Ok, heres my situation.You know how theres bad boys and good guys? Well, I don't think Im a bad boy at all. Im pretty kind, considerate, thoughtful, and respectful. Im not into just having sex with a girl or anything like that..and so on. But I also have my quirks. Im quiet and have a lower self esteem sometimes. But that was from a problem thats already past. And, I can get nervous and agitated about something thats really important. So I do have my quirks. Now heres my problem. I want to date girls, but from what Ive seen and heard with friends, coworkers, t.v. and etc, girls like bad boys. Theres been a couple of girls interested in me and I was pretty stoked about it. The only thing is...Im afraid I wont be bad enough for them in case they switch their mind and want a bad boy. So I turned them down. Do you guys have advice for me?
2007-07-11 14:59:15 · 6 answers · asked by Andy B 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be a bad boy, its what they want. Once a girl finds out you are 'nice' you will be shuffled into the "friends" bin to collect dust. girls are attracted to the opposite of what they have learned they should value. Nature has dictated that the strongest caveman will be able to mate with many fertile cavewomen because he can overpower whatever other caveman has claimed her. The cavewoman seeks the man-juice of the strongest caveman because he is the most likely to be able to kill for food and protection for she and her offspring. Nature also programs the cavewoman to produce offspring with the best chance for survival by mating with the top of the gene pool.
Today, women possess the same genetic programming they have always had, they just grew up in a culture that makes them feel guilty for doing what comes naturally, telling them that they should value a "sensitive" man.
BE THE CAVEMAN THEIR DNA IS ORDERING THEM TO HAVE SEX WITH!!!!
p.s. all these girls below are proving my point, professing how much they want a "nice" guy. they are fooling themselves. If I rolled up on them, they would cream in their panties!
2007-07-11 15:03:25 · answer #1 · answered by Tommy B 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not be yourself. If you will not go out with a girl because you are afraid she might reject you, then you will never date anyone. Dont expect to marry the first girl that comes along. Just concentrate on having fun. If you run across a girl who prefers bad boys, you dont really want to be with her anyway do you?
2007-07-11 15:10:10 · answer #2 · answered by Max 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well.. I don't like bad boys... they're a turn off for me. It depends on what kind of girl you want. I only like the nice guy, only the slutty girls like bad boys... Nice girls like me wouldn't want a bad boy. If they say they're nice and they want a bad boy, then they're not so nice after all... Too bad I never met a nice guy in my life... Only bad guys disguising themselves as nice guys =P
2007-07-11 15:05:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't change for a girl that might like you! You sound like a really nice guy, we all have our quuirks so dont feel so different. And girls like nice guys too !! Take it from a girl who knows haha !
2007-07-11 15:05:46 · answer #4 · answered by Danielle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cool Gal you know you want me.
Muwhahaha. Just playing. Dude just do whatchu gotta do to get what you want you know I'm saying?
Forget what you think them girls like or do not like you just gotta love yourself and get out there take what you desire like a lion.
2007-07-11 15:29:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you cant just turn them down because you dont think your what they want
they are interested in you they must wanna try it with you
i just wish there was more guys like you out there :]]
2007-07-11 15:03:36 · answer #6 · answered by Katelyn G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋