Females, If you would like a guy to approach to you, that he is interested in u what does he need to do to get ur attention or to have u be interested in him. I like this girl that is lives below my apt. Whenever we see eachother we speak. What are signs that she might show if she has a bf? I have never seen her with a guy in the apt complex except one time awhile ago and i havent seen him since. i truly like her and i would love to get to know her. what should be the first step? what should i say the next time i see her? do i have a chance? thanks ladies.
2007-07-11 09:00:19 · 10 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her politely and respecfully if she is in a relationship. if she ask's why then there is you chance to let her know how you feel. Please dont mistake a girls niceness with she liking you. thats a mistake a lot of men and women are making.
of course you have a chance. if you are a great guy then y not?
2007-07-11 09:09:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she hasn't said anything about having a boyfriend yet she probably doesn't...or she's a sl ut, and has one but doesn't care.
Really the only way to know if you will make it with her is to as you said "get to know her" so ask her to go somewhere with you or do something with you. Nothing lame either. No movies, or coffee houses, something different...some kind of volunteer work so if she doesn't like you, you can play it off as you just needed help and it will also show that you are not superficial.
2007-07-11 09:09:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Actually the question you should be asking yourself.. is what are you doing typing on your pc, when theres a great woman to talk to. Go knock on her door.. introduce yourself properly if u havent already.. and say.. just wandering if you would fancy a coffee with me sometime.. we've been living here for a while and spoke a couple of times.. so, what do you think? Then see her reaction.. what have you got to loose.. get to know her.. find out what her hobbies are, job interests.. places she like to go.. blah blah... you can do it.. now go chat her up.. you never know.. she might like you more than you think..best of luck hun..
2007-07-11 09:08:00 · answer #3 · answered by Twinkle 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think that you should flat out ask "Do you have a boyfriend?" after some small talk that you guy's formed. She won't be offended and that'll give her a hint that you wanna go out. I wouldn't hesitate to say yes if you were cute eather. Girls like down-to earth guys and think that that is a really good trait. The girls also know that there isn't a very big chance that any down-to earth guys cheat on them eather!
2007-07-11 09:07:03 · answer #4 · answered by mickeys.girlfriend♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had this guy that lived next door to me, and I could tell that he was interested in me, and I thought he was good looking as well, one day he knock on my door and ask me if I was interested in going to lay out by the pool. I did, maybe in passing just ask her if she would be interested in laying out by the pool, and see where it goes from there.
2007-07-11 09:08:57 · answer #5 · answered by Cindy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just casually ask her out on a date thats pretty casual, so she is comfortable saying yes even if she is in a relationship...ask her out to icecream or to watch a movie in your appt or try out a recipe on her or something. then once you guys have hte chance to talk for a while, see if you like her and if you guys hit if off than you can ask her on the formal date...and if you find that she is in a relationship than you can still be friends.
2007-07-11 09:05:48 · answer #6 · answered by p123 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the first step is to do exactly what you said here... tell her that you would like to get to know her more and would she like to go idk get a cup of coffee one morning... then if she says well i have a boyfriend then done deal wait it out she might realize she wants to give you a chance and well actually thats about it thats all you have to do and when you go out just be yourself and help her get to know you
2007-07-11 09:10:46 · answer #7 · answered by Jacks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ASK HER! OMG, if you are not direct with your intentions and create some kind of communication that enables both her to understand your feelings your not going to get anywhere.
2007-07-11 09:05:52 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her the next time u c her or w/e that u were wondering if she would mind going to dinner sometime or just something like that. just don't come on too strong. good luck. =)
2007-07-11 09:05:25 · answer #9 · answered by heather 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her over for BBQ one saturday. If she has a man she'll tell you then.
2007-07-11 09:11:58 · answer #10 · answered by taz4x4512 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋