Family & Relationships - 26 June 2007

i want to what my mother should do to get rid of it. Me and my sister are not getting any way. my mother is 42 year old.

2007-06-26 19:15:02 · 11 answers · asked by SANDY ROCKS 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-26 19:14:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we have dated since we were 14 and i'm 20 now.. i love him so much but i get mad a lot- i dont know if its me and i'm wrong or if i have a right to be mad he says i need to calm down and stop getting mad all the time over nothing... “examples“ he promised to spend time with me today after being with his friends he was with them for 8 hours n graced me with 10 min to say goodnight.. we went to the movies and it was my turn to pick he decided he didnt wanna watch the movie i wanted to see and got two tickets for some dump movie that sucked.. on the way back home it was raining n we were stuck driving behind an idiot he decides to pass him going over a hill i told him not to cause its raining n u really cant see n he just did it anyway- i was mad cause what if something happened n he was mad cause he said "nothing happened" dont get me wrong he is a wonderful guy n would give me the world he just has been having his jerk moments- so am i over reacting? Am i right or being a b@#?

2007-06-26 19:09:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 19:09:05 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This is like a super duper promise....sucks!

Regular promises are hard enough to keep...but "vows"...come now wemen give me a break.

When's the last time you broke a promise?

People can't even keep their new years resolutions...and those are supposed to be "serious" too.

2007-06-26 19:05:27 · 5 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

that I cannot have the type of sexual relationship that I want with the woman that I am with (currently my wife). I have always been able to have a satisfying sexual relationship with any of the women that I have previously been involved with even at the end of those relationships. I am at my wits end and don't know what to do. DO NOT tell me to "Spank my monkey", of course that is always an option and that gets old too. I like to satisfy my woman during love making and the emotional toll that it is having on me and our relationship is immeasurable. I am starting to doze off at work during the day because I cannot sleep at night because I am not being mentally fulfilled and the abundant frustration is starting to take a major toll on our once well healed relationship. I DO NOT KNOW where to go in our relationship at this point. I am a good husband, father, son and community leader. But here I sit again up for another 2-3 hours when I should be sleeping. Thank you for any help.

2007-06-26 19:01:49 · 20 answers · asked by donmattingly3 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-26 18:55:53 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I mean, I always thought that men had the control in the relationship really. I just need help to understand why so many men fault women, when they have not recognized or either fullfilled their role or moved into the lead role. It would be my course in a situation like this to be upset with my personal self and effect change! I know we all bring our "stuff" to the table, and having stated that, I find that I look for a man to lead more than he is aware that it is necessary, effectively. I think that personal goal setting and improvement is key, and necessary for a truly fullfilling relationship. I consider that I ask questions of this nature, tenacious in a prepatory way, having already been in a long term marriage and looking forward to the next and positively thinking, the best! Sincerely, peace and thanks!

2007-06-26 18:55:43 · 7 answers · asked by duccees 3 in Marriage & Divorce

ok my girlfriend says she was drunk and some guy raped her.....what do you consider rape?..cuz honestly i consider it cheating.....she says she was drunk and she didnt know what was going on ......she says she didnt enjoy it........she wont tell me who it is....i think its a friend of hers.....what should i do?

2007-06-26 18:50:54 · 43 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 20 years old. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years We have had a rough couple of weeks since I returned from 3 months of studying abroad. He recently told me that he never wants to have a family. I told him that I do want to have a family when I get older and that it is very important to me. Is it too early to be thinking about these things? I know I'm young but I have always thought I would have a family someday. I love him very much and we've even talked about getting married someday. I don't understand why he changed his mind. He thinks that he would be a bad parent and couldn't balance it. He is the most organized person I know and is wonderful with kids. He actually used to tell me he wanted a family until recently. I am afraid I will find out 10-15 years later that he doesn't want a family and I will be left unhappy without a family. Is it more important- having a family or being with someone you love? Should I break up with him over this?

2007-06-26 18:50:24 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we are freinds but used to date. he is marreid now he knows i still like him but i know he is married and we are keeping it on a friend level. he has metnioned several activites she is doing that sounds like abuse to me adn that hes scared to leave her becuase he is scared he wont be able to aford child support payments. im in a legal class right now tonight we learned how to calcuate child support i sent him a link to the online child support calculateor and told him its ' in case he is curios ' cuase i know thats one of his worries , and then like a hour later i was talking to an abused frined of mine and looked up an abuse help site for her and several of the signs of abuse sounded like my guy-frineds wife. i wrote him out of concern and said that i foudn this site and several of the abuse signs fit his wife and that i was trying to be helpful as a freind and im sorry if i am wrong and overstepped my boudnary but i care about him... a friend of mine just pointed out that this might

2007-06-26 18:49:17 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi. Not enough room to post the whole story. My question is for my inlaw's boyfriend. Things are not working out. Gets
mad/fustrated at my baby. Don't like I am up late. Seems to have a quick temper I belive. I don't know him.Tried to talk to them about it and suggest some nice alternitives, but he refuses. Didn't barley want to hear about them. Says not used to kids, knew I had baby that cries! I told him about it all up front. I listened to his reasons but they seemed not valid to me, but I agreed to keep the peace.But the deal is that this is upsetting me after only couple of days. I don't want to throw them out with no place to go and she getting mad at me and probally try to relaliate. My hubby agrees with me on this. I just want it to be nice. Tried explaining that to em. I think I been fair. It is my place after all. Says respects all that, but y is he acting this way? Says he needs time to get used 2 it. Y he move in if he not comfortable? Just trying to help em in a pinch.

2007-06-26 18:48:03 · 8 answers · asked by Kodycat 2 in Family

I want to go back to being just being boyfriend and girlfriend....its there a way to do this?

That way I don't have all these wacky rules I have to follow...

2007-06-26 18:47:33 · 7 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I can't afford to buy my fiance the hammered finish ring he prefers right now, so I was considering buying a plain ring and having a hammered finish added later. Does anyone know if this is possible?
Please, no obnoxious answers about taking a hammer to the ring myself.

2007-06-26 18:47:14 · 6 answers · asked by lkn4trth 3 in Weddings

i am enganted know.

2007-06-26 18:40:03 · 33 answers · asked by oreo 1 in Weddings

2007-06-26 18:36:38 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So i really like this guy.. and im pretty usre hes at least INTERESTED. he was at least. then the trip happened. i hate camping. he was totally fine the first day, then a slut got into his mind, and that was over. but is it over? should i continue pursuing this?? cuz the slut thing wont work out.. shes way to easy. what should the hell should i do? wait and see what happens OR just STOP?

2007-06-26 18:35:13 · 6 answers · asked by theresa 1 in Singles & Dating

i live in australia. i'm 17 years old and i was repetitively raped by my ex-boyfriend (20) for five months. i was ashamed and terrified and i thought i was in love until i met another guy (18) who convinced me to ditch him, tell my family and friends, and call social services and the cops. now that i've done all that i don't know whether to take him to court. my friend said he'd probably get off since the court would probably drop charges because it would be really hard to prove i didn't consent. my dad set up a hidden audio video system in my bedroom and recorded two of the times when i was raped and the sperm samples i took afterward prove the sex was forced but my friend said the court could consider that 'entrapment' and acquit him. i want my rapist to get the maximum but i'm so ****ing scared that after all this he'll just walk! what should i do?

2007-06-26 18:34:34 · 20 answers · asked by His Highness The Asker 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 26 years old and am completely independent. I have a boyfriend that i have been with for 7 years. I have a career and work a second job. He has a career where he makes the same amount as my career. I bought a house for us, i pay every bill, and i keep up the house(i haven't been on a vaca in 2 years, since i bought the house). I give him massages when he gets off of work and i always ask him if he needs anything in which i will provide. I never get a cent from him, i also don't ask. All i want from him is commitment, he still pays his sister to live at their apt. (sometime he sleeps there) It's been 7 years and there is nothing else i can give him. Why won't he move in (officially)? why won't he propose to me? Why won't he help me financially? What would you do after 7 years and your partner will not make a decision?

2007-06-26 18:30:47 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my BF is sex addicted, yet we have been attending SAA meeting every saturday. today, he forgot to close his emai and I saw that he has been exchanging email with somebody; just by via-email, but not actually meeting those women (physically yet?). between he and I have strange rule that we are allowed to flirt, but not come cross to sexual activities. I do not know what to do. is he doing for fun or really resiou?
he is 45 and I 23..

2007-06-26 18:28:13 · 5 answers · asked by cat l 1 in Friends

my parents are separated..they live in two different cities that are 6 miles apart. my girlfriend lives in the same city as my father...my father lives with my godparents but my girlfriend thinks that he lives in his own home...I told her that because i was really embarrased about what was going on with my parents..the separation and all...we've been going out for 2 months (Im 17 and she's 18)...and my parents have been separated for like 4 months...

how should i tell my girlfriend the truth about my dads situation?? What should I say....how should I say it???

(In person or on the telephone)???

Thanks.....

2007-06-26 18:27:49 · 17 answers · asked by John A 1 in Singles & Dating

Should I beat 'um or what?

2007-06-26 18:27:38 · 12 answers · asked by nicolas~cage~luver 2 in Friends

2007-06-26 18:24:56 · 6 answers · asked by joyce yoon 1 in Singles & Dating

sorry guys!
but seriously.

what are some good messengers besides the typical: AIM YAHOO MSN etc...like a combination of the two.

something better than trillion.

2007-06-26 18:24:54 · 1 answers · asked by miss_dixon2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

So there is this guy. ive known him since i was 5, im 16 now and hes 17. we didnt talk for 6 years because i moved. but then because of a wonderful think called myspace we started talking again about a month ago. we havent hung out yet but we are planning on it. i like him and he likes me back, but he still has a gf. i know he wants to hook up, but i wont do anything sexual, just make out. my question is whether it is okay that we are hanging out even without hooking up.

2007-06-26 18:18:48 · 8 answers · asked by ellie rae 09 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been dating my gf for 11 months (I broke up with her for a month because she was completely ignoring me and I thought she didnt care but she was so heartbroken or at least she acted like it that i realized she did care, so I went out with her again and forgot that she ignored me) now she keeps ignoring me and I only get to talk to her once every two weeks because (she insists) important things keep her from talking to me, and I keep believing her.I love her, but if she cares enough to get that hurt when I broke up w/ her, then why doesnt she talk to me? I want to break up with her but I dont want to break her heart, because I really do believe she cares. I'm so confused...

2007-06-26 18:17:22 · 5 answers · asked by hlotavin 2 in Singles & Dating

this really shy girl (but hott) knows that i like her. she looks at me a lot. are any of the following telltale signs that she is into me and not just flattered/lookin4attention:

-one time i caught her staring at me, then she looked away and started smiling when caught
-she knew where i was, turned around and looked at me, and the eye contact was very intense.

do you think that i can put it in the textbook that she likes me?

2007-06-26 18:15:42 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Alright, so I have this guy friend I like and I wasn't sure if he liked me so (first mistake) I told him i liked him. His answer was 'ok whatever' (this was over text messaging, and was my second mistake) then, because bad things come in threes, i ended up making the mistake (thats three!) of asking him what that meant (even though i was 99% sure what that meant, i mean duh) and he answered "well, life goes on and yeah" (again over texts) so now i don't have the nerve to text him again just to chat, even though thats how we became friends in the first place, just talking nonstop over texting, and then at school all the time (so much that people think we're dating adn ask all the time, because we're always together!) and I haven't talked to him in about a week, because I feel like because he knows I like him, we won't be able to have a real conversation....thoughts?! Would a guy even think this complicatedly?! Anyway, thoughts and advice? Help, please?!

2007-06-26 18:11:08 · 6 answers · asked by cambrexia 4 in Singles & Dating

I don't know how he feels about me. I think he might like me, but I'm not really sure. I can't get him out of my mind. I've see him in my dreams a lot since I admitted to myself how I feel about him. Everytime I think about him, I get a funny feeling in my stomach, and I feel like I'm going to puke. What should I do?

2007-06-26 18:09:13 · 14 answers · asked by Trista C 1 in Singles & Dating

We were acquaintances for a couple of years...saw eachother out a couple weekends ago, flirted a lot, ate out with friends. He called the next day to say hi and we decided we were too tired to hang out, he told me to call him. He calls the next weekend really late...i call back just out of curiousity...he wanted to see me and was upset bc i didnt call him. He comes to where im at...his friend ends up grabbing me...the guy i like apologizes for him and they get in a fist fight. We go to his house and just lay in bed and talk until we fall asleep, nothing happens. We were supposed to meet tonight to go to the mosque...we are both muslim (im american)...bc we are trying to get back into religion...we talked the other day for 30 minutes and he said he would see me today. I called and he didnt answer. He didnt call back and wasnt at the mosque. The other day after we talked for 30 minutes i later sent him a text saying "i cant sleep"...was it bc of this that he didnt answer today??

2007-06-26 18:07:55 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating