me and my b/f ahve been off and on alot well he wants to be friends and see where it goes from there he said he loves me but needs space to figure out what he wants so i give him space and he counter reacts liek we are together and when i do the same he pushes me away he doesn't know if he wants to be with me but if i'm with someone else he goes crazy......i'm so confused what do i do?
2007-07-11 17:22:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Time to move on down the road. If you got married, it would be the same thing. He would want his freedom and would want to take all of yours away. Find someone who can return your love instead of wanting to process you.
2007-07-19 06:53:55 · answer #1 · answered by Randy C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants to still hav u, but along with any other girls he sees. he doesnt want the committment, but he likes u. i think u should give him the space and let him kno tht you love him and all but if he is going to break up with u and "figure out what he wants" then it goes both ways.... you can flirt around, too. i think in the long run youwill realize that he isnt the right guy for you.
2007-07-19 19:55:13 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, if u guys have been off and on many times not just one break up and then back together and not another fight, then maybe you guys arent meant for each other.
i think if he doesnt knwo what he wants and you can give him what he wants then go ur sepatate ways. not saying anything about sex or anything but im saying like, your in adequate or whatever just saying, that what he wants in a gf isnt in you for him, if that makes any sense. move on and find a relationship with some equal give and take. any healthy relationship has tons of it.
2007-07-12 00:30:57 · answer #3 · answered by hey buddy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is... nothing. Let him do all the work. It sounds exhausting trying to figure out what he wants, so he needs to tell/show you.
Wait for him to call you, let him make plans together, let him go out with his friends, and you go out with your friends.
But if he can't handle you being just with your girlfriends, maybe you should re-evaluate the relationship and it's entirety. You both should be happy!
2007-07-19 19:55:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
he sounds like someone to dump.
but if you think he's worth keeping- give him lots of space. give him too much space.
say you love him and care about him so let's take a break and both see other people. not as a break up, just a break.
2007-07-19 15:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by Olive 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He is keeping you at arms length, dump em.
2007-07-19 20:31:17 · answer #6 · answered by Grampa B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just be friends 4 now he's gonna change his mind in some days now. i know ya'll gonna stay together so just do wat he say
2007-07-19 20:57:39 · answer #7 · answered by mona sexy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're the backup
2007-07-19 18:57:40 · answer #8 · answered by Mars 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋