Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

I am writing a story and wanted to get your opinions on the titles...

1. Close To Home
2. Flawed Love
3. Bad Connection
4. Looking For Love

Please tell me which one you think would be best suited for a relationship gone bad over the Internet? And why.....Thanks

2007-07-11 12:41:06 · 17 answers · asked by Mona Lisa 4 in Singles & Dating

I know I sound like an idiot asking this, cause your all thinking im just trying to make myself like whoever you guys picked. But honestly I want a guys opinion...which I dont think is wrong.

First thing you notice in a girl when you see her:
~Hair
~Facial features
~Boobs
~***
~legs
~arms~
~total body shape/size
~clothing
~shoes
~other (please specify)

You would never date a girl who: (pick as many as you want)
~was fat
~had ugly hair
~didnt have good skin (acne, moles, ect)
~had a large nose
~had small breasts
~had a small ***
`had pale skin
~had a scar
~had a hairy body (but not like a man)
~had bad teeth (crooked, discolored)
~had small lips
~other (please specify)

whats more important to you, looks or personality?

what do you actually look for first in a girl, good looks, or a great personality?

Thanks, it really means alot to me if you answered honestly :)

2007-07-11 12:39:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am dating this 22 year old man and i'd like to know if the relationship would work.....do you think so???? plz answer!!

2007-07-11 12:35:50 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do pregnant women turn men off? My 23 year old cousin is 7 months pregnant and her husband just suddenly moved out for sexier, non-prego women!! I mean cmon thats sooooo hypicritical!! Is it the weight gain? Or the fear of being a father?

2007-07-11 12:34:41 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Why?

2007-07-11 12:34:29 · 15 answers · asked by Max 2 in Singles & Dating

I am 27 and my bf is 48 and i love him dearly. He treats me better than any previous bf, ever! He is strong, wise, kind, experienced and understands me like no one else. We want to get married and have kids but we know he will probably leave me with the kids when he passes on. We are okay with that now but does anyone have experience in may december relationships, what other problems can arise?

2007-07-11 12:23:36 · 13 answers · asked by PhoenixRising 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 12:21:07 · 18 answers · asked by John Doe 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have been a freind of a wonderful man for over two years. I am in love with him. We started out as lovers and remained friends. He hurst me when he dates other woman. He hasn't touched since I major surgery last year. He wont let me go and wonder if I tell him will he drop me like a hot potatoe.

2007-07-11 12:18:43 · 2 answers · asked by kadnil 3 in Friends

Hi I'm 18 years old and I plan on popping the question to my girlfriend when she turns 18 later this year. But I don't plan on getting married until I am 19 to 20 which will be later to next year. But I wanted romantic and memorable ideas to propose to her. The idea I had was take her to her favorite rock band concert and get the lead singer (Chester Bennington) to bring us upon stage and propose to her infront of all those people. What do you guys think?

2007-07-11 12:15:52 · 28 answers · asked by The Neon Ice Tiger 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I get hit on with alot of guys.I tell them that I have a boyfriend some men respect that,and some don't care.The ones that don't care,ask for my number,or say well you have a boyfriend we can be friends what he doesn't know can't hurt em.I tell them don't you understand english?I have a BOYFRIEND! I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP! Guys just don't get it! How come men don't understand?

2007-07-11 12:09:33 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We're taking our engagement photos next week and we have no idea what to wear. We don't want it to be too casual, but at the same time we don't want it to be too fancy...just fun, but stylish, ya know? HELP! Should we be matching (like white and white/black and black) or would that be too tacky?

2007-07-11 12:07:48 · 13 answers · asked by love<33 2 in Weddings

I am only 19 years old and I am a full time student in college. Luckily, I got enough of scholarship money to not have to work. I also had to take out minimal loans. People always tell me that I am lazy because of this. I go to college and I am on the dean's list. It's not like I am wasting my money on partying an drinking. Why are others calling me lazy?

2007-07-11 12:07:15 · 10 answers · asked by ? 3 in Friends

Okay my husband of 4 yrs and i are divorcing because he has anger managment issues that led to an instance of physical abuse.We had been seperated for 3 months because of non-stop fighting nothing i did was correct or was done to his satisfaction.He was staying in our pool house and he came home drunk into the main house where me and my daughter from a prior relationship were still living.I locked him out of the masterbedroom he broke down the door punched me and dislocated some of my fingers.Police came it was reported but i never filed charges.My husband disappeared for 6 months and i stayed in the house.Few weeks ago he moved back in without my permission so i took my daughter and left with just our personal poccessions.Am i allowed to file charges against him this late and will it speed up the divorce?

2007-07-11 12:02:01 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have never heard this until today...someone just mentioned that family is not supposed to throw a shower for the bride.

First question: Why not? I'm not sure I understand the logic, and would appreciate any input you can offer.

Second question: If the MOH is out of town and unable to plan the shower, is it really so bad if the bride's Grandmother and/or Aunt plan something? What if it's a joint effort? Who is the appropriate designee if the MOH can't do it?

2007-07-11 11:56:13 · 17 answers · asked by abfabmom1 7 in Weddings

my wife has a big pimple on her chin and it's so nasty. it appeared last year and each day it's nastier to me..there is even little hairs starting to grow out of it. and it does not seem to bothe rher although when i see it, i feel like throwing up. she is 31 and i am 33

2007-07-11 11:56:11 · 10 answers · asked by Stephen R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm moving out of state and am seeking custody of my 8 year old daughter. I understand move-away cases are difficult, but could anyone give me any pointers on which subjects to touch on when I go into court to request full custody and permission to relocate with my child?

I have people telling me that California is a "pro-mother" state but I also have people telling me that the courts are not going to let me take her. One of my biggest arguments will be that the father lives in a one bedroom apartment with my 12 year old stepson and all three of them sleep in the same room when it's her week to be with him, however, I have a three bedroom and she and my 14 year old daughter will have their own rooms.

Does the fact that she's a girl play any part in a judges ruling?

2007-07-11 11:51:21 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Females, If you would like a guy to approach to you, that he is interested in u what does he need to do to get ur attention or to have u be interested in him. I like this girl that is lives below my apt. Whenever we see each other we speak. What are signs that she might show if she has a bf? I have never seen her with a guy in the apt complex except one time awhile ago and i havent seen him since. i truly like her and i would love to get to know her. what should be the first step? what should i say the next time i see her? do i have a chance? thanks ladies.

2007-07-11 11:47:40 · 7 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Singles & Dating

I am in a wedding this weekend and wanted some really neat ideas for the bride and groom to give to them at the rehersal dinner. Please any suggestions

2007-07-11 11:23:11 · 5 answers · asked by julia_sanders83 1 in Weddings

i just got off the phone with my best friend's mom. She originally called to see if I had heard from my best friend and if I do to tell her to call her mom so they can talk. Then she started telling me about their family problems and how her husband cheated on her while she was having heart surgery and how their family is falling apart, also asking me if I thought her husband ever talked to her rudely. I have known them for several years so I can understand why she would feel comfortable telling me this but at the same time I felt REALLY awkward, and also hurt that my best friend had never mentioned what was going on. Anyway, my question is if you were asked your opinion on something like that by someone you knew very well, is it okay to be honest or should you still be diplomatic about it? Would you be hurt if your best friend of seven years had never talked to you about their family problems? I don't know if it was really my place to say what I thought abt my bff's dad.

2007-07-11 11:13:33 · 5 answers · asked by LuvUrGirl 3 in Friends

this boy from my church just all of a sudden start talking to me. And like during the day if he see me,,he'll like pluck my ear, or slap my leg, or play like he's slapping me in the face. Its NOT abuse!! TrUst! i do not play that shi*. But i dont know if he likes me, or is he just being annoying? dont want to get the wrong idea,,and do something i regret.

2007-07-11 11:12:57 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Does anyone have any suggestions besides having a wedding cake. My boyfriend and I dont really like cake and wedding cake always tastes blah to me. Has anyone had a neat idea they have done or saw?

2007-07-11 11:11:58 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I met a wonderful guy online and feel a strong connection. We talk for hours. He has a 2 year old daughter and says its final and he's moving on. But I'm afraid to be only a rebound girl, and that he's not over his ex or is just too confused to want a relationship. What should I do?

2007-07-11 11:10:36 · 23 answers · asked by Dani 1 in Singles & Dating

there is that girl i chat with and she have hanger problem and shes very violence. does anyone know were she can go for help or what number help teen with these kind of problems so she can called for help. please help.

2007-07-11 11:05:56 · 5 answers · asked by lovely 1 in Friends

Isn't there anyone out there who agrees that sex is only for marriage? God made it that way.

2007-07-11 11:05:17 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 11:05:00 · 16 answers · asked by Precious 5 in Weddings

right the way they were before or something has gone wrong in the relationship?

2007-07-11 11:00:36 · 13 answers · asked by thomasdavidhalbrook@yahoo.com 2 in Singles & Dating

My girl wants to dump me, tells me she loves me and still want's to be my friend. Been together like 10+years.whats this all about. Still kissin an all that sex stuff

2007-07-11 10:58:51 · 24 answers · asked by Rabid Dog 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Just a general question. I'm not bitter. Just wonder why they tell you one thing and then lie. Curious!! Are there decent men?

2007-07-11 10:57:55 · 6 answers · asked by cheeks4u21 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i just got dumped, and today I decided to get him off my mined so I called all my guy freinds about it and they were like lets got get that *** hole out of your head and lets got to the skatepark then all of a sudden one of my guy freinds Cameron told me that he liked me for four years straight and he asked me on a date and i said yea of course becuase ive always liked him lol but he said he was going to ask me to be his girlfreind but he said he would give me time to clear things off and he said if i ever need anything he would be there for me so anyways we watched Die hard and after the movie was over he gave me a kiss on the cheek but the problem is all my other guy freinds like me to what should i do?

2007-07-11 10:52:14 · 10 answers · asked by J WEEZY LOVES NIKKI R.I.P. 1 in Singles & Dating

This all happened a few months ago. I'd gone to a party at my brother's place in the city, got embarrassingly drunk, and chatted it up with a few people.

My brother called me a little after his party and starts asking me about one of the guys I talked to-if I thought he was cute, if I would date him. Now...I already AM dating someone, and have been for a year. He's the light of my life.

My bf overheard the conversation, and got the gist of it. Now he's angry with my brother, feels disrespected, and I really can't blame him. I'm very close with my brother and sister, and we hang out quite a bit. My bf would do almost anything for me, and is willing to hang out with my brother and let the past be past (although he isn't happy about it).

Should I let my brother know that my bf overheard? I never got the chance to tell him how very inappropriate I thought his phonecall was; I was just too shocked he would try to hook me up with someone else. I want my bf and bro to get alo

2007-07-11 10:49:15 · 22 answers · asked by Ehlena 2 in Singles & Dating