People need to realize that there is a reason that some women sleep around. Every woman I have EVER known who was promiscuous had been sexually abused in one way or another - most of them by men! We can judge people all day long, but we have no idea what may cause someone to act the way they do. I know at some point we all need to take responsibility for our actions, but we also need to give people a break - some are slower to learn their life lessons than others. I try to give all people respect until they disrespect me.
2007-07-11 13:34:16
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answered by amethyst1195 2
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Yes, I find that I look more favorably upon virgins than upon those who have slept around. If she is waiting until she marries the right man, then that not only shows me that she respects the institute of marriage, but, better yet, she has respected her future husband even before she met him. That to me is a wonderful gift. It's not so much about being someone's first partner and being so on the wedding night. Rather, it's about knowing that this person has waited _for you_. So yes, I highly respect that.
2007-07-11 19:40:26
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answered by Eastern US Guy 2
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Pure woman = virgin?
Woman mostly fall between the two. A woman who has "slept with the whole block" probably doesn't have much respect for hersself, for sex, or for a relationship, so I guess a "pure woman."
2007-07-11 19:38:54
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answered by bluejester12 3
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I believe it has a lot to do with how you are raised. We all have a set of internal core values that our parents and surrounding community gave us. A woman who is saving herself has a certain set of morals as does the woman who is sleeping around. You have to decide what you are willing to accept as her future partner, whether it be for a few minutes or a lifetime. Just because a woman enjoys sex and isn't tied down to one man does not mean she doesn't deserve respect. There are many men that enjoy being with a woman who has experience and the knowledge she brings to the sexual aspect of their relationship. If you are truly interested in her and she is truly interested in you, the relationship will grow and her past will not be an issue for you. If you are the type of person that will judge her for sleeping around, then you already do not respect her and should not get involved with her. There's nothing wrong with that as long as you are honest with yourself from the beginning. Being honest with yourself means knowing your limits, knowing whether or not a woman's past will bother you and whether or not you can forget it and leave it alone or if you'll always be bringing it up to her trying to make her feel bad and apologize to you for it. If you get involved with a girl that has enjoyed sleeping around and she devotes herself to you from then on, respect her for that and never bring up her past in a negative way.
2007-07-11 20:38:04
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answered by Anonymous
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Any woman deserves the same level of respect as the next. When choosing a partner i do not even want to know her past until i spend enough time with her to be able to "see" the true side of her. Try not to judge a woman by the life she led, but rather by how the two of you connect...
2007-07-11 19:43:01
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answered by llewellynlewis 1
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that depends....are we talking 4 houses on the block or a new york block?
seriously, a persons past should never be the reason you give respect. if the person acts well and is polite, then return the kindness. even rich people can be @ss'.
2007-07-11 19:39:21
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answered by Chris P 2
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common guys be true many of u will choose a easy one over a self respected women
2007-07-11 19:37:19
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answered by 619*Monkey 4
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Women deserve respect no matter how many partners they've had.
As long as they treat you the same.
You shouldn't judge a women by her partners.
2007-07-11 19:39:22
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answered by Bloody Hell 5
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yes, pure women are more worthy of respect
why? why wouldn't you give them more respect
2007-07-11 19:37:52
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answered by 14bert14 6
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thats a dumb question. of course they respect the pure one. no one is gonna want to catch herpes.
and you guys he is asking about RESPECT. not who he wants to ****. come on now. read the question
2007-07-11 19:37:31
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answered by lala 2
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