I have been seein this guy for 2 months, from the start I said I didnt want a relationship and wanted to take it slow as just got out of one, the more I have gotten to know him the more I have fallen for him but he doesnt know this.
I asked him the other day where is this going, he replied with where do u want this to go and I want a relationship but dont know if thats what u want.
I asked him to call me last night about this and he wanted to know if I want to see others or only him as its been playing on his mind. He apparently doesnt want to see others as is happy with how the situaton is.
Does this sound like I have really got this guy and he really wants me as his girl or its nothing?
2007-06-26 19:26:32 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah, be happy he is into you and not into many others at the same time.
go for it. he sounds really nice and sincere. How often do you find that out there???
2007-06-26 19:30:17 · answer #1 · answered by snorkelman_37 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he's really into you and has obviously waited two months knowing you could up and leave him like a 5 day old cigarette. Hmm.. bad analogy. Moving on...
He sounds like he has fallen pretty hard for you, and the ball is in your court. But eventually you are going to have to give him something, unless of course he's a wimp and will let you run over him for eternity.
Personally I would respect your wishes to not get to serious, and if I liked you I would put up with the wishy washy non-seriousness for a bit, but probably 4 months and peace out cub scout! I can't be wasting my life hanging around waiting to see if you will come around.
If you are in to him, tell him so and figure out what the heck YOU want.
2007-06-27 02:33:01 · answer #2 · answered by killer Tree 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The way I see it is that he has fallen for you already. If he hasn't then he would have agreed to see other people, guys prefer that very much if they are not serious in a relationship, I know I am a guy. Don't put too much pressure on him, give him some more time and you will see. It is very easy to know if a guy has fallen for you or not, you'll see it in his looks, in the way he talks to you, the way he touches you and other things as well.
2007-06-27 02:33:10 · answer #3 · answered by Red Dragon 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Eva, instead of tortuing yourself with these questions, ask him. If you are going to have a serious relationship with him, then trust him and trust yourself to have such a discussion. Tell him how you feel and ask him how he feels. Sounds like you both are on the same track. But that's how it sounds when you tell it. Maybe when he tells it there will be a different. sound. But the only way to find out if both of you are clicking is to ask each other. So, ask him. It's worth it to find out you are really going to be together...or not.
2007-06-27 02:32:07 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he asked to make sure that you were serious about the relationship, because you told him earler that you didn't want to have a realtionship with him. So now that you told him act like a BF/GF couple instead of friends. Just let the realationship grow.
2007-06-27 02:31:44 · answer #5 · answered by maverick29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he want to take it to the next level. I think he wants to be in an exclusive relationship with the potential for something permanent.
2007-06-27 02:36:06 · answer #6 · answered by mpasnick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say follow ur gut and it sounds like this guy really cares for you and wants to be wiht u and no ther guy
2007-06-27 02:32:52 · answer #7 · answered by hot italian 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok i no you wanted a guy to answer but i think he really wants you to be his girl friend and he's bumped that you said that just tell him the truth thats the most important thing to do!
good luck hope you listened and i hope i helped
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2007-06-27 02:31:36 · answer #8 · answered by fjjjjjjjjjjjjjjdkfjg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are no rules or questions in Love ... Just follow ur heart.
2007-06-27 02:36:47 · answer #9 · answered by picaresque_82 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
k sometimes people ask these questions and im like yeah he wants you but seriously he wants you more than anyone else
2007-06-27 02:32:22 · answer #10 · answered by giarc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋