Alright, so I have this guy friend I like and I wasn't sure if he liked me so (first mistake) I told him i liked him. His answer was 'ok whatever' (this was over text messaging, and was my second mistake) then, because bad things come in threes, i ended up making the mistake (thats three!) of asking him what that meant (even though i was 99% sure what that meant, i mean duh) and he answered "well, life goes on and yeah" (again over texts) so now i don't have the nerve to text him again just to chat, even though thats how we became friends in the first place, just talking nonstop over texting, and then at school all the time (so much that people think we're dating adn ask all the time, because we're always together!) and I haven't talked to him in about a week, because I feel like because he knows I like him, we won't be able to have a real conversation....thoughts?! Would a guy even think this complicatedly?! Anyway, thoughts and advice? Help, please?!
2007-06-26 18:11:08 · 6 answers · asked by cambrexia 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My advice would be just to slowly start to talk to him again, and try not to mention or even hint to when you told him you liked him over text messaging. If he brings up just honestly tell him what you were thinking at the time and maybe the awkwardness will heal up.
2007-06-28 08:33:45 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 09:23:14 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is also immature regarding such things and most likely was either with another girl at the time....or with some guy friends. the texts are both ambiguous and unclear. doubtful if you can even have a meaningful conversation with the guy.
so, unless you two learn to converse...it doesnt look good...chalk it up to age or level of maturity. either way, dont fret about it too much.
2007-06-26 18:19:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hey! I think he likes you! He is proabably acting that way to make it seem like he doesn't. I think he is probably really nervous to tell you. So just talk to him...pretend it never happend! If he is going to act that way...act the same way back! It will all work out! In time maybe he will even admit that he likes you! Good luck! :]
2007-06-28 15:26:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were right to tell him that you liked him, but maybe this was the wrong time.
2007-06-27 08:38:27 · answer #5 · answered by ♥ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have messed up your friendship by wanting to have more. Use it as a life lesson.
2007-06-26 18:14:43 · answer #6 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋