Family & Relationships - 11 July 2007

I am there for my friends who are girls. I talk to them when they need somebody, i help them in relationships, i give hugs for comfort, i hold the doors open for them, i walk on the traffic side of the street, and (most of the time) i dont think i would hesitate to take a bullet for them.... but yet 2 of my best friends (both girls) just one day told me i was too "clingy" and just left me. they havent talked to me in about a year now, and i seem to have a big hole in my 'blob of friends' because they just left. and i feel like it has changed me so that im not as much myself anymore... wuts with that?!

2007-07-11 18:24:18 · 4 answers · asked by Kyle J 2 in Friends

I have a bad heart & D.R. said they might be out of options for me in 2yrs I still look healthy I try to stay healthy but I don't want to have someone get hurt because we've gotting close is that wrong

2007-07-11 18:23:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have recieved many comments that im very pretty and very sexy and hot and cute. so manyyyyyyyyy. but the only thing is my teeths arent straight. so im always affraid that no one will like me just cuz of my teeths.

2007-07-11 18:23:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

A female pal of mine won't talk to me now because I gave her a stern lecture on not leading guys on if she has no interest in them. She was really guilty of this and admitted it. Now, she doesn't want to hang out with me. Why do girls do that? Sometimes it is necessary to get your ego busted for your own good.

2007-07-11 18:21:36 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Someone told me that it's impossible for men to go without getting sexual "relief for a long peroid of time. He also said that men basically run off their hormones. Is this true? [men opinions only please]

Personally I think it's a bunch of bull.

2007-07-11 18:21:02 · 7 answers · asked by makin moves 1 in Singles & Dating

she was always asking where i was going, when i was coming home. telling me to pick up the house, ext... but it just keeped getting worse, she convinced me to quit my job and take care of the house, and that is when it happened. since then she has controlled every aspect of my life. she wont let me leave the house, or let me see my friends at all. i am practically her prisoner. i cant move out because i just sighed another lease with her, i don't have a job, she took over my bank accounts, and I'm not aloud out of the house without her with me. she forces me to do everything for her, because she "feeds me" and is "my provider" i "work for a place to live and food." she has outsmarted me at every turn and will stop at nothing to keep me in her control, i am a slave to a beautiful mastermind... what should i do?

2007-07-11 18:16:59 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've dated lots of men. My ex-fiance and I had a 3-year relationship. I missed him so much. I learned that if I had been more patient, it would have worked out.

Then I hooked up with an old flame. We were best friends, we could talk about anything, and he adored me. I broke up with him because I wanted to marry someone from my native country and someone with more drive.

Then I started dating my husband. We dated 3 months. (We had known eachother about a year before we dated.) He popped the question. I said yes. We had an awesome wedding.

I cannot talk to him. He has limited inter- and intra-personal skills. I'm not attracted to him physically because we don't have a mental connection.

We went to therapy once. He doesn't want to go back.

I married an educated, stable, and tall man, but he doesn't have the inner qualities that I need to make me happy. If I'm more patient and ___ will it work out or should I cut my losses now?

2007-07-11 18:14:46 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

even oral some start that after three weeks.

2007-07-11 18:00:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I will be seeing my boyfriend tommorrow for the first time in a few weeks. When i spoke to him on the phone earlier tonight he asks me what i have planned for him tommorrow.

Now we've done pretty much everything right up to sex, which i'm saving (or trying my best anyway) for marriage. But when i spoke to him on the phone he said he didn't want it to be the usual (talking making out oral etc.) and i know he was referring to having sex. which I just don't think i can bring myself to do.

Question is what, if anything can i do to please him without giving in and having sex. i don't want to but i'm fixing to just break down and give him what he wants..

Please i need ADVICE!!
thanks!!♥

2007-07-11 17:53:18 · 22 answers · asked by SY D 1 in Singles & Dating

If you hit your husband, should he hit you back? What if HE did something stupid and pissed you off so you were being hateful because you were upset and instead of trying to talk about it HE gets even more pissed and calls you a *****?

My husband lied to me about a girl he was talking to online..said they never dated, but they did (she messaged me and told me). (this isn't the whole story, but it just topped off a horrid month..read my other ??'s) I was upset so I didn't make dinner (which he never goes a night without a hot meal) and didn't wash his work clothes. SO, when he was looking for something to eat after waking up late (because I didn't wake him like his mommy) I was laughing and he said "what are you laughing at, *****?" This is, ohh, about the 2382398 time he's called me that this week.

I HATE MEN.



Also, I'm normally a very mature person.. so please, no "grow up" comments. Thanks.

2007-07-11 17:52:24 · 20 answers · asked by ... 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My aunt actually treats me like an adult and she takes me seriously. Any other ideas or do I already have my answer? I'm 16. Is it normal to not have very good communication with your parents at this age?

2007-07-11 17:50:12 · 3 answers · asked by Rick 4 in Family

do you you ever afraid can't get, can't have a spouse (boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife) and never get married?

2007-07-11 17:49:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Your thoughts, please.

2007-07-11 17:48:35 · 21 answers · asked by Lisa 2 in Singles & Dating

before 20 or after 20? before marriage or after marriage?

2007-07-11 17:37:54 · 19 answers · asked by innocentANDpc 2 in Singles & Dating

who you try to sleep with a friend of the opposite sex even though you werent sure if they liked you like that? do you think that thats healthy?

2007-07-11 17:35:56 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I mean, usually what does this indicate, totally. What is on her mind, usually. Is it always a single thng?

2007-07-11 17:35:26 · 13 answers · asked by syrious 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok,
Me and my bf have been going out about a month now, we met at a friends party and go to different schools,
we've seen each other in real life once since the party {we're 13} and we held hands and he kissed me on the cheek and stuff, and he said I love you,

and I really like him, but when we're on te phone we have nothing to talk about.
I'm scared he'll think I'm stupid whenever I say anything.

HELP.
I don't want him to break up with me because I really like him but I don't want to be bored.

2007-07-11 17:33:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have 3 brothers, a mom and a grandfather and i dont know how to choose please help with your opinion

2007-07-11 17:33:13 · 24 answers · asked by monkeyfreak_09 2 in Weddings

of my house.she just won't go we have not talked over a year now can someone help me?

2007-07-11 17:32:09 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

if u know a girl tht hasn't had a bf, do u like thik she's automaticly ugly? or do u just not even bother?

2007-07-11 17:31:05 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a 28yo daughter very pretty hard working and smart. But needs an outside opinion on her behavior. She had her first unwed child at 16 and the next at 17 (11 months) different father, the next one 2 years later this time in a committed relationship married him after the child was born and then had another with him. They divorced after about 5 total years together and now has given birth to another child from a different father whom has left the building. So she has 2 sons who are for the most part with out dads and can't understand why she is having problems with the oldest. She sees nothing wrong with bringing kids into the world fatherless. I have been at her house when there has been 2 to 4 suitors at the same time.

I think it's selfish. She isn't teaching the family values I feel need to be addressed.

What would you say to her if on your first date she told you she had 5 kids from 4 fathers and had been married once?

2007-07-11 17:30:32 · 17 answers · asked by S h 3 in Marriage & Divorce

someone asked this question before but she didnt get that many replies


how do you Visualize a Romatic first date?

2007-07-11 17:29:38 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I posted this question a few minutes ago, but not in the category I wanted. Let's try this again.

I recently saw a poll that said 60% of men prefer women in jeans as opposed to a dress or skirt. Being a woman, I assumed the opposite. What are your thoughts?

2007-07-11 17:28:28 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

why would older men hard to understand??next time they say your nice theyf find you attractive and then sunndenly will said i am not sure if your too young for me??but they hit you already..

are they just stupid??or just playing games??

2007-07-11 17:27:39 · 2 answers · asked by love 2 in Singles & Dating

I have to say, I think it's easier for a girl to recover than a guy....I have seen both reactions from my son and daughter who have had break ups..It really seems as though it's harder on the guy, what do you think?

2007-07-11 17:27:10 · 12 answers · asked by Mona Lisa 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-07-11 17:26:00 · 26 answers · asked by shanti29 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-07-11 17:24:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a really great guy out clubbing one night. We are supposed to hang out a lot more before I actually leave to go back to school next month. He's the perfect guy..tall, dark & handsome..has his own business & already quite successful at 22. Soo, should I just turn this into a fling or pursue a relationship? He probably won't take me too serious since I leave next month but I do plan on coming back to visit. He has asked me to the beach already & has insisted we do hang out a lot. When I told him I was staying longer he was like that's good. I basically don't know if I should hook up with him or not...what should I do?? Cause I kind of want to hook up with him. But I don't know.

2007-07-11 17:23:45 · 21 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Singles & Dating

I believe everyone does it, but I want to be a good person. Does that change how people think of you, not that it matters, but I want to be seen as a good person.

2007-07-11 17:23:29 · 14 answers · asked by Tyler K 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

me and my b/f ahve been off and on alot well he wants to be friends and see where it goes from there he said he loves me but needs space to figure out what he wants so i give him space and he counter reacts liek we are together and when i do the same he pushes me away he doesn't know if he wants to be with me but if i'm with someone else he goes crazy......i'm so confused what do i do?

2007-07-11 17:22:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating