my BF is sex addicted, yet we have been attending SAA meeting every saturday. today, he forgot to close his emai and I saw that he has been exchanging email with somebody; just by via-email, but not actually meeting those women (physically yet?). between he and I have strange rule that we are allowed to flirt, but not come cross to sexual activities. I do not know what to do. is he doing for fun or really resiou?
he is 45 and I 23..
2007-06-26 18:28:13 · 5 answers · asked by cat l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why are you with an unstable person twice your age? If you don't trust him, don't stay.
As to your question, it depends: is he flirting or f*cking?
2007-06-26 18:34:40 · answer #1 · answered by suz665 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When both of you are in agreement about the flirting i believe it's just that. I don't think he wants to go anywhere or meet anyone. i just think that maybe for him this "flirting" is a way of controlling his actions. I don't believe he is cheating. But i think you should tell him of your concern. Then you should judge by his reaction. But no i don't think it's cheating, it's just flirting.
2007-06-27 01:36:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry , for now just take it easy. the only time you should start to worry is if you start seeing changes in your relationship. DONT LISTEN listen to the people who are saying that there is a great diference in age because you should love a person of who they are and not by judgement
good luck
2007-06-27 01:47:35 · answer #3 · answered by Evan G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys do that jest to be friendly but women think differently.because guy think kissing and sex is cheating but women think flirting is cheating because it,s emotional,
2007-06-27 01:34:43 · answer #4 · answered by i,m here if you need to talk. 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at his age he get more into it he.s .45. and you are .23. isnt that a big age difference to loose to a computer in my opion?
2007-06-27 01:35:03 · answer #5 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋