I have a crush on this guy. He is friends with my friends.
We've been talking online forever, but not so much in person because we never had the chance.
Online, we end up talking for hours and it always seems as if he loggs on right after I do.
One time, i invited him for dinner with a bunch friends, but I didn't get to talk to him.
I'm afraid to ask if he wants to hang out, because I am being very doubtful, and I don't want him to think that I'm being clingy...
What should I do? Or what are some good ways to ask a guy out?
2007-07-11 10:12:19 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Also, I'm pretty sure he knows that I like him, because i told him a LONG time ago.
I don't know if he remembers, or if he took it seriously though.
And so... I just don't want things to get awkward if we did hang out. Even if it was a casual thing, would he consider it as a formal date? Or would you???
2007-07-11 10:26:22 · update #1
He stopped talking to me online!
2007-07-12 06:25:34 · update #2
It's not weird for a girl to ask a guy out, but be prepared for a 'no'.
I'm not saying the answer WILL be no, but there is always the possibility, so if you are prepared ahead of time for it you will not be as devastated. Consider that guys have to go through this a LOT more than girls.
Meanwhile, if he says yes, then you've gotten what you wanted, but if he says no, think ahead of time if you will be able to stay friends with him.
2007-07-11 10:48:50 · answer #1 · answered by missmuffin 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are hell bent on asking him out and you think that he will never ask you out by himself try making it very casual. Going to a movie that both of you want to see and making it more of a event to see the movie(and not to see you)will take the stress off him and he wont think of it being "clingy". If that dosent seem to float your boat do what you did before, invite some other friends and that will deffentaly lighten the mood, you dont want to get stuck in the friends zone so still send out those little flirts like girls do so well and he will pick it up. Good Luck!
2007-07-11 10:18:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely not weird to ask him out. You might want to check and see if he's interested in pursuing your relationship beyond the internet (some people like the security of having a screen in front of them but get freaked out when it comes to actually hanging out in person). Try asking him anonymously, so you don't have to put yourself on the line. There are a lot of sites that let you do that, like hikkup.com -- you can just send him (and maybe a few other people to be safe) a message like "would you be interested in going on a date with me?"
2007-07-11 11:24:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest that you ask him again to have dinner. This time, however, make sure that just one other "couple" goes with you. That way it is definitely a date and both of you will have the comfortability of two other people to talk to. I don't think "comfortability" is a word, but you know what I mean.
Just come right out and ask him. You'll be surprised at how receptive he'll be to your directness and decisiveness.
Good luck!
2007-07-11 10:23:07 · answer #4 · answered by Libby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to respond to your final question particular all young ones are like this and could locate any excuse to tease somebody else. this is generally executed to cover any problems they could be having. to respond to your unique question once I have been a splash youthful it became unprecedented that a woman could enable a boy comprehend that they have got been involved inspite of the undeniable fact that it sort of feels ordinary those days for it to be an equivalent component. i in my opinion have been given which incorporate my spouse using her asking me on a date. The lad may even delight in it while you're making the 1st pass as he could be fairly shy too. attempt and make the 1st pass because it could in straightforward terms bring about certainly one of two procedures. this can be the commencing up of a very good dating yet while not you're youthful and characteristic dissimilar existence left to rejoice with your self and that i'm particular this could not be the only dating you've got.
2017-01-02 05:10:02 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course its not wierd for a girl to ask a guy!
just be like "hey, wanna go to the movies on friday?" or something like that (it doesnt have to be movies but just something you'd like to do with him). If you ask like this, it doesnt sound too much like a date (so he wont be scared or think you are clingy) Chances are he'll say yes and you'll have a great time... Good luck!
2007-07-11 10:15:05 · answer #6 · answered by ✿ 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit CHATTING!!!!!!!!!! Okay---get his phone number and do something straight outta the ancient past, talk to him. Use your voice before you lose it. As a species, if we don't start communicating in person or at least vocally, we will start regressing, like moles. Since they live almost exclusively underground, they no longer need eyes. Make time to talk to the guy---and see what happens, okay babe? Good luck,
2007-07-11 10:24:37 · answer #7 · answered by www.askaman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop beating around the bush and just talk to him. Be open and honest about your feeling and go from there. Good Luck...
2007-07-11 12:16:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm...you are so 1950's, if you think a girl can't ask a guy out. It's the 21st century.
2007-07-11 10:37:20 · answer #9 · answered by Belial 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I want to go out with someone , I ask.
I will try to find out something they are interested in, and invite them to go there. (car show, museum, whatever)
2007-07-11 10:16:41 · answer #10 · answered by Sophie B 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋