2007-07-11 08:48:26 · 14 answers · asked by Concerned Mom 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
consider the reasons that brought you to the seperation. Are they something you guys can and want to work out? I went back with my ex twice, but all it did was delay the divorce. I thought I was doing the right thing, but now looking back, I wish I would have never gone back.
2007-07-11 08:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by LAURA G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well without more information it is hard to say. Keep in mind the reasons why you became separated. Is there more stuff there that you two cannot be together and you are just holding on to the good memories and not really remembering what went wrong in the relationship. If thats not the case and it was a mistake for you to separating. Than you should just be honest with him and tell him how you are feeling and tell him that you are willing to work on what ever happened and that you love him. Just communicate. That is the key to a great marriage. Good luck!!
2007-07-11 08:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by butterfly_2blue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, take a good look at why you are separated. Was it your choice or his, or was it a mutual decision. Usually, the problem will not go away and you may end up seperated again. Marriage counseling is always an option. Be true to yourself though.
2007-07-11 08:57:42 · answer #3 · answered by LISA F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication between both of you is key to a successful marriage full of love between 2 people. Communicate to understand what caused the separation, and ask the hard questions to keeping your marriage or moving on. The answer lies in the words and actions of both of you....good luck
2007-07-11 08:54:46 · answer #4 · answered by Noe F 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Communication is the key to any relationship, you need to talk to him, tell him how your feeling and see if he's willing to try and make it work, it can't be a one sided thing, you both have to be willing to work on the things that made this relationship come undone....it may take time, be patient, tell him your willing to take it one day at a time so he doesn't feel preasured, and don't give up hope, when someone really loves you and there set free, if it was meant to be they'll come back to you, keep the faith.
2007-07-11 08:53:26 · answer #5 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you separated cause you still love him and want to be with him, but he doesn't love you and doesn't want to be with you?
2007-07-11 08:52:57 · answer #6 · answered by ron-D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him that you still love him. If he says he feels the same, ask him if he would be willing to go to a marriage counselor to work out your problems. Marriage takes two people working at it to work.
2007-07-11 08:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should talk to your husband about this and see where his head is. If he is on a different page then you must move on with your life and try to be happy for you.
Good Luck!
2007-07-11 08:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Christina 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lure him back with the charms you used to win him in the first place!
2007-07-11 08:52:19 · answer #9 · answered by John Timothy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends, why are you two separated in the first place anyway?
2007-07-11 08:55:10 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋