Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

my ex and i started talking again after not talking for two months (we broke up two months ago and dated for a year an half) and we have been going out to movies and dinner and like all that stuff, we are also fooling around. so the other night i asked him if he still liked me a lot and he said yes. Then i asked him if im the only one for him and that he is not looking around for any girls, that he has his eyes only on me and he kind of freaked out a little bit and i asked him why he freaked out and he said because he thinks im already wanting to get into a relationship. and i told him that im not, im not pushing anything and that i only want to know if im the only one for him and he said yes. so what should i do? do i wait for him to approach me and call me or do i ask him if its just a waste of time or if we are going to get anywhere...what do i do? i dont want to sound too pushy! please help! i need as much advice as possible.

2007-07-11 17:22:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is coming over should I wear a thong or boyshorts?

2007-07-11 17:21:24 · 19 answers · asked by Lindsey G 5 in Singles & Dating

in the movies and tv it always happens it that just tv or does it really happen??

2007-07-11 17:19:18 · 4 answers · asked by addie 1 in Friends

2007-07-11 17:18:41 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 17:15:33 · 23 answers · asked by Rose 1 in Singles & Dating

I met a really great guy out clubbing one night. We are supposed to hang out a lot more before I actually leave to go back to school next month. He's the perfect guy..tall, dark & handsome..has his own business & already quite successful at 22. Soo, should I just turn this into a fling or pursue a relationship? He probably won't take me too serious since I leave next month but I do plan on coming back to visit. He has asked me to the beach already & has insisted we do hang out a lot. When I told him I was staying longer he was like that's good. I basically don't know if I should hook up with him or not...what should I do?? Cause I kind of want to hook up with him. But I don't know.

2007-07-11 17:15:08 · 13 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Singles & Dating

i've played sports since i was 4 yrs old.
i have really toned legs and arms. it's not like manly toned but you can tell that i play sports. i also have defined abs.
do you like that? would you rather a muscular girl or a skinny girl with no muscle definition?

2007-07-11 17:13:21 · 25 answers · asked by Capra 3 in Singles & Dating

We've dated for 9 months. Since the beginning, I've handled him lying. Now I'm fed up with his unreliability. He always says he'll come over. Then he doesn't. Later, he expects me to trust him. It seems he makes promises and completely forgets them. I've told him numerous times how much it irritates me to wait around expecting him. Then he cries so I give in, allowing him to repeat the act. I don't even think he cares. Also, he plans to work on a boat for his career. That means he'll be gone 24 hour days, 2 weeks a month. He wants to have a family. I don't think it's fair to children or to me that he wouldn't be there. It's sick that he's planning ahead at not being there for his kids. I don't want a babysitter to raise my children. I couldn't work if he couldn't be around to be a parent. Why go to college if I can't have a career?

I love him. I'm unhappy because of him. Part of me thinks I should call for time out from this relationship. I doubt he'd care.

Please, I need advice!

2007-07-11 17:13:15 · 23 answers · asked by Alec 2 in Singles & Dating

what is the best way to ask for a guys phone number? Because i dont' know him THAT well but i want to ask him out later.

2007-07-11 17:09:29 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i mean really do u really think that a guy can relate to a girl and her feelings and emotions

2007-07-11 17:06:33 · 19 answers · asked by Indian-Girl 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I really like my friend that ive known for 9 months and i wanna ask her out, but 2 problems. if she doesnt wanna go out wit me, then i might have ruined our friendship and she likes somone else. (at least that is wat she said) some one told me to wait until she doesnt like the other guy anymore. wat should i do???

2007-07-11 17:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by J. Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend Abigail says that whenever she sees a cute guy, she automatically wants go out with him, is that ok? Or are you supposed to talk to the person a little bit? I was kinda confused on this so i couldn't help her..... :)

2007-07-11 17:06:15 · 5 answers · asked by Josephine T 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why is it that old men like to look at young girls? Im 15 and lately I have noticed older men like 40 and older just stairing at me. Its quite obviouse they are looking they dont even try to hide it. I feel so un-safe. What should I do? Why do they stair so openly? My brothers friend said to me one time "that old guy behind you is stairing at your butt" its so discusting. I never even notice half the time so im probably constantly being watched. Im not even wearing revealing clothing. I feel like iv been violated somehow and like im dirty. I hope I dont get raped either by noe of these creepy people sometime when im in the mall by myself or something. Anyone (guys perferably) got any ideas to keep myself safe and away from men like that?

2007-07-11 17:05:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

They had an affair, then said they regretted it and felt bad and wanted to be forgiven and make things right. So you give them another chance and they do the same thing again a couple weeks later and then say how sorry again they are and want to be forgiven and given another chance?

2007-07-11 17:05:48 · 17 answers · asked by JustWondering 1 in Marriage & Divorce

People always say (and I've been told by a guy friend) that I have one of those "don't bother me" faces. I guess this scares potential friends, enemies, and suitors away. I smile and say hello and that sort of thing. I'm also the kind of person who'll find the lost person and give them directions, that sort of thing. But I guess it's not enough, because my people-repellent is too strong. What can I do to make myself seem friendly and less intimidating?

2007-07-11 17:05:19 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 17:02:12 · 21 answers · asked by maggie 3 in Weddings

a few questions for guys ...

if you were dating a girl that gained 5-7 pounds would you think different of her ?


would you date 2 girls at the same time



how long would you have to be with a girl in a relationship to makeout with her . and now long will u date her until you feel its okay to sleep with her



what feature do you go for . .. how do you pick out the girl you wanna date

2007-07-11 17:00:48 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i reeeaallly wanna be the perfect hubby one day. in general i love love meaning i love to be caring, nice, gentle, and loving. i loove babies and kids and want to have many. i love the little things...like the random text messages...and i love the big things too. i love doing for...but would love for someone to do back. i would do anything to make my one day spouse happy. oh and im very career oriented im headed for med school, and i like to be classy haha (drive a nice car, wear nice clothes, nice house)...a gentlemen. also i think im above average lookin b/c girls notice me and i still get flattered over it. im also very explorative...especially when it comes to the bed lol.

thats pretty much me...do ya'll like that or do ya'll want a
bad a s s fonzie type?

i was wondered if the girls want a guy like me or BAD A S S rocker with long hair.


im not arrogant at all...but i am confident. don't think im arrogant b/c i said i like to drive a

2007-07-11 16:55:33 · 17 answers · asked by varsfootball44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We are getting married next year. It is a Pagan / Celtic wedding are problem is finding a HP to marry us. So we were thinking about getting married (legal) at court house then doing the wedding with OUR words and all. Just looking for comments on this

2007-07-11 16:52:39 · 7 answers · asked by k®ì§ 2 in Weddings

My son is 11 years old and we have had the sex talk so he knows all about sex. Yesterday he came to me and asked me what sex feels like well I knew how to answer all of his questions about sex but this one is difficult I can't think of any ways to explain it please someone help me.

2007-07-11 16:50:13 · 39 answers · asked by Fable of Flame 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

We've had a great date with lots of flirting and touching. Lots of smiling and gazing into each others eyes. We're sitting on the beach and you lean over and whisper something into my ear that gives me goosebumps...
What will you say???

2007-07-11 16:48:32 · 10 answers · asked by Starfire 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 16:48:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It seems like people ask about this question all the time.....

I have come off a broken engagement.... 6 months ago, However, since then I have gone on a couple of dates, however nothing promising, just going through the motions....

There is a wonderful woman whose store i have shopped at for 2 years now....I worked up the cahonas to buy here flowers and ask for her number.... I left the flowers at her check stand....

However... i haven't really been into the dating scene for awhile... need a refresher course... how long are you supposed to wait to call... 3 days... later that evening... a week? not really sure and ... this one i like so trying to get it right... thanks for any suggestions...

2007-07-11 16:46:16 · 11 answers · asked by swoop 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my friend have been talking a lot lately, but since she's been pregnant her bf wont leave her the hell alone and it's driving me crazy cause he makes me feel so insecure cause he's so preppy and doesn't even deserve her, i feel like i'm just gonna tell her to leave my alone and never talk to me again but i care about her and i don't want to, am i going crazy or am i just too jealous? I kinda do like her but i know it's best if she stays with her bf cause he seems like he will take most responsibility, but my gut still tells me that he's gonna leave her around the time she has the baby.. and sadly my gut's not wrong often. I don't want her feeling back cause she likes to talk to me but i can't stand her bf cause he's got her under his spell where "he can't do anything wrong and nothing bad is ever his fault" and it makes me think she's just too easily controled.

2007-07-11 16:37:09 · 18 answers · asked by Blake K 3 in Friends

By easily, I mean no one threatening you, no one following you, no one obsessing over you.

2007-07-11 16:33:32 · 6 answers · asked by Holiday Magic 7 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-07-11 16:31:45 · 11 answers · asked by emilieshelman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the average amount a couple would spend on an engagement ring, the women's wedding band, and the men's wedding band? Please give separate amounts, thank you :)

2007-07-11 16:29:53 · 12 answers · asked by kchavee 1 in Weddings

My wedding is on the first of January and I invited a few Jehovah Witnesses. Some are saying they can not come because it falls on a holiday. We are not celebrating New Years though, it just happens to be the day we decided to have our wedding. Our theme doesn't have anything to do with New Years. Some of the JWs are family.

2007-07-11 16:28:54 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

...that you never be with him/her..... and knowing this almost makes you want to cry

2007-07-11 16:26:15 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I do not want to go outside of my marriage because my hubby can't keep up.

2007-07-11 16:19:59 · 17 answers · asked by AskMe 3 in Marriage & Divorce