Females, If you would like a guy to approach to you, that he is interested in u what does he need to do to get ur attention or to have u be interested in him. I like this girl that is lives below my apt. Whenever we see each other we speak. What are signs that she might show if she has a bf? I have never seen her with a guy in the apt complex except one time awhile ago and i havent seen him since. i truly like her and i would love to get to know her. what should be the first step? what should i say the next time i see her? do i have a chance? thanks ladies.
2007-07-11 11:47:40 · 7 answers · asked by spurs257 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ask her if she wants to go somewhere for a drink or dinner sometime. maybe even a movie? if she says she has a bf dont freak. just be cool about whatever happens . and yea i think u might have a chance cut i dont know you or her so idk
2007-07-11 11:52:26 · answer #1 · answered by i miss himm.alott? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why Not ask her let her know that you are interested and that you would like to get to know here better invite her for coffee or for supper
For me personally a guy that is honest and caring and genuine is very sexy. Dont come on too strong but be yourself
as to some signs she may have a bf i don't know but you could always ask her and say i don't want to interfere if you do
She'll respect that But Get to know here as friends first
2007-07-11 18:55:28 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Compliment her and see what she says. Say something like, "you always look good" She'll know you be checking her out, and that you think she is pretty. Compliment her on 4 different occasions on her appearance and slowly work in a little more conversation and see where it goes. GOOD LUCK~ We love compliments and a attentive guy!
2007-07-11 18:54:11 · answer #3 · answered by BossLady 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her out for coffee, or some other setting where you can hang out and talk, such as out to see a good local band. The public setting will be more relaxed for the initial getting to know you' phase of things.
2007-07-11 18:52:51 · answer #4 · answered by SewConnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get to talking about a movie coming up, and then ask her if she wants to go check it out. She'll either say yes, or she'll decline and tell you she's busy/has a boyfriend. If she's busy, try again later - she's probably telling you the truth. Or if she's busy, you can ask when she's free.
Good luck :)
2007-07-11 18:52:35 · answer #5 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never just ask "Do you have a bf?"
Just ask her if she'd like to grab some lunch - lunch is a good place to start cuz it doesn't sound as serious as dinner ya know? Good luck
2007-07-11 18:54:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you really like her? First step talk to her all the time(when u have a chance)
2007-07-11 19:30:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋