Me and my boyfriend got into a fight on the 4th of July. He showed up with a friend and two girls and just tapped me and didn't talked to me the rest of the night. I felt hurt and I didn't like that he had been with two girls all day so I gave him the cold shoulder.
He sent me a text that said "You always do this. You had to of accepted the fact that at soem point id hang out with a girl or two. i dont want to have anything to do with this anymore."
I said "I don't care that you're with other girls. I just wish you would of talked to me instead of tapping me and running away"
Then he said "I was with friends. if i stopped i never would of found them again"
Well he has a cell phone and I'm sure he has their numbers...It's not the 1600s! We haven't spoken to eachother for a week now. Is it over?
2007-07-11 08:08:26 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
What an iorny this took place on independance day, could this have been an omen. you have every right to feel hurt.
what a cruel and inconsiderate thing to do by some one who's suppose to love you.
Yet some how i get the feeling your a soft hearted person, and still have feelings for him, i could be wrong. Be that as it may, can i suggest you try and get over him and move on, my guess is your still young
enough to meet another someone who'll treat you with more consideration than this
clown has. Another thing i reread the text and the part about you having to well, get use to the fact that this may become an ongoing practice of his . . .
Now i'll ask you a stupid question,
" Do You Realy Need This In Your Life " ?
btw, what was he doing with his friend's
instead of being with you in the first place
on such a festive occasion? . . .
good luck 2u.
2007-07-11 08:25:58 · answer #1 · answered by Ben 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unfortunately honey he looks like he is bored and wants to taste other fish in the sea. On the other hand he wants you dangling in case he changes his mind after tasting the other fish. Act smart dump him before he dumps you. That way you would feel better and wouldn't have to bear the trauma of being discarded. Rather he would have to bear it all his life. So many out there move on sweetie. He isn't the committing types. Good luck!
2007-07-11 08:13:54 · answer #2 · answered by Rick 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, I'd be hoping it was over. What kind of guy brings two other girls around his GIRLFRIEND and expects you to accept that he'd hang out with other girls? That's ridiculous. This guy is a loser. Why do you have spend one more minute worrying if it's over. Hope that it is and find a better guy.
2007-07-11 08:12:34 · answer #3 · answered by Wiser1 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
SWEETIE WHEN HE SAID: I DON'T WANT TO HAVE ANYTHING TO DO WITH THIS ANYMORE. HE MEANT IT'S OVER, I WANT NOTHING 2 DO WITH "YOU" ANYMORE!!!!! SO YES IT'S SOOOOOOOOOOO OVER. U NEED 2 ACCEPT IT AND MOVE ON.
I DON'T MEAN 2 SOUND LIKE A B*TCH BUT BABY U NEED 2 GET A CLUE AND FIND YOURSELF SOMEONE ELSE. THIS BOY IS DONE WITH U AND UR RELATIONSHIP.
WHY THE HELL SHOULD U FREAKING ACCEPT THAT HE GOES OUT WITH OTHER GIRLS!!!!!!!!!!!? WTF? IT'S NOT THE 1600'S?!!!!!!!!!!!! COME ON NOW GIRL!!!!!!!! RESPECT YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!! LOVE YOURSELF!!!!!!!!!! AND KNOW THAT UR WORTH WAY MORE THAN THAT!!!!
HE BLEW U OFF AND NOW U NEED 2 PRETEND U DON'T CARE AND MOVE ON. HE DID. TAKE CARE AND GOOD LUCK.
2007-07-11 08:19:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it hurts, but move on .... you can find someone to treat you with a lot more respect, that you deserve. Shoot for the STARS!! The Sky's the limit, later you will be happy you did. Good Luck
2007-07-11 08:12:48 · answer #5 · answered by Charley 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sorry but that is what it sounds like. i am not the jealous type but if i find out my girl does stuff like that and hangs out with two guys all day and blows me off for them i would be pissed and if they respond like that then give it another week til u get the call from him and at that moment let him know i don't trust your feelings for me then get a rebound
2007-07-11 08:17:04 · answer #6 · answered by merlyn r 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, no, you need to forget about it, I know it's hard, but try. I have tons of guy friends, and no feelings for them, so pretend like it didn't happen. Sometimes, if you like someone, you need to make a sacrifice. Send him a text saying "sorry" and then see if things get better. If they don't, screw the guy. You don't want to be with someone who never forgives or gives.
2007-07-11 08:13:53 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
it may be over.. and who cares? he sounds like an as*hole anyways. Why don't u find yourself a good mature man? Instead of a little boy who is trying to make u jealous.
2007-07-11 08:11:42 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yep. Have a happy life honey. You are way too young to wait on someone that may not want you to be the center of their attention.
2007-07-11 08:11:59 · answer #9 · answered by New Nana 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd say it is over. And you will be better off for it! This guy is clearly slime. When you're in a commited relationship, you shouldn't be acting single! He clearly wants to be single, and is too immature to be dating one girl exclusively.
2007-07-11 08:15:35 · answer #10 · answered by ✿Donna❀ 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋