I do not want to go outside of my marriage because my hubby can't keep up.
2007-07-11 16:19:59 · 17 answers · asked by AskMe 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
i PRAY that when im 39 my wife can keep up. you hubby shuold feel lucky!!
2007-07-11 16:46:29 · answer #1 · answered by varsfootball44 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey! I'm right there with you!!!! I'm 50 and can't get enough. Thankfully my hubby who is also 50 is keeping up. I will never go outside the marriage for it either. So a person might have to resort to toys later on or other "creative" things to take care of business. Oh well that's life. Enjoy!!!!!
2007-07-11 17:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by Praire Crone 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have to understand that for most men, they get anniversary sex.
maybe five times a year. My wife has shown zero interest in sex since Nov 18, 1999.
That fact that you want and crave and need and hunt down in within the realm of normal, but you are towards the rare side.
2007-07-11 16:42:06 · answer #3 · answered by Experto Credo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's cruel but men usually hit their sexual peak in their twenties, and women in their 40s. Time for hubby to negotiate a little to help keep you satisfied. Sometimes even if he isn't in the mood, just stepping up to the plate will put him in the mood. Then there is always the option of battery operated marital aids......
2007-07-11 16:24:16 · answer #4 · answered by ConcerndHomeowner 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
First of all, congratulations! Having a strong libido is a sign of good health.
Now, if your husband cannot keep up, it may be time to play "solo" a bit ... no problems with that either ... buy yourself a few toys and enjoy!
If you're driven to cheating on your husband, then there might be problems that are beyond your libidos (or husband's lack of) and therefore some counselling should be done.
2007-07-11 17:10:50 · answer #5 · answered by stephane b 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Every person is different and apparentley your sex drive is high, mine is, i'm 28 and i'm the same way, i want to have sex every night...you should never go outside of your marriage, if he can't keep up and doesnt' want to do it at the same time as you, you can still please yourself, that's why they make movies and toys...much healthier and much more respectful than cheating.
2007-07-11 16:42:34 · answer #6 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Yes your Hormal .. I mean Normal. im 42 and feel the same way still. I can't get enough....even after 4 kids . I think the passion grows as you get older . My husband... I agree with the KING.. you have to stroke em inside and out.
2007-07-11 16:51:20 · answer #7 · answered by Deanna T 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is normal. So you shouldn't feel bad or ashamed. But if you and your husband can't find ways of meeting your needs then you should seek help from your doctor or therapist to find ways to manage your hormones, perhaps through exercise, self pleasure etc.
2007-07-11 16:31:52 · answer #8 · answered by Shuzie * 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are at ur peak, talk to him about him, heres a great tip tho start making him feel like a king like a dominant alpha male. call him names make sounds for him just treat him like a king this will trigger a higher test level thus more sex
2007-07-11 16:36:05 · answer #9 · answered by uncrowned ruler 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You need to find a hobby to keep your mind occupied & not on the thoughts of sex all the time.
2007-07-11 16:23:31 · answer #10 · answered by Shortstuff13 7 · 0⤊ 3⤋