Help me turn my husband on !!?

Question

I've been married 5 years! I'm 25 and have a wounderful 2 year old. But i think my husband is getting bored. I need some FRESH ideas!!! Help!!!

Answer 1

Take him to a secluded place and make love outdoors.

Answer 2

I say get a makeover. Go to the hair salon get a hair-do. Go buy some fancy new clothes.. and some hott Lingeries. Get a new perfume...something to turn him on.. the kind from Jessica Simpson that is edible. hm.. Get some new make-up but dont over do your make-up.

Do all that when your husband is not home. Get a babysitter for your baby and leave him/her at the babysitter's house for that night. When your husband comes home, meet him at the door with your hot new look and wear only you Lingeries.

We all know what you should do after that.. also, if you know lots of dance moves, then you could tease him or something... make the bedroom all romantic, candles n all dat, buy some roses to put on the bed. Make the room smell good.

Make sure he has no clue that you planned this. Good luck

Answer 3

I am not married but I love love so maybe i can help... Leave love notes in his briefcase/lunch/pockets whatever when he leaves for work. Or leave a sexy note instead. You can also call him during the work day and tell him the fantasy that you have been having about him while he has been gone, and that he better be ready when he comes home for some loving! also you could be cooking when he gets home one random day in a cute outfit or lingerie. You can have one of your parents watch the baby and get a hotel room for the night, just to be out of your normal environment. Do small things out of nowhere to surprise him and show him you still love him. You can also go to an adult book store and get toys or movies- seriously!! sometimes that can be sexy, or sexy for your partner. This one i don't know about , but how about a wig or a fun "costume" like a cheerleader or something.... Oh and maybe take like a strip aerobic class or something - i know Carmen Electra has one- and strip for him one night, hope this works.

Answer 4

Well, I do not know about your situation, but the same had happened between my husband and I. One thing I found is when he is asleep if I give him oral and wake him up, he really loves it. Another thing he likes is when I lay on the end of the bed and hang my head over the bed and then he will bend over me and stick it in my mouth. And then go from there. I do not like oral really but to do it that way is a lot easier on me and I can take "more" in. You can email me with some details and then maybe I can help some more. Hope this helps

Answer 5

Take bellydancing lessons. I began danceing before I met my hubby 30 some years ago. I kept up with them. Of course after we were married 30 years ago the only person I dance for is my hubby. BUt there is something almost magical about the music , the movements and how they make a female body feel that gives you just as much as it does your man who is watching. It is easy to make your own outfits too. Just sew some sheer scarves and shiny beads and fake gems on to some lacy panties and a push up bra. Use your imagination! It most likely isn't going to stay on you long anyway. Topless is fun too!!! email me for more ideas I'm full of them!!!!!

Answer 6

Is there something that he really likes that you don't do very often? Check out the Kama Sutra, try new positions or get some sexy outfits. Ask someone to take your baby for a night or two so you can focus on each other and not worry about any interruptions. If you're both up for it, try using toys or (if you're willing) anal sex.

Answer 7

WOW a woman who is PROACTIVE> SWEET

OK First suggest you read some of the books I listed below. ASAP Especially the Book about "WOMAN POWERS" EXCELLENT BOOK

Now as far as sexual advice I suggest you get the book about
101 Nights of Grrreat Sex: Secret Sealed Seductions for Fun-Loving Couples (Paperback)
This has Tear out fantasies for Him or Her,
Suggest you read a couple of them, and find one you know he has an interest in. Don;t know his fantasies? well one night after some normal sex =) ask him a few simple questions.

Honey if you wanted to spice up our sex life what would you try?
Honey Have you ever had any fantasies you have even wanted to try? Um. don;t be shocked if a 3-some pops up lol.

OK some basic things you can try until you get the book.

Plan a romantic seduction. send him a RSVP for "DATE NIGHT" that is 1 to 2 weeks away. and give him 24 hours to respond =)

Now about 5 to 6 day's out start sending him simple notes, with little hints about the date.

"Honey I can not begin to tell you how excited I am about our upcomming date. OH! BTW do you prefer lace or silk? "

He will think Langerie, and you might be thinking a "Blindfold" =)
The next day send a note with " I love you" and include a piece of rope. =) He will think of somoone being tied up, and you might use it for ?? table decoration. "before you tie him up" =)

3rd note? Honey I can not decide which one looks better?
Include 6 to 10 pictures of you in something really sexy. =) and ask him to pick his favorite. or top 3 =)

the last note can include a Blindfold.
Honey I know you liked " Silk " Keep this with you. If you lose it before our date tonight. The date will be canceled. =)

Simple plan? Meet him as he enters the house in the outfit he picked out. Or leave a note on the front door to put the blindfold on before he enters the house. =) Then meet him at front door and guid him in for dinner. " have him sit, and you feed him. and while you do "mention the outfit your wearing =). Or caress him ALL OVER or slowly remove his clothes, as he is chewing his meal. =)

Next play a simple game. ask him easy questions about "YOU" and give him "reward dollars for a strip tease by you" later in the night. say 200.00 per question.
No worries you can get it back later =) as you take your clothes off. say honey it cost $$ if you want to see this body. and select about 4 to 6 songs vs just one.
You can even have fun tying him down first, although he can not tip you that way.

Also After dinner, and the disrobing you can have him lay down, and give him a massage. have fun touching him all over, and even finishing with "lingum" manover. or an Ejaculation if this is less confusing.

Be creative, and base the date on things YOU KNOW he enjoys. when you do this your speaking in his "unique love language.
Then it's just a matter of teaching him your "unique love language"

God Bless, and I hope this helps.

Answer 8

Next time he is in the shower, hop in with him
Go to bed naked
Take him for a drive and surprise him out in a rural area with great sex. Have a blanket etc in the trunk
Dont wear panties. Put on a dress, and rub up against him
Get naked and rub him down with some motion lotion
If your really feeling free, take it in the rear, make sure your lubed up
Wake him up at 3 am for xtra hot sex and a shower

Answer 9

If you did not marry an old man, I can't think of any reason why a young man would be bored with a 25 year old wife.

Make sure you are not putting too much time in with the baby. Does the baby have a set time for going to bed? Is your whole conversation about the baby? The reason I keep mentioning the baby is because this is the only reason I can think of that will turn a man off quicker than anything I know.

And one other thing, have you lost that baby fat?

Answer 10

Try new positions, going out on dates, wearing racy clothing, and a new look/hair style.

There are numerous ways to bring the spark back, somewhat...but be realistic. Boredom in relationships and marriages happen.

It's perfectly normal...just make sure that you both reconnect at least one night out of the week/weekend.

Answer 11

Write on the mirror with antifog for windshields or glasses, I love you it's you and me tonight." He will be able to read it when the mirror steams up after his shower. Then surprise him with something he would enjoy like one or more of the following: lingerie, massage, hotbath, jacuzzi soak, romantic dinner. Don't forget to get a babysitter.