do you you ever afraid can't get, can't have a spouse (boyfriend, girlfriend, husband or wife) and never get married?
2007-07-11 17:49:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yep. I was afraid for thirty years. And now that I'm old it's absolutely amazing: opportunity is Everywhere! People tried to tell me this before and I didn't believe it, so you probably won't believe me either, but look around: There are literally Billions of people of the opposite sex, millions single in your age group, thousands who would love you if they knew you whether they're in your age group or not, at least a thousand even in your own country who wouldn't mind living with you. The thing to focus on is what an old Indian man told me: Work and plan towards being the best partner you can. I believe if you do that, people will be drawn to you like a magnet and you'll be writing us saying, How do I know which one to marry?
2007-07-11 18:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by shirleykins 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Everyone usually goes through a period like this, though it usually is just after a break up or if they havn't been able to get a date for a while. I just got out of a 3 year relationship. I thought I would never get married, or love somebody or have somebody love me.. But lo and behold.. I am with somebody else now, for almost a month and I have never been happier, not even with the person before.
2007-07-11 17:54:48 · answer #2 · answered by jetteh22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was afraid and almost ready to lead a life all alone in stride. Then, I met my wonderful husband 2 yrs ago and got married 6mths ago at age 42. Its our 1st marriage for both of us.
2007-07-11 17:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by Ai_22192 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I am married but No I never worried about it. I dated a lot and if it didn't happen, I could be happy dating or living alone. You can't depend on others for your happiness.
2007-07-11 17:53:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 40 and female and no. I'm more aftraid of ending up married. Nothing scares me more than being stuck with a jerk for an eternity.
2007-07-11 17:54:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think everyone feels this way at one point or another, but beleive me, it will happen, there is someone out there for everyone, i felt this way at one time and now i'm happiley married, just be patient, give it time and it will happen. but this is a normal feeling it wont help if you stress over it.
2007-07-11 17:53:57 · answer #6 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not me, but some of my friends worry about never finding the right person to be with. I always try to tell them that there is someone out there for everyone.
2007-07-11 17:54:21 · answer #7 · answered by Andrea 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes sadly to say this is one of my greatest fear..somehow i always got this idea tht ill be a great wife and mother but wont have the chance of actually doing it...
2007-07-11 18:04:12 · answer #8 · answered by Stephanie Y 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
im deathly afraid of this, wheneve ri get close to having a real relationship with a girl it blows up and it cant happen
2007-07-11 17:52:17 · answer #9 · answered by justaguy5778 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dream to be alone.I just want my kids around and that's it.People are not pleasant these days and they are fake.I don't need anybody to complite me or to make me happy or to take care of me.
2007-07-11 18:08:07 · answer #10 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋