Ok,
Me and my bf have been going out about a month now, we met at a friends party and go to different schools,
we've seen each other in real life once since the party {we're 13} and we held hands and he kissed me on the cheek and stuff, and he said I love you,
and I really like him, but when we're on te phone we have nothing to talk about.
I'm scared he'll think I'm stupid whenever I say anything.
HELP.
I don't want him to break up with me because I really like him but I don't want to be bored.
2007-07-11 17:33:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your parents allow you to date at 13?! That's what, 7 grade? Middle School right? Wow, you're sure starting young!
2007-07-19 10:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. so instead of having nothing to talk about on the phone ask him to a movie or to go the park or just make plans over the phone, that way wen u make plans u can talk about some of the things ur gonna want to do together when ur ther, or things u've done ther with other friends that didn't go real well but were humorous. then u won't be quite as bored. when u have nothing left to say just tell him that u'll see him then and hang up. good luck.
2007-07-19 12:07:10 · answer #2 · answered by hot_chic93 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
See the thing I'm wondering is why you really like him? If you're not that comfortable together talking, then what is it that you like? I think that talking is one of the major things in a relationship and if that part isn't going so well, then the relationship doesn't seem to be that great. Maybe take and step back and concentrate on being good friends first and then seeing how that goes decide if you want to go out.
2007-07-19 15:51:25 · answer #3 · answered by sckrchikita 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that makes you mad then you should just say anything to him I'm pretty sure if niether if you talk he probably feels the same way! You start the convo. once you start talking about something then it will just flow. Trust me.
2007-07-19 12:42:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm 13 and i know how nervous its get for me and the girl I'm talk in to.Just be laid back and relax talk to him like he is your best friend.
2007-07-11 17:39:54 · answer #5 · answered by Laffy50 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so instead of talking on the phone invite him to your house to watch dvds
2007-07-19 16:19:38 · answer #6 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry he will talk to you if you said something nice and tall him that you went to go out a date that will be good i would if i was you i will call him back and talk to him
2007-07-19 16:13:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Isn't that frustrating !! I hate that.
I tell them lets meet I hate the telephone blahs
2007-07-11 17:37:09 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
tell him you find it easier to talk in person cause unless you're making plans sometimes you don't have much to say.
2007-07-19 17:17:28 · answer #9 · answered by ricebowl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you guys get bored then he is obviously not for u if ubrought it up w/ him you guys would no weather or not u were ment to b
2007-07-19 08:00:36 · answer #10 · answered by Allie H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋