Is it too much to ask for a virgin?

Question

Is it too much to ask for in a girl to be a virgin?

And, if your a muslim or even christian would it be wrong to marry a girl who had sex with another before entering into another another marriage?

And, what do you think of women having their hymen's restored to trick guys their vagina hadn't been taken by another?

Answer 1

Is it too much to ask for you to not be a hypocrite? To answer your question, if you are a virgin then you should date only virgins and have a lovely life. Since most men are not as judgmental and archaic as you, I don't think that there is a huge market for hymen restoration, but I may be wrong.

Answer 2

Now a days, you don't find many people getting married who are still virgins. It doesn't mean you can't find someone though, I know plenty of people who are saving themselves.

I'm a Christian and I don't think it would be wrong to marry a non-virgin. To me, it's not that big of a deal as long as the person hasn't slept with a bunch of people and as long as I'm the only one they're with.

And about the whole restoration thing, i think it's a load of crap. They can go ahead and do that painful surgery, but it doesn't make them any more of a virgin. Plus, if a girl wants to pretend she's still a virgin, all she has to do is say she is. There's no medical way to tell that she isn't except for if she's had children. Some women can break their hymen before having sex from various things.

Answer 3

You have too much time on your hands...It a matter of personal preference but if you are not a virgin yourself its wrong to expect the girl to be one!As for hymen restoration if men did not judge women so harshly and would look in the mirror before judging it would not even exisit.Also do men not lie about past sexual experiences?Its the same thing is it not So dont put a double standard on women unless you want one on you!Is it too much to expect a guy to be a virgin?
P.S not all women bleed their first time some are born without a hymen or over the years have accidently broken it via tampons or exercise.

Answer 4

It is very hard these days to find a woman who is a virgin, yes, sex should be special and should wait till your with the person your gonna marry but this is the year 2007 and it just doesn't happen like that anymore...and if your muslim or christian, i don't think it would be wrong to marry someone who isn't a virgin, because i no for a fact that Jesus forgives...and if she's willing to now be with you and only you and she has been saved then i think it's ok, about them restoring there hymen to trick guys, that's so aweful, yes i think that's wrong, if a woman can't be honest about her virginity and goes through all that trouble then i wouldn't even be with her, she's not trustworthy.

Answer 5

I have to agree with many of the afore answers. But feel it necessary to reflect on a few that got lost in the mix. That is if a person has saved themselves for marriage why can the not expect the same from who they marry. Many a marriage has failed for more stupid things then this. If it is that important to a person that they are still a virgin and they want to marry a virigin more power to them. Many of the statments make it sound like being a virigin at marraige is impossible that is absurd. If we look to our history many people waited. By promoting something like its impossible is like saying that everyone is just horny brianless animals that cant keep pants on.

Now if the person is not a virigin then they should not expect the one they marry to have held themselves to a higher standard. Which many are approaching this with the idea that all males have sex before marriage. Wake up call not all I know of some men that waited I wish I would have but didnt.

Answer 6

The hymen doesnt necessarily have to be tore through sex! I think having the hymen replaced is so dam pathetic - just so some guy can have you and think hes the first. IT IS SO SAD INDEED.

It is up to individuals if they want to marry someone whos had sex with someone else - so be it!

Not all women will wait until they are married and why should they anyway! they could wait forever for mr right and besides lots of us arent nuns- celibate!

It should not matter if the girls been with someone else before you- all that matters is that they love you, and the same feelings from both parties.

Answer 7

A girl can decide to keep her virginity not u asking her to be. and girls have different rate of anxiety some girls have sex at the ages of 12- 14 but some can even stay till 18 and 20 so a woman is a woman nothing like virgin.

Answer 8

Yes, it is.

I think it is very sad that a man would expect a woman to be a virgin in order to marry them, and yet it would be okay for the man to not be a virgin. Hypocritical.

A sad reflection on the world that women might have their hymens restored. And that any man would expect a woman to be a virgin.

Here's to broadening of minds and moving on from ignorance.

Answer 9

Wow, your religion really messed up your head. First of all, women today have sexual relationships, so anyone you get involved with will most likely have had sex before. Why would your God, or anybody's God, hate a girl for that, as long as she's responsible? And as for your last sentence, I can't imagine any level-headed woman "having their hymen restored" for any man. That's a really perverted concept. If you believe that, then I feel sorry for any woman who gets involved with you. You're obviously not very intelligent and are mentally brainwashed by some sick religion.

Answer 10

You have issues! you should love them no matter not this world is too modern for you! Its not a trick like i said u have issues also women can loose their hymen from exercise bet u didn't know that. It wouldn't be wrong to marry someone who had sex before marriage now let me ask u a question i bet u don't think its wrong for a man to have sex before marriage do you no, i hope the door smacks you on the way out bye