I met a really great guy out clubbing one night. We are supposed to hang out a lot more before I actually leave to go back to school next month. He's the perfect guy..tall, dark & handsome..has his own business & already quite successful at 22. Soo, should I just turn this into a fling or pursue a relationship? He probably won't take me too serious since I leave next month but I do plan on coming back to visit. He has asked me to the beach already & has insisted we do hang out a lot. When I told him I was staying longer he was like that's good. I basically don't know if I should hook up with him or not...what should I do?? Cause I kind of want to hook up with him. But I don't know.
2007-07-11 17:15:08 · 13 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You are getting way ahead of yourself and this potential relationship.
Take it easy. Date him, have a good time, and maintain contact if you can. If it's workable you guys will find a way to hook up. If not, you don't want to be tied down.
2007-07-11 17:25:03 · answer #1 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go out with him, get to know each other and have fun. Live for now. However, if you decide to hook up with him before you go, dont think that it will be anymore than a hook up. You cant expect him to have a long distance relationship just because you guys hooked up one drunken night. Guys are different from woman. So you can "A": hang out but dont hook up and keep in touch see how things go or "B": hook up with him and keep it light.
Best of luck....
2007-07-19 23:55:04 · answer #2 · answered by jade 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let it happen...whatever 'it' is. If you like a guy, don't be afraid to enjoy whatever time you have with him. If you both find that you want more time, you'll make it. Either through a long distance relationship, or through visits later on. View it as a no strings attached type of thing, but let him know how you feel. Just enjoy the moment and stop trying to make something out of it. If it's meant to happen, it will.
2007-07-19 17:25:04 · answer #3 · answered by foxxinaboxx 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend whatever time you have with him. They say that you need to get to know 12 people before you'll really know who you want to spend the rest of your life with... Life is short, have fun (safely and sanely) enjoy yourself and whoever you meet. You never know what's down the road or where the road will take you. Trust your feelings, use your best judgment, listen to that inner voice. What seems perfect at first may not seem perfect 6 months from now... but you never know and if you pass up the chance, you may regret it later. Take care, have fun, good luck.
2007-07-19 22:29:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you.................... I'm jealous........... girl make this a good experience and tell him how you feel what is there for you to lose! And if he just wants to be friends then be friends one day that might change and you two could get married. This is like a fairy tail story and they always end good. If he wants to be your man then work it out plan visits whatever it takes!
Get that man, sista!!!!!
2007-07-19 16:17:59 · answer #5 · answered by midnitesnack21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you wanna sleep with him, then sleep with him! If you want more out of the relationship, take your time and let things take their course. Either way he's got it made sweetheart.
2007-07-20 00:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by AspiringLovDoctor 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a nice guy and he is a successful young man. I think you should give chance. make time to see him. persue it
2007-07-19 16:50:40 · answer #7 · answered by Phoxi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have fun in everything you do. Go out experiance life. Go with that
2007-07-12 00:21:23 · answer #8 · answered by curious6710 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what is it going to hurt to hang out and have fun?
2007-07-19 23:16:58 · answer #9 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start this relationship normally...............Don't be hurry.
Take your time and then decide..
This is my honest advice.
Take care, good luck
2007-07-19 10:56:09 · answer #10 · answered by IP 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋