i am enganted know.
2007-06-26 18:40:03 · 33 answers · asked by oreo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
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2007-06-27 09:30:43 · answer #1 · answered by kimandryan2008 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to finish school and learn to spell. If you're ENGAGED NOW, then you are too young. Are you planning to stay engaged for a few years, or is this just a passing fancy?
At 16, you are just starting your life. Why would you want to get married now before you have even had a chance to live and have some fun? You're not even able to get married without parental consent until you are 18. What do they say?
I'm not saying your not mature, but you need to experience life first and make sure this is the person you really want to spend the rest of life with. Good luck.
2007-06-30 06:21:28 · answer #2 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I got married at age 19, BIG MISTAKE, I was still a child then, and that was 3 years older than you are now, you change so much between the ages of 16 and 25, have a life before you settle down into marriage, travel and see interesting places, go to college/university and get yourself an education, make sure you can financially support yourself before you go into marriage, I am sorry I wish I could tell you what you want to hear, but speaking from the point of view of someone who married young, I felt strangled, and suffocated, it was awful!!
2007-06-26 22:14:30 · answer #3 · answered by sparkleythings_4you 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should only get married when you are truly in love with someone, they are in love with you and you both feel you have met "the one." This isn't something that can truly be explained - it something felt strongly between two people.
16 is way too young. Finish high school, go to college and live life - date around, see what's out there.
I met my now husband at the age of 25, after years of dating many other guys. We got engaged after 3 months and planned a detailed wedding. We were married when I was 27 years old and he was 35. I'm now 29 and I wouldn't have wanted it any other way - worked out perfect!!
Take your time!
2007-06-27 02:33:51 · answer #4 · answered by Rachel 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. I know you feel grown up, but the truth of the matter is that your brain has not finished it's growth yet. Physiologically and emotionally, you really have a lot of growing to do still.
If this is truly a love that will last the rest of your life, you have no need to rush. Finish all of your schooling, get established in your careers, and then talk about marriage. If you both really love each other, this delay should not change anything, except to help make your marriage stronger.
2007-06-27 06:47:25 · answer #5 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Baby, I got married when I was 18 (I'm 23 now), and I'm getting divorced. My best friend got married when she was 17 and she's getting divorced. It doesn't always work out that way, but the very best advice I can give you is to wait. If I could do it all over again, I would have waited, and not only because I'm getting divorced. I never got to experience grown-up dates, I didn't have a date to my senior prom because my fiance was 21 so he couldn't go, and I was a teen mom because my birth control failed. I don't really mean to paint a gloom and doom picture, but PLEASE wait to marry your man until you are in college, at least. That will give you a few more years to grow up, decide if you really want to stay with that ONE man for the rest of your LIFE! I'm here for you if you want to talk (I promise I won't be so down as I am here lol) at moosesandsnow@yahoo.com. My name's Amy. Good luck, I hope it helped you out!
2007-06-26 19:05:57 · answer #6 · answered by moosesandsnow 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
absolutely not. There are no cirmumstances under which this is a good idea, even if you're pregnant (which, by the way, is the very worst reason in the world to get married). Stay in school, go to college, establish a career and then think about getting married.
2007-06-26 19:50:14 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It's hard to say. My mother married when she was sixteen and she had three sons and a daughter. Albeit, she didn't go to college but she did finish High School and stalled the creation of her first child until she graduated.
Do what you feel is right. If you rush things, then you may not want them in the future. My mother was with her husband for three years before they decided to tie the knot.
She didn't go to college, but she did make a happy living and raised four healthy, beautiful children in that entire process. Some of the happiest times of her life.
2007-06-26 18:50:59 · answer #8 · answered by vanilla_flavored_brit_chan 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Enganted???? You mean engaged? You are way too young to be thinking about marriage. You're still a baby yourself. Wait until you are at least 25 to get married. You will have many changes of likes & dislikes between now and then, and what you find attractive, fun, etc now will not be the same when you're 25.
2007-06-26 18:50:37 · answer #9 · answered by Lola 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO!!!!!!! Oh my gosh, what are you thinking.... I promise you will regret it. It might of worked 30-40 years ago, but times are different and there is so much a young person can do these days (like college). My advice (as if you'll listen) date this guy for a long while and if after at least 2 yrs of college this is what you want then I say go for it and best of luck.
2007-06-26 22:14:53 · answer #10 · answered by ANM 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hell no i had a baby at 17 marraige is harder im planning my wedding now for next yr ill be 21 when i get married , whats ur reason if he has asked u & ur 16 how old is he u should be planning parties movie nights not a wedding.
2007-06-26 21:28:56 · answer #11 · answered by tamlee01 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋