Why is it that old men like to look at young girls? Im 15 and lately I have noticed older men like 40 and older just stairing at me. Its quite obviouse they are looking they dont even try to hide it. I feel so un-safe. What should I do? Why do they stair so openly? My brothers friend said to me one time "that old guy behind you is stairing at your butt" its so discusting. I never even notice half the time so im probably constantly being watched. Im not even wearing revealing clothing. I feel like iv been violated somehow and like im dirty. I hope I dont get raped either by noe of these creepy people sometime when im in the mall by myself or something. Anyone (guys perferably) got any ideas to keep myself safe and away from men like that?
2007-07-11 17:05:57 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I normally wear jeans (not tight) and a t-shirt (not on the tight side, not low cut, not short) hardly any makeup n my hair is normally in a low pony tail. Theres like 3 other million girls they could look at who are wearing mini skirts and revealing shirts.
2007-07-11 17:16:49 · update #1
Not all older men are perverts.... they are just admiring the landscape. If a young girl, such as you has a lot of curves, then it will invite guys of all ages to look at those curves.
I am a older guy, and I enjoy looking at girls of all ages, not just the younger ones. In some ways, it brings back memories of my youth, and when I was dating. It is always nice to look at some fresh curves, and most guys just like to look, because that is natural.
Don't worry about them looking, unless they start following you.....then go to a safe place, where there are a lot of people. Be careful how you walk, because sometimes a sexy walk is like a invitation... Good Luck....
2007-07-11 17:52:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
1.Old people in general like younger people. You won't understand until your much older, but young people are hot. It's no accident most famous folk are young...
2.You don't need to do anything. As you get older, guy will look at you all the time. All guys. The only way to stop it is to move to a desert island somewhere.
3.Guys stare openly, because they want you to know that they like you.
4.By not wearing revealing clothing you can stop about half the lookers, though you might want to wear the stuff sometimes for other reasons.
5.You can simply avoid places where old, creepy guys hang out.
6.Sit with your back to the wall to avoid them loking at your butt. Never turn your back to a crowd of guys.
7.Avoid going places alone.
8.If you even slightly feel unsafe....run to the nearest public area. Get a cell and keep it on you.
9.Mace, spray or such is always a good idea.
10.Get a guy pal for protection.
2007-07-11 17:19:00 · answer #2 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men look at the aura coming from the body. So do women but no one can complain about a woman. The aura is the same when ugly or pretty so it is not the looks or the clothes but the clothes can make it happen faster. The female aura is an opposite spin to the male aura. It is proper to say to a man Just stop it!
2007-07-12 15:30:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am not male, but I do have some advice.
It is impossible to "get away" from perverted old men because they are constitutionally able to be virtually anywhere they want to be. However, you could try some behavorial things to fend them off or make them lose interest.
When you notice them looking at you, don't act the damsel in distress or flustered. Doing so will only prompt them to do more than just stare at you; it can very well catalyze actions that are very unsafe. Either look away with uncaring decision, or give them a hard look and then look away.
In such public places, it would be very noticeable if they were to make any advances towards you, but don't even give them that chance in the first place. Use your body language to show them that you are not someone they can take advantage of.
The feeling of being looked at by older men is disgusting, and it is a shame that our society has people with such hormonal imbalances even at an old age. Good luck, and be strong!
2007-07-11 17:14:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 2⤋
you must be very preatty but that is not your fault and if thats the case is not gona matter what you wear guys are always going to look at you! you should try not to go out by yourselve if you are going to creepy places and if you do go out by yourself try to always looook around so you are always aware of whats going on or who is around you dont make it so ovious cuz people can tell when you are afraid of something do it normally like you are looking at a dresss on a window or shoes of jewelry dont act scare act normal and if you are not wearing tight clothes you should be ok
well hope we all gave you some good advice and stay safe
its also normal for people in general to look at people around them dont take it in a bad way
im sure you dont walk with your eyes close!
stay save!
2007-07-11 17:28:13 · answer #5 · answered by Gusss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have the same problem! that is why i nvr go to a place like the mall or the movies alone. dont go to places that arent very public alone. and take up kickboxing.
ps: if u go somewhere with friends( grls AND guys), try to stay with a guy that can protect you if an old guy trys to touch you at all. oh and try and keep ur distance frm old men.
2007-07-11 17:17:19 · answer #6 · answered by summerlvr 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dress like an old lady, don't wear make up, let your hair look like you just got out of bed, and don't shake your bootie...yes I am an old man, yes I do look at beautiful girls, but, no, I am not a pervert or a rapist, just a man that like to look at beautiful people. Shoot, I even look at nice looking men and make comments about them to my female friends. You just have to chill out and not be so touchy. Learn martial arts and kick any ones *** that approaches you wrong
2007-07-11 17:15:58 · answer #7 · answered by Joel H 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Always be aware of your surroundings. Know what is going on around you...if you notice someone following you, call the police or go to a very public place.
Maybe take up a Karate class.
2007-07-11 17:10:50 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
Personal preference. Some like older women.
2016-04-01 10:22:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Safe? get a bodyguard or stay home. Learn self defense.
Don't want us to look? dress like a nun, don't show any skin or cleavage. (scratch that. Nuns are hot.) try loose baggy clothes and flat tennis shoes. No make up and stop putting frilly things in your hair. As a matter of fact, stop bathing and gain lots of weight.
Otherwise men of ALL ages will look at you as a sex object. We can't help it. You might as well ask a hugry person to stop his stomach growling.
2007-07-11 17:14:44 · answer #10 · answered by flashmeon3 3 · 3⤊ 2⤋