2007-06-26 19:14:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Depends on the situation! Does his future wife know you? Is she okay with the two of you meeting up? Are you just meeting for coffee or lunch or something? Why are y'all feeling the need to see each other now?
I would be okay with my sweetie meeting his ex for coffee or lunch, but her and I have become good friends over the past 6 months or so. She's nice and I like her a lot.
I have an ex who is now married and he took me to lunch the day before his wedding. I don't think his wife knows about that. Nothing happened. We just had lunch and caught up on stuff, but I am pretty sure she'd probably be upset if she knew about it.
Just please don't do anything to mess up his new relationship. Maybe you should ask him if he's told his future wife about it yet. Tell him that she needs to know about it and be okay with it or you won't be meeting with him. Its the right thing to do...
2007-06-27 03:48:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally depends on the situation....is it a situation where the two of u dated and spit up and remained friends?? then it's ok as long as his wife knows that u guys have remained friends....or that u might be in town or something and u guys want to do lunch and catch up, then invite the wife too....but yes it is ok to contact him in that situation.
The way you are asking the question makes me think his wife doesnt know about you or that you are talking to her husband. In that situation u are only asking for trouble!! even if it is innocent and you just want to be friends and maybe have lunch or whatever.... make sure his wife knows that, if she finds out after the fact it could ruin trust between them or make her think there is something going on where there really isnt.
2007-06-27 13:28:25 · answer #2 · answered by legends_chick 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee, do you really want the answer to this one? If you have to ask it here...you probably already know it...but I'll share it with you anyway...
No, it's not alright to meet and talk with an ex boyfriend once he's gotten married. He's unavailable. Leave him alone and find someone who is available.
2007-06-27 02:25:17 · answer #3 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What are your motives? Are you trying to get him back? Personally I would have a big problem with that, because I would never meet an ex behind my fiance's back, and I would be unhappy if I found out he was doing that behind mine.
2007-06-27 04:38:02 · answer #4 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
by the way u r asking, it is wrong to commit adultry, wen all the feelings are gone then sure u can meet up for lunch, not dinner, especially not a movie!!
2007-06-27 02:18:20 · answer #5 · answered by crisis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm- if you would rather his wife not be there then you need to reconsider this.
If she can be present in a public place then I see no problems with it.
2007-06-27 02:17:06 · answer #6 · answered by Harmon 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Don't cause him problems in his marriage. You would not like your husband meeting his ex, would you?
2007-06-27 02:16:58 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Would you want your spouse to meet with their ex? I think not.
2007-06-27 02:40:18 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ofcourse, Not....
Dont spoil his family life as well as yours......
Stay away from him, that will be better for you..
Meet other people, you will definately find your ,man very soonn...
2007-06-27 02:18:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ohh yeahh its okay for me... whats wrong with that? just still make friends with him.. congratulate and everyting u want to talk or do, but be sure that it is a good thing.. :)
2007-06-27 03:41:30 · answer #10 · answered by malagu 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋