Ex-grilfriend and I have been together for 4 yrs. Weve been through alot but always managed to maintain our relationship. The first 2 yrs. I had the upperhand broke her heart a couple times but came back to what was important to me. Aug. 06, she changed, was bored, unhappy and unaffectionate, not always but sometimes. We broke up in Feb. 07 but maintained friends, it was rough and filled w/ jealousy, she stayed alone, I messed w/ 2 girls, I told her she forgave me. In June we got back together a she was just like the old her for 2 wks. then she became cold. 2 wks. ago she told me she didnt see our relationship going anywhere so we had to end it. 3 days ago she went out on a date w/ a guy she was introduced to 2 mos. ago but was not interested in. So for the past 3 days she has been talking to him and seeing him constantly, she still me daily and says she cant take me just falling out of her life but she is unwilling to stop talking to him because they are "romantic friends" who
2007-07-11 08:01:09 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
are neither interested in arelationship. She hasnt seen anyone but me for 4 yrs. but still I was insecure and jealous, Im willing to give that up but I cry to her and she still wont take me back, She claims she will come see me tommorow, and make love to me one more time, she wants to be friends but I want to be back how we were can I do something to make her come back or is it too early to even be grieving like this?
2007-07-11 08:03:21 · update #1
Well here's the thing...You messing with two girls is just wrong! You don't love her enough if you did that. If she is unhappy with you then maybe you should part your seperate ways. Sounds to me like things won't work out between you. Seems like you both want different things and or people but are too comfortable knowing the other will be there for you to fall back on. You need to go your seperate ways and be with someone you will be happy with! Obviously your not happy with each other!
2007-07-11 08:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by ♫☆ Y!A Princessღ ♥ 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its just going to stay the way it is... sorry buddy... I mean, I feel the same way about my ex-boyfriend who is my great freind now, but he has moved on and is seeing someone else now. It broke my heart again, but life will go on and you will find someone better... I cant give much more of an answer than that....
2007-07-11 15:06:32 · answer #2 · answered by mirkwoodmaiden17 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First, no, you cannot "make" someone fall in love. Second, it's time to move on, you're living in a soap opera, not a relationship.
2007-07-11 15:05:19 · answer #3 · answered by randy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋