I see all this stuff about people being upset because their girlfriends or wifes are virgin or whatever.
My question- why marry them if they aren't virgins? If she's been with 100 guys before you- she's gonna do the same after she meets you- so why botha? Seriously fellas.. if she gives it away, what has she saved for you? You wanna be the dolt that has to buy the cow?
If she is good girl, I see maybe marriage, and a nice family. She deserves it. You can't have a nice family that you bring the wife to the grocery store and everybody knows her real "personally" if you get my drift.
2007-07-11 14:57:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well I'm a virgin girl... So... that's a good thing for me then =P It counts for men too then! =P
2007-07-11 15:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
well, sometimes people can make mistakes. Or even worse, make decisions that will come back to haunt them. A girl who hasnt had much leadership or formation might fall victim to todays culture. You must understand that sometimes people have a change of heart. Sure, the odds are slim, and while i would probably look for virginity in my future wife, i wouldnt be prejudice against it. I think everyone deserves a chance, and if they made some lousy decisions (we all do) in their earlier life, than why hold that against them when they know better now? But i understand where you're coming from: all virgins deserve to have a good family, because they worked for it. They sacrificed and preserved. But people should not be turned away as soon as u learn about their past, or else i am toast...lol.
2007-07-11 22:03:51 · answer #2 · answered by JMAC 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are an idiot. And not a man. And probably mormon. Sex isn't always a mistake, and it doesn't make the girl less respectable. Most girls that are ready to get married are NOT virgins, so the odds aren't too great for you, pal.
2007-07-11 22:09:52 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im not a virgin
but your post is stereotyping non-virgins.
not because a woman aint virgin no more, doesnt mean she sleeps around all the time.
and with almost all men she knows.
however, there are many women capable of one night stands. these are the ones to be avoided. not just out of morals but in preventing the spread of sexually transmitted diseases.
but seriously, you shouldnt judge women by the mere fact of their hymen status.
2007-07-11 22:09:42 · answer #4 · answered by nuttynellie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because a women isn't less because she had sex b4 marriage. and ppl shouldn't care they should get al ife and worry about their own issues instead of the girl at the grocery store.
2007-07-11 22:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by Riot Grrrl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep it that way too. The only reason I could see is if it was "rape" or she only did it once and had a child. SEX IS EVILL!!!
2007-07-11 22:03:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If she is a virgin when you marry her - then why "ruin" an already "perfect" woman? ;););););)
2007-07-11 22:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋