Family & Relationships - 26 June 2007

I'm 21 and he is 37...I live in La and he lives in Ga. I met him March 26th, 2006. I'm Submissive and he is Dominate. We both love each other... I've gone to visit him 3 times since we've met last year. I'm still a student in college and he owns his own programming business. #1. How do I come out to my mother about my alternate lifestyle? #2. How do I tell her I'm in love with a man who is 37 (the same age as her, she had me at 16) and that he is dom? #3. I'm thinking about transfering to a college out in Ga so I can be closer to him. As many may know a sub/dom relationship is quite hands on... Anyway I want to go to Ga to be closer to him and to get out of my mothers house...It's quite time I leave this city anyway... would that be a good idea?

I quite feel I'm in the closet with my lifestyle, and when I hook up with people down here it doesn't work because there is a side of me that isn't getting nurished...

So what should I do?

2007-06-26 19:54:10 · 10 answers · asked by trapped-dyme 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

i know nth wrong wit it but im gonna stay home till im done college rents expensive out there

2007-06-26 19:50:46 · 8 answers · asked by heavenz_rain 1 in Family

What I mean is that she wants me to take my time getting her "there"but as soon as she does,she wants me to get "there"as quickly as possible.I want to take my time and enjoy her body,because she is very good in the bedroom,but she keeps complaining that I take too long.What should I do?I feel cheated when she rushes me to finish,advice please.

2007-06-26 19:50:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

he is a sociable person...loves to socialize and talk; to anybody! he likes to drink while he's at it. everyday, probably a total of 4 a day (beer, wine, vodka, margarita) but he does not get drunk. he drinks with friends and with meals. he says that he is not an alcoholic, yet he talks about drinks as if he can't wait to drink again. and he bragged about a time he drank everything the bar had and won a trophy...which he is very proud of. it seems like everytime we talk, he'd mention having had a drink or someone who has a case of beer. i do not want to end up with an alcoholic. i love him, but how long shall i wait for this 'addiction', if i may call it that, to end? i also dont want to waste my time.

2007-06-26 19:49:43 · 10 answers · asked by hwngirl 5 in Singles & Dating

is being single better than being married..........?

2007-06-26 19:49:34 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my parents are separated..they live in two different cities that are 6 miles apart. my girlfriend lives in the same city as my father...my father lives with my godparents but my girlfriend thinks that he lives in his own home...I told her that because i was really embarrased about what was going on with my parents..the separation and all...we've been going out for 2 months (Im 17 and she's 18)...and my parents have been separated for like 4 months...

how should i tell my girlfriend the truth about my dads situation?? What should I say....how should I say it???

2007-06-26 19:48:07 · 11 answers · asked by John A 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 19:47:52 · 5 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been seeing this woman for the past 5 months, we met when I was sitting with a friend that was a girl, waiting for others to turn up, and she walked in with friends & came over to our table. I caught sight of her & her of me, our eyes locked and the emotion was intense. I later found out that she was married & had 2 children, there was something about her that I couldn't say no, neither could she.
We started to see each other while she was with her husband, spending nights 2gether in hotels then 1 night we got together, and decided to stay an extra night, we pushed the boundaries & she and I got caught. I think she wanted to get caught!

She decided to leave him, she spent loads of special time with me, falling in love. they got married cause she was pregnant with there first child, and know she has gone bck to him because it better for the kids, but she is truley unhappy, she says it's for a 3 month trail if it doesn't work then she is all mine...what do i do?

2007-06-26 19:45:56 · 20 answers · asked by grandcuemasterflash 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm 12 and the baby of the family, but really, this is getting too much! Here let me give you an examp,le of how mean they are too me:

We were all watching a PG movie and my big brothers kept covering my eyes even when the movie wasnt scary! So I said Stop it guys but they all started tickling me. And they are 3, 4, and 6 years older than me so I couldn't fight them all! They tickled me so much that I started crying and then my mom told my brother Sam to tuck me into to bed since I obvioussly couldnt stay up with the big kids. So he took me upstairs and made me go to sleep while he was laughing and teasing me by tickling me more the whole time! Isnt that mean! What wuld you do?

2007-06-26 19:45:16 · 24 answers · asked by Marty J 2 in Family

i am rephrasing my question.
i was at a party last thursday and i had tons of fun. when it was just girls around, we dared each other to go streaking. so i went and it was totally fun!
some guys showed up later and we had tons of fun with that too. we didnt do anything except talk and play like 10 fingers etc.
so this guy texted me later on about the party. i let it slip that we went streaking. he didnt believe me cause he said that i was too much of a good girl or whatever. he wanted me to prove it by sending a pic over the phone. i kinda like him so i did. he said i have a nice body.
bad or good idea? will it be totally weird next time i see him?

2007-06-26 19:43:32 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you feel if you're 18 year old daughter brought home a new boyfriend who was older than you? This is kind of like the Fred Thompson thing.

2007-06-26 19:41:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Married 15yrs and she has lost all desire for sex with me or anyone..what to do now?

2007-06-26 19:41:22 · 20 answers · asked by luckycobalt 3 in Marriage & Divorce

would you go have a relationship with an asexual girl (i.e. no sexual activity ever) but a girl that allowed you to have sex with anyone else that you wanted to instead? could a relationship like that last?

2007-06-26 19:39:19 · 18 answers · asked by Andrea C 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 19:36:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I broke up with my ex about a month ago. The night we broke up, he threatened to kill himself. I asked him if he was serious or not and he didn't respond. So I called 911. He got mad, because the cops came over and was angry at me for calling. Anyways, I talked to another ex of mine, and he said that men do this all the time and never mean it. His mother has had exes that do this to her a lot. Is that true that a lot of men do this? And if they do, why do they do this? I mean, just because we don't want to date you doesn't mean we want you dead! It's a really awful thing to do to someone.

2007-06-26 19:35:51 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

have sex evry night? we do live together and are serious

2007-06-26 19:35:31 · 5 answers · asked by jessica m 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 19:35:21 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Am in this relationship with my girl for a long time and ill surely marry her. I really love her but she got transferred to another state and now keep in touch through mail ad phone. Am totally devoted ad faithful to her, refusing all proposals and attention from other girls. recently i saw a girl who looks exactly like her, same figure, same smile, same hair style. This makes me think abt this new girl and wants to talk to her but I think this will b cheating on my girl so i dont appraoch her. My thinking abt this new girl makes me guilty and feeling bad, i am sure ill never talk to this new girl but how to stop thinking abt her?

2007-06-26 19:30:33 · 13 answers · asked by Ben B 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

can someone go their whole life without love ? without wanting love? at some point dont they ever want it? wouldnt they become crazy?

2007-06-26 19:29:28 · 9 answers · asked by Kir 1 in Friends

trusting too much a guy i dated for almost 2 months now. He claims to hate liars but am seeing otherwise. He lied about his true feelings towards me. He just lured me to believe so he can sleep with me and ye we did. Sadly, I have put my body & soul into this but I seem to have met the same old 'playboy' man from mars.
Has it ever occur to you guys that hurting a woman (in particular) can happen the same to your sister?

Ok, now guys & gurls..hit me hard so I stop seeing this man. I hate myself for giving in too soon. I hate sex without love. Say all that you want to say..help me convince myself that I have been used & that i should stop seeing him.

Thank you & will appreciate your opinion.

Posted it here..bcuz I want to hear from the older folks (no offense)(mature ones..i suppose.)

2007-06-26 19:27:29 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been seein this guy for 2 months, from the start I said I didnt want a relationship and wanted to take it slow as just got out of one, the more I have gotten to know him the more I have fallen for him but he doesnt know this.
I asked him the other day where is this going, he replied with where do u want this to go and I want a relationship but dont know if thats what u want.
I asked him to call me last night about this and he wanted to know if I want to see others or only him as its been playing on his mind. He apparently doesnt want to see others as is happy with how the situaton is.
Does this sound like I have really got this guy and he really wants me as his girl or its nothing?

2007-06-26 19:26:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 19 and never had a g/f?
hey im 19 and iv never had a girlfriend its starting to really affect me that im not with somebody every girl i try to pick up either already has a bf or isnt interested and im starting to feel really lonely all the time and that i dont exist. for years whenever me and all my friends go out im always the one thats there alone there always with there bfs/gfs and it upsets me c ause i want that also the main reason why i want a gf so badly is so i can care for somebody and be there whenever she needs me and spoil her.

i dunno maybe its just bad luck or i havent met the right girl yet or girls just dont find me attractive

2007-06-26 19:26:14 · 20 answers · asked by whattooodooo 1 in Singles & Dating

i met this guy whom i really like and he really seems into me but he keeps sending me mixed signals, when we first started seeing eachother he told me go with the flow and not get serious, then he calls and wants to hang out everyday, he also wants to know where we stand (when he was just telling me not to label and make it serious), makes comments like well one of us has to be smart so are children arent retarded, then the same day he sits at home watching a movie by himself and doesnt invite me over, is there somthing im not getting its one extreme or another is he scared of getting hurt?

2007-06-26 19:24:34 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-26 19:23:50 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i met a boy .he was my chat friend.
slowly we became very good friends.exchanged our numbers.we gossiped on phone over hours..
gradually we fell in love and he proposed 2 me.i said yes..
everything was fine till we met.he isnt good looking.rather very bad.
he is supportive,he gives me good suggestion,i can share everything with him..he has sacrificed many important issues for me,he really loves me,takes care of me,he helps me a lot,
and the rest he has good family back ground,status,money,he is smart,everything is fine with me except that look which i dont like..
what should i do now?
lwave him or continue the relationship??

2007-06-26 19:20:45 · 27 answers · asked by anamika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this normal? I've never felt a connection like this over an internet relationship.

2007-06-26 19:20:19 · 17 answers · asked by Rain. 6 in Singles & Dating

i have a younger sister who is 16 almost 17, and she is afraid of everything that comes near dating. her last relationship was a few years ago and lasted almost 4 months. she wouldnt kiss, hug, or hold his hand or anything like that. they would go on dates though. shes afraid of commitment, dating, growing old and alone, kissing, making out, hugging, sex, just anything and everything in that general area. i dont know what to tell her.what could be wrong and what should i tell her? also she likes a few guys, and she like getting attention from them. but when it comes to dating, she avoids it and makes up excuses that she cant.

2007-06-26 19:20:19 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I seperated 6 months ago, I left him because of his attitude and infidelity. After healing from the hurt, I decided to work on the marriage, he says he now wants a divorce after all this time he has wanted to go to councling and save it. he says he want's to see if his relationship with this new women will work. He says he still loves me, but how can he love me and be with another. He says he does not want to rush the divorce. Should I just get the divorce or try to win him back?

2007-06-26 19:20:16 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what's your take on this?

2007-06-26 19:20:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my current girl riend lied about everything ing the beginning and its been 2 yeays now she has told the truth about it all i still don't trust her at all am i wrong

2007-06-26 19:16:51 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating