I've been dating my gf for 11 months (I broke up with her for a month because she was completely ignoring me and I thought she didnt care but she was so heartbroken or at least she acted like it that i realized she did care, so I went out with her again and forgot that she ignored me) now she keeps ignoring me and I only get to talk to her once every two weeks because (she insists) important things keep her from talking to me, and I keep believing her.I love her, but if she cares enough to get that hurt when I broke up w/ her, then why doesnt she talk to me? I want to break up with her but I dont want to break her heart, because I really do believe she cares. I'm so confused...
2007-06-26 18:17:22 · 5 answers · asked by hlotavin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First of all, have you tried talking to her about it? I mean, it may seem like she doesn't care. But assuming is the worst thing you can do when it comes to stuff like this. Try and find out why she's being the way she is, and don't take stuff like "I don't know" or "I didn't realize I was doing it" for an answer. Really dig for the truth, and it may take a few tries. And if you really can't get to one after awhile, then give her a final choice...either she tells you what's up or it's over. However, if you know why she does this, you've asked her to pay more attention to you, and she said she would but she hasn't, then just call it over. Everyone deserves two chances, and she just ruined her second one. Sometimes you'll love someone forever, but it just can't work, and you may always hold them in your heart...but sometimes you just have to move on with your life. It's not easy, but it's something that has to be done. So take care!
2007-06-26 18:22:58 · answer #1 · answered by ILY 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't break her heart, because she obviously doesn't care much for you. Get on with your live. Sorry to be so blunt, but you don't get a hint.
By the way you already answered your own question, " she has more important thing to do than hanging out with you".
2007-06-27 01:21:30 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Psst!!!She's playing games with you. Don't worry about breaking her heart because she really doesn't care. If she cared, you would be talking to her. Find someone that appreciates you for who you are and doesn't play stupid games and waste your times. Do you really think if someone really cared, they couldn't find the time to say hello more than once every couple of weeks? Hello! Anyone home?
2007-06-27 01:23:12 · answer #3 · answered by towanda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not a man. Men don't have feelings like that. Just screw her **** her, break her heart. Sounds like she needs a broken heart if another guy is causing you to only see her once every 2 weeks.
2007-06-27 01:23:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think she's just ignoring you because she wants to think that you care enough about her to keep on calling. she basically wants you to miss her alot by her being gone or not talking to you..trust me, girls are like that sometimes, they won't talk to you for awhile so that they make you miss them. i think you should seriously talk to her though... call her right now and ask her why she has been ignoring you and tell her that if she won't tell you, then your guys's relationship is not based on honesty and therefore should not be taken further for couples should not keep stupid little things from each other....call her right now and tell her that....
2007-06-27 01:25:44 · answer #5 · answered by J.Ca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋