I met a really great guy out clubbing one night. We are supposed to hang out a lot more before I actually leave to go back to school next month. He's the perfect guy..tall, dark & handsome..has his own business & already quite successful at 22. Soo, should I just turn this into a fling or pursue a relationship? He probably won't take me too serious since I leave next month but I do plan on coming back to visit. He has asked me to the beach already & has insisted we do hang out a lot. When I told him I was staying longer he was like that's good. I basically don't know if I should hook up with him or not...what should I do?? Cause I kind of want to hook up with him. But I don't know.
2007-07-11 17:23:45 · 21 answers · asked by ms ambitious 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Defiantly spend time with him. You are young and should experience everything life has to offer. You will learn from everything life throws at you. As far as a relationship goes, get to know him as you hang out. Decide if he is someone to wait for, to leave in the dust, or have a fling with. You will know when you spend time with each other. Watch his body language, listen to the tone of his voice, watch his actions toward others, and most of all, have a good time.
2007-07-11 17:30:44 · answer #1 · answered by Sneebs 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him if he'd still want to see you when you come home on break. If he hesitates then I'd say this is fling material. If he lights up and says he'd really like that then it might be relationship material.
As for hooking up, it's your call. In my experience, hooking up too early makes the relationship become about s*x and gives no foundation for anything else you like to do.
2007-07-19 23:21:02 · answer #2 · answered by dizzkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think you should just hangout with him and get to know him more before you start anything serious, plus long-term relationships are always bad. And you never know if hes not even such a great guy, you just met him! get to know him more, then if you are completely sure make a move. If it is meant to be then something good will come of it!
2007-07-12 00:29:01 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
=] my word would be sure what the hell... hook up with him. what is it going to hurt. After this if you feel a real connection and so does he then try to work out the long term relationship. where are you going for school anyway?
just remember though you will never know until you try. hope i helped you. =P
2007-07-12 00:29:37 · answer #4 · answered by kenzie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Date him but avoid actually hooking up since you are leaving for college. There is plenty of time for that if he is still interested after you leave for college since you said you are coming back. If he owns his own business, I believe he will respect you more if you do not hook up with him. Tell him you respect him.
2007-07-12 00:27:39 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go for it, enjoy the time you have with him, and if its meant to be more than a 1 month fling, you two will make it happen.
2007-07-12 00:26:56 · answer #6 · answered by Katie K 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't believe anything someone tells you at a club. My name is Claire... it's not true, but who tells a stranger the truth when you've known them for one night? I say go out, have a good time, don't take anything too seriously. Have fun!
2007-07-12 00:27:42 · answer #7 · answered by Mare Bear 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This will be a short term hook up if you do.Just be friends for now.NOT worth the heart ache for a short term relationship.
2007-07-19 16:25:21 · answer #8 · answered by Klingon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
DO NOT I REPEAT, NOT take this serious.long distance relationships rarely work out even if the people have been together for along time
2007-07-12 00:28:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should hook up with him. He sounds like a really nice guy.
2007-07-12 00:26:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋