Is it still possible to get turned on by them?
2007-07-11 16:05:28 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Yes it is - you are the one who has to decide to make it interesting. Be spontaneous, be romantic, try new things, enjoy cuddling, and intimate moments together. Worry less about the sexual act and more about the fact that there is an incredible person out there who knows you better than anyone and loves you anyway!
2007-07-11 16:09:39 · answer #1 · answered by Monkey Lips 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am glad you ask that question!!
Let me tell you something you did not know.
As you so bluntly put it, “ doing it “
Through the generations Lovemaking has been so distorted, exploited by the media, socially acceptable, it is talked about like the weather, and it was not originally meant to be that way.
Love making is supposed to be with your spouse, a
Personal way to show the significant other how much you love them, your way of trying to show them what words cannot explain, that your heart cannot tell them. A way of bonding one soul to another it is supposed to be special. Not a competitive sport of who can get laid the most in one month!
It is the reason why so many people do not stay married, they feel like they are missing something so they start to play the field so to speak looking for that certain something to fulfill there lives.
When really it is that they do not know how to truly love, they consider it sex.
So, to answer your question do you get bored making love to your spouse your whole life? No! It is a beautiful thing when practiced in the proper manner-- it is euphoria!
2007-07-12 00:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by BlackWidow 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never been bored with my wife! Granted she's not the same person she was 15 years ago either. (Neither am I) As we grow older our minds, bodies, and (sexual) taste change. The wife or I may read or see something different that one of us wants to try. Being in a loving committed relationship I know I can ask hey can we try this and not be worried over what she'll think about it. If she's up for it, then that's something new for us to try. If she's not I don't have to worry about her thinking I'm strange or weird for suggesting something that wasn't for her. Sex with someone your committed to isn't the same thing over and over, rather it changes as you and your spouse change and it stays interesting.
2007-07-11 23:34:56 · answer #3 · answered by Odie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no and you don't have to either there are so many ways to spice up your sex life ...go on dates do things that you use to do before you were married and if you have kids make time for just you and your honey make to house romantic ,play some soft music give each other massages and have some wine and get your freak on if this does not work for you ,you can try your local sex shop they they have all kinds of thing that are fun to try ...dress up do some role play or do it in places besides your bedroom and if all this fails seek council your problem may be deeper than the bedroom.
2007-07-11 23:23:17 · answer #4 · answered by im whats up! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I don't get bored, if you spice it up and do different things it won't get boring, we try different things all the time to prevent boredom, been together seven years and he can still turn me on in the blink of an eye.
2007-07-11 23:09:44 · answer #5 · answered by Nita and Michael 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Marriage is not all about sex. It's about companionship most of the time. I don't get bored, I get relaxed and feel good to be with someone I know well and familiar with.
2007-07-12 03:47:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you grow together in all areas of your life: spiritually, emotionally, physically, financially, intellecutually....then you'll be good.
If you get stagnant in at least one of these areas then there will be bumpy roads ahead because balance is what creates lasting relationships and when there's balance there's good sex....whether your together 2 weeks or twenty years.
2007-07-11 23:13:36 · answer #7 · answered by Get Togetha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have never had more fun having sex than I do with my husband. We've been married 9 years (and dated for a year before that). I look forward to it every time we do it.
There's something so very different about having sex with someone who you truly love and trust beyond measure. It's freeing and fun and just brings us closer together, every time.
2007-07-11 23:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by Maureen 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you find yourself getting bored, try new things. New positions, Role play some toys, new places. Keep things spicy.
2007-07-11 23:09:36 · answer #9 · answered by Amy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
could that be the reason why (the boring partner) cheat on their mate? as long sex is enjoyable between the two there is no room for boredom. would you think?
2007-07-11 23:18:35 · answer #10 · answered by Thomas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋