life because they are all too biased on one side or the other with this situation.

So my issue is this: I am under 18, and have been off and on with a person who has recently turned 21 since around January. Due to the age issues we have decided to remain seperate in terms of reffering to ourselves as boyfriend and girlfriend. I have never been in love before him, and I believe I could spend my entire life with him, as does he with me. Our parents don't know about us. About two weeks ago he found out that he is only going to live for a maximum of 5 years- I am completely devastated. I want to marry him and spend the rest of my life with him. I don't know if I should tell my parents or not. Marry when im 18 or not? I am so confused and head over heals in love. Help? Advice?

2007-07-11 09:09:12 · 3 answers · asked by McCall 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

What would you think if your husband unexpectedly took you for a ride in a hot air balloon?

2007-07-11 09:05:32 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

long story short..A guy liked me and I liked him..after I told him I liked him he stopped hanging out. I recently let him know how I felt and I kinda yelled at him for not associating with me.. he said he was 'sorry and we'll hang out soon I work 58 hrs a week i'm so busy' Okay, well, he's one of those people who isn't seen as attractive and no girl goes for him..because most girls are superficial. but i saw something special in him, i really did. and it hurt when I put myself out there and he just kind of didn't do anything. It baffled me that he just didn't take the opportunity to be with me because he used to really like me..he hung out with me all last summer. this is a guy who always told me how 'lonely' he was..he's a troubled guy and we both understood eachother really well..i knew he was into drugs..but it's now gotten a lot worse he takes a lot of stuff now..please be honest: Is he just not seeing right because the drugs? Or is there something wrong with me?

2007-07-11 09:05:19 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 09:03:05 · 8 answers · asked by ManhattanGirl 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Females, If you would like a guy to approach to you, that he is interested in u what does he need to do to get ur attention or to have u be interested in him. I like this girl that is lives below my apt. Whenever we see eachother we speak. What are signs that she might show if she has a bf? I have never seen her with a guy in the apt complex except one time awhile ago and i havent seen him since. i truly like her and i would love to get to know her. what should be the first step? what should i say the next time i see her? do i have a chance? thanks ladies.

2007-07-11 09:00:19 · 10 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

If someone had to pick out the perfect person for you and you had no say in it... would it be your mom? your dad? brother or sister? best friend? Why?

2007-07-11 08:56:50 · 29 answers · asked by Challah back Girl... 5 in Singles & Dating

I've been friends with the groom for 5 years. We went to college together. When I found out he got engaged, I asked how long they had been dating, & his response was very matterthefactly "The same as you & Mitch (my bf)." We've met each other's significant others multiple times, but they honestly don't know each well, since we live in different states. The bride & groom's relationship is quite similiar to my bf & I since we started dating at the same time & the course of the relationships have both been over long distance. Groom in CA, bride & my bf in WI, & me in IL

I received a wedding invitation addressed just to me, & since it did not say "& Guest" I will not be bringing my boyfriend of 2 yrs along. I understand wedding etiquette & how expensive they can be, so am not taking it personally, but
1) Do I have a right to feel a bit snubbed?
2) In the event my bf & I get married (& it's going that route) will I be expected to invite this friend's new wife?

2007-07-11 08:56:25 · 26 answers · asked by HefeweizenHippie 2 in Weddings

Is it too much to ask for in a girl to be a virgin?

And, if your a muslim or even christian would it be wrong to marry a girl who had sex with another before entering into another another marriage?

And, what do you think of women having their hymen's restored to trick guys their vagina hadn't been taken by another?

2007-07-11 08:55:31 · 53 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 08:48:26 · 14 answers · asked by Concerned Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im finally getting to the point of realizing that the name calling and outbursts and accusing me of things I have not done are all wrong and are not going to get better, so....Im finally getting ready to leave. My question is why do I attract guys that are drug addicted ( which I find out later and I have never used) or demeaning and want to control me. They come on like bangbuster with the romance and reel me in like Im such a sucker for it. I have been told Im attractive and have a decent job and raised my daughter by myself. I do have good qualities so Im not a loser. Im just confused and feel totally dumb. Am I that insecure Im just blind to it? Please don't anwser me with insults, I just can't take it today. I just need help to know why. Yes by the way Im going to go to some kind of a therapist. I know I can use it.

2007-07-11 08:47:09 · 23 answers · asked by shawnie 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am getting married next month .I have programme i wonder if you would make just short programme so i can see if I am on track/ not Thankyou

2007-07-11 08:47:05 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I have cheated on my husband with another man. My husband is unaware of the infidelity, but he does know that I am unhappy in the marriage. My husband is a very nice person whom I have known for over eight years, and he does not deserve what I have done to him. I want to leave him, but it is so hard when I see how sad he is when I mention it. I haven't been happy for the last few years, because there is little between us besides a friendship. Since I betrayed his trust, I do not feel the friendship will be enough to sustain the crumbling marriage. He does not know about the cheating, and I do not want to hurt him by telling him the truth. I love him dearly, but I am no longer in love with him. I know I should have opened up to him instead of cheating, but its too late to change that. Any advice on what my next move should be?

2007-07-11 08:46:36 · 19 answers · asked by Sandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my wife says if i carry on drinking all day with my mates & sleeping with prostitutes shes going to leave me, ive been married ten years and this has not bothered her in the past, ive told her shes being a bit unreasonable about this but she says shes had enough, i need my freedom and enjoiy what i do so why should i stop?

2007-07-11 08:45:20 · 34 answers · asked by lovebug 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My boyfriend and I are planning a trip to Vegas. What would happen if we got married before my divorce was final?

2007-07-11 08:44:26 · 15 answers · asked by summergrl8855 1 in Marriage & Divorce

lets assume your wifes best girlfriend caught you having an affair with someone. She, the wifes girlfriend, always had a thing for you. Now she uses what she has on you for her benefit, you become sort of a slave to her to keep her quiet. How do you get out of a situation like this???

2007-07-11 08:43:10 · 18 answers · asked by R.Longo L 3 in Family

im 14 n since the past 4 yrs, as i was growin up, ive been hvin problems with her, she dnt understand me n thinks im selfish n all i care bout is my studies n not my family

ive been through a lot n dnt cut maself, i jus stay patient, in fact, im always in a good mood at school, makin evryone laugh n hvin a good time

but when i get home, i jus sit in front of the laptop, tlkin to ppl dat love me

ma dad lives in another country n so i dnt see him much often but he loves me a lot n i love him too

my mother has always preferred my brother

she hates my dad n his family, n says ive got his blood, dats why she hates me too....

i do evrythin, i wash the dishes, hve good grades, im not bein a slut, im not on drugs, im cultural n still she dnt treat me right

she suffers from depression which causes her to explode real quick, but i dnt like it
smtimes, when she in a good mood, she hugs me n be's nice but den when i say the truth, she says im answerin bck n need to be sorted

2007-07-11 08:43:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Help!!! S.O.S

2007-07-11 08:40:47 · 18 answers · asked by JustAGirl 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and i have known each other since 4th grade, i used to not be bothered by her copying me but now that ive noticed it bothers me constantly, its really not fair, and then she is all like you copied me, when i really didnt. What should i do? it annoys me.

2007-07-11 08:35:35 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-07-11 08:35:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I'm seventeen, and I really need advice of someone a little bit more mature.. If you can please give me your email , I would appreciate it ....

thanks.

2007-07-11 08:35:13 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why do guys always make the first approach, first to ask to dance, first to ask out?

why dont women do it as often? is it because of a fear of rejection, confidence issues? I cant remember the last time a women's been earnest about her feelings towards me. nor can i remember a women ever showing ANY initial interest in me. they always try to show disinterest. I always have to suck it up and make the first move. this is not really a bad thing, but sometimes i get rejected, and that never feels too great.

what do you think?

2007-07-11 08:35:08 · 6 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm getting married in less than two months. I don't maintain a relationship with my son's father outside of money and visitation. How do I make him aware of the change that is about to take place as far as the step parent entering our son's life? And when do I do it? Prior to the wedding or after? By the way, his soon to be step father is already a very active part of my son's life and they adore eachother. My son's biological father isn't very involved outside of his childsupport payments... he sees him very infrequently and sporadically... at best once every two months, if that.
Thank you for your suggestions.

2007-07-11 08:33:19 · 4 answers · asked by Princesa Morenita 3 in Family

i see it all the time in movies and read about it in books but i just don't know.

2007-07-11 08:32:28 · 24 answers · asked by trix 2 in Singles & Dating

I need some ideas of waht to do for a romantic date. I live in a really small town so there is not much to do. thanks for your ideas!

2007-07-11 08:30:50 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 08:30:18 · 15 answers · asked by hardybody111 1 in Singles & Dating

I have this friend, and she decides that her boyfriend is more important to her than keeping her friends. When not a year later he treats her like he owns her and now she has no friends. So because he doesn't like me i'm a nice girl and willing to be friends with both of them,she isn't allowed to talk to me, hang out with me or answer my emails. I'm gave up about 6 months ago trying to talk to her but i just think that its pathetic what people can do to you to change who you are and how you think., i just find it hard to understand how a strong person like my friend or shall i say ex friend can let other people control them?
why do people let themselves be walked all over.? How can you be happy when you only spend time with one person who doesn't respect you enough to walk by you when your out in public but leads you like a master?
Its completely unfair that i can not talk to my friend. I guess she wasn't much of a friend to begin with.

2007-07-11 08:29:55 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends