ok so my best friend is getting so mad at me. Before she was like really good to me, but then i dont know wat hapenned to her she started being really rude to me. My every friend thinks that i m a really nice girl every 1 thinks that i m a really good friend, but i wanna know wat has happened to her. Before summer vacations i made cards for like my whole class and i made 1 for her too, i made 1 for her best friend haily too but by mistake i forgot it at my house and haily was like a kind of sad because every 1 got it and she didnt. Then i told her that by mistake i forgot her card at my home and then she wasnt sad but after that i saw my best friends card in the garbage can when i came online i wanted to talk to her and she was like stop disturbing me, u are so annoying, and she told me to shut the f*** up i was really sad tell me was it my fault? I wanna know serious answers. Plz help me with this problem and I cant leave her just like that. Plz give me serious answers and in detail.
2007-07-11 09:57:30 · 11 answers · asked by Romaisa 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
amm i cant go to school Elfchic summer vacations are on and i dont think she would even listen to me she has totally changed.
2007-07-11 15:43:43 · update #1
Her other best friend probably felt hurt, she probably thought that you meant to forget her. Its tottaly not your fault. Sometimes when you have two best friends, you choose the one who got hurt to stay by their side. Your best friend probably stuck to her other best friend's side. I bet if you send that other girl her card, she will feel better. Try being really nice to the other girl, and she will tell your best friend who will start being nice to again. If she doesnt understand, she isnt worth it. Hope I helped! Good luck!
Manda
p.s. I know how hard that is when your best friend is mad, and you dont understand why, and its not your fault. Hold your head up high. =]
2007-07-13 02:14:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
She is mad because she feels that u dissed her best friend. It wasn't your fault - and you explained and apologized. That is really the only thing you can do. But, tell me. Is Haily talking to you? If Haily is not mad she should not be mad either. And this to will pass. Give her some space and play it out from there. She'll come around to her senses.
2007-07-19 08:29:20 · answer #2 · answered by spreetray 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, Two's company, three's a crowd! Or that's how most women think. Chances are you just PO'ed one of them, and that one started a vendetta against you by convincing the other one that you did not deserve their friendship. If you could find out which one was the culprit, you could contact the other and retaliate, and get them to side up with you. I have found that some women have no problem with telling everything they know, so put your ear to the ground and sooner or later you will hear what happened, from someone you probably do not even know. Just have some fun out of it, and get even, with both of them if necessary. Good question, and enjoy your payback. :>) Darryl S.
2016-05-19 22:13:24 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend is obviously quite pissed with you. If she is your best friend then, why wasn't she the first you gave cards to? I think she's crushed that 'forgot' her card at home BUT, you had all the others. What the F*** is up with that? I'd be saying that to myself. She's hurt, confused, angry and quite pissed off. After she cools down for a couple of weeks, start to write her short letters explaining what had happened. Ask her questions. Humble yourself to save your friend or say screw it and don't worry about it anymore. Forgive or forget.
2007-07-18 18:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by talon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's really kinda silly that she would suddenly treat you so badly without telling you why.
I think it's too hard to talk with her online. What do you think about going up to her at school actually and ask, "you've been acting like you're angry with me, can you please tell me why you are mad at me cuz it's not fair to me if I can't even explain for myself."
And if she just ignores you, and won't say anything, then I'd just just not to worry, and let it be. She'll come talk to you again when she cools off. And if she doesn't come talk to you again, then she isn't a friend worth keeping.
2007-07-11 13:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by Elfchic 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
have u ever thought that maybe its not about u? when people are hurt or angry they go after the ones closest to them. she might be going through a lot with her family. and sometimes what u dont want to do, u have to do (just give up the friendship) just drop it, let her know u'll be there if she needs a friend. personally its just drama in my eyes and y on earth would u want to be friends with someone that does nothing but be a total ***** to u? kind of despret on ur side.
2007-07-19 02:00:29 · answer #6 · answered by ..::..Lovin him..::.. 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like your friend has jealousy issues. You treated her the same as everyone else, not special like a best friend. Now she is lashing out because she doesn't want you to see that she is going through these childish emotions that she can't seem to control. Find a way to make her feel special again I'm sure she will get over it.
2007-07-18 05:49:48 · answer #7 · answered by Funeeegurl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh i dont no y she was angry , i mean if she is gonna act like that suddenly then she is not a proper mate!
you shouldnt want to be friends with sum1 who is your best m8 1 tym n the next hates you
dont worry
just 4get it
x xx
2007-07-11 10:03:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
that has happened to me once with my friend. the reason it happened is she was under pressure from another friend, the other friend was talking bad about me and my friend (michelle) starting agreeing with her so she would totally blow me off when i tried to talk to her, and i was so confused it made me very sad. Your friend could be under the pressure of someone telling them not to like you, it happens often, try to talk to her in person when no one else is around, it may help with your situation if not, then she is not a good friend to be treating you like this.
2007-07-11 10:06:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds as if her feeling were hurt deeply and she can't let it go. I say let her be for a while. let her sort things out. if she says things in words that hurt, maybe there more going on at home or something and she just can't handle things. Let her breath and if she can be a friend for you, she should approach you..not you keep trying to mend things
2007-07-18 23:45:28 · answer #10 · answered by waterfall53 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋