Why do women RARELY make the first move?

Question

why do guys always make the first approach, first to ask to dance, first to ask out?

why dont women do it as often? is it because of a fear of rejection, confidence issues? I cant remember the last time a women's been earnest about her feelings towards me. nor can i remember a women ever showing ANY initial interest in me. they always try to show disinterest. I always have to suck it up and make the first move. this is not really a bad thing, but sometimes i get rejected, and that never feels too great.

what do you think?

Answer 1

Because if a girl dates 10 men she is called a whore but if a guy does it he is a stud. It is superficial cr_p if a women makes the first move, more power to her.

Answer 2

I LOVE this question. First off, let me say that rejection is the mans burden. We risk it all, we have to be the ones to ask and most women don't know how that feels. However, the more they like you the more they help you out. Eventually, you will get asked out but not often.
But your reall problem here is looking at the equation the wrong way. I have GREAT news for you, so listen up close: THERE IS NO REJECTION!! So relax.
Look at it like this brother. If you go up to a girl, you chit chat she laughs, you get some good "signals" (she touches you), and you ask her for her home number. Right? Your with me so far.

Now she says no, or she gives you a fake number. Ouch rejected...right? No. Listen women could have 1000 reasons why not to give you her number. She could have a boyfriend, be leaving the country soon, recently broken hearted, and the list goes on and on.

Now, let's say she just doens't find you attractive. Rejection...No, wrong again. This is NOT rejection. Lets say this IS the reson you don't get a phone number, just becase she doesn't like the way you look isn't rejection. The way you look isn't who you are, it's just the way you look. It's a sad day in life when a man finally understands that all the women walking the earth might not find him the sexiest reature alive. This isn't your fault. For everyone who thinks your not "thei type" there is another somewhere that would love to eat you alive.

This isn't rejection. Rejection is being married 25 years and having your wife file for divorce. That happend. THAT hurts. Just because you have been chatting with some lady for a few minutes and she decided she doesn't want to give you a shot, she isn't rejecting who you are as a person. So relax, go in there and charm their pants off. It's a numbers game man. The more you ask the more success you will have. Spead the word. I hate to hear guys so affraid of women. She's not standing over there with a loaded assault riffle. Go over there and make her laugh, bring some joy into her day. Your not like other guys, YOUR BOLD!! ....AND HANDSOM!!

Answer 3

it doesnt feel right for most women to make the first move. but thats not all women in general. some will some wont. my problem is that it is a fear of rejection. *it doesnt feel to good*

Answer 4

Culture.

Answer 5

well you see, if us women ask then all the girlz who get turned down have feelings and then tell their girlfriends, but if a guy asks first they mostly just move on and joke about it.....

Answer 6

shyness