How can I be less intimidating?

Question

Ok - I'm just me. Last night, I was talking to a male friend who knows me quite well. We were discussing my relationship with a man currently my life. He surprised me by telling me that he found me to be very intimidating at first and that maybe the problems I have been having getting this man to move into a closer friendship/relationship may have something to do with this. Looking back at some other recent relationships, I'm thinking that he may be on to something and maybe I need to figure a way to still be me and not come off like this because the irony is that I am the most insecure person I know and can't see how anyone would look at me and think I was anything but! Help!

Answer 1

Just work on it! Ask your friend for specific examples of how he once thought you were intimidating. Work on those mannerisms/habits/personality traits. Then see if anything changes with this new gentleman.
I'm not suggesting that you change who you are in order to make life easier on other people - who the heck would want to do that??!! Lol. Just tweak yourself and your outlook on life here and there. That will eventually translate into how you come across to people, be it speech, tone, body language, countenance, etc.
Good luck! :-D

Answer 2

I really think an unmerciful Bare-Bottom spanking is in order.
It will help you get ur mind right, and it will help you overcome your insecurities, (I'm sure you will try to escape)