so i dont know what my problem is....i have a hard time cuming (however you spell it) i think im afraid. but i really dont know why. ive never done it before tho...maybe thats why. but my boyfriend really wants me to and i feel like i disappoint him when i dont. he trys so hard and he is amazing at what hes doing but i dont kno why i dont ***. sometimes i feel like im gonna but then nothing happens. whats it feel like? how do you kno its coming?? can anybody please help me out here.....is there somthing wrong with me??
2007-07-11 15:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the key is to relax and let it happen. the more you think about it the more complicated and stressful it gets.
Orgasms are about 98.5% mental.
you might consider that your boyfriend just can't make you reach that point yet.
If this scene is new for both of you, then its pretty normal.
I've noticed that most girls that just start having sex, are still trying to find their "groove".
I've been with girls that wouldn't *** for hours and others that would *** within minutes.
to me, both seem to fit within a normal range.
I'm male, so I couldn't tell you how it should feel for you.
I'm confident that your time will come if you learn to relax and let it take its own course.
2007-07-11 16:04:02 · answer #1 · answered by Mercury 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop thinking about it so much during sex and just enjoy it and if hes that good you will.
2007-07-11 16:05:31 · answer #2 · answered by bmanwarren1979 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Nothing's wrong with you, just relax, don't think about it too much, you can't make yourself..., you know.
2007-07-11 16:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it takes a lot longer for girls to *** then guys
2007-07-11 16:03:21 · answer #4 · answered by streets913 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋