what to do??

Question

i met a boy .he was my chat friend.
slowly we became very good friends.exchanged our numbers.we gossiped on phone over hours..
gradually we fell in love and he proposed 2 me.i said yes..
everything was fine till we met.he isnt good looking.rather very bad.
he is supportive,he gives me good suggestion,i can share everything with him..he has sacrificed many important issues for me,he really loves me,takes care of me,he helps me a lot,
and the rest he has good family back ground,status,money,he is smart,everything is fine with me except that look which i dont like..
what should i do now?
lwave him or continue the relationship??

Answer 1

If that boy loves you then why you think of other cases.
I understand that you think that at this stage it is possible to get more boys for you to step for a life long relationship, but if you are assured that this guy is a very caring boy for you then go for him dear.
It is true that right now you may find more handsome men for yourself but how are you assured about them being same faithful as this same guy.
If destiny has awarded you with such a caring guy automatically widout your trying too much, the I think you should have no problems.
Its like you have got a cake for your birthday and you want to throw it just because it does not have cherries on it. GOOD GRACIOUS.
My advice- go for that guy, he has mind, money, menship. That will be sufficient for life long relationship.

Answer 2

ok, looks are not that important?

Look at it this way... there will come a time when you have children and you gain weight in areas of your own body that you might not want and you will find it hard to get rid of that too after having children.. Will he still love you ?

Or when you get past a certain age, your breasts will be in a forever race to the waist and all of your body will wrinkle over time too... will he love you because of that too, still?

It's a two way street here. People marry because they love each other unconditionally. If your love is conditional only, then you are not truly in love with him for love, but rather for your own selfishness and all the material things that he has and you don't.

Think about it.

Answer 3

Well looks r not the only thing which matter, it should be the least thing. Lets say u have this guy who is sexy, handsome and perfect but he does not love u, i bet after all the lust ad passion is over u will b running from him. The love 4 flesh remains only for a while after that u long for real love. This ur guy might not b good looking but he makes u happy ad thats what is important in a relationship. My Ex was a slim, sexy looking girl who was so popular that al college guys were behind her and which made me popular also but i always thought i was not happy with her. My current girl is fat, over weight and not good looking but she makes me happy when am with her and thats y i know it does not matter if she is not goodlooking , what matters is whether am happy with her or not , and am happy. Hope that helps u!

Answer 4

Have you seen world beauties? Did their beauty last for ever? Secondly the beauty / handsomeness is of boy is secondary. If all things remain the same don't ignore the proposal.Before taking any decision look the the moon and she her beauty. Be satisfied with the gift of the god. But remember that you should be the master of your decision . Hear all but you decide. We as answerers can answer only. Secondly if possible one can ger plastic surgery having no risk. Shilpa Shetti and Reklha are besty example. You decide. Forget not us to extend invitation.It would cost only 5 points. Best of luck my daughter.

Answer 5

Do not take hasty step. Meet more people so that u get to the bottom of human nature and u develop ur comprehension. Expand ur circle thru ur hobbies so that u choose life partner of ur taste and do not regret for life. Tell him that u r not ready for marriage right now and would just be a friend and no further relationship.

Answer 6

well mate, in our country we say 'dui diner joubon' meaning, youth is for two days, i am sure after sometime, u shall start having wrinkles, and even the best make up wont make it invisible, u will have grey hair and shall gain weight, then u need this kinda person u have, but honestly, for the sake of fun, u should someone whom u r physically attracted to now, u r young so satisfy all the craves u have, when time comes, when u r in the verge of leaving youth get a guy like him....

Answer 7

Have all virtues and not having appearance. My dear bear it in mind that most of the beautiful flowers will have deepest thorn on them because they are being attracted by many. Think about it. Beauty is in the eyes of beholder. May be there is another lucky gal to get his affection and care. Forget it

Answer 8

How you view your bf is pretty important. And, viewing him means in all areas. The real issue is how you react...not how much he has sacrificed for you. That's his issue. So be true to yourself, honor yourself. If you feel that marrying him will be an act that honors you, then, if you love him, go for it. If y ou question whether you are honoringyourself by hooking up with him, then don't. Your decision.

Answer 9

I must say u r lucky, ur lucky b`coz the qualities as you have described is unbelievable now a days.
You must accept him.
And just consider one point, that in case u got married with a guy, who is handsome and has a good features but if in case due to some mishapening he lost his look then-? u may loss both qualities.

Answer 10

yeah yeah..ppl say look is skin deep..yup i agree 2 dat..but i say its not jus dat..look is a part f ones personality, it has all d importance like other aspects hav,but may b it has a less weightage in d long run when compared 2 character, d trust u share,d luv n stuff..so accordin 2 me luk is not dat insignificant as ppl claim it is..n f wat u r sayin is really true,den i guess i can exactly understand what u r goin thru, u mit feel uncomfortable in pullin him into ur friend circle n stuff..it happens..n ppl can argue over all dis by sayin dat friend circle comes n goes n ur mate vil b only 1 left n all..but trust me gal, u'l get a lot f guys lik d one u jus got..i mean it..derz nothin lik soul mate n crap..it depends on ur luck wethr u get a perfecet compatible partner, n i belive u can almost make any1 dat perfect, f v try n compromise..blah blah..lets come 2 d point..d point is, ask urslf wethr u r happy, not jus with him, but al2gethr..f u r not..then without hurtin his feelins tel him dat a relationship above friendship is not happnin..its ur happiness dat matters..sacrifice n stuff is fairy tale gal..b practical..grow up..u'l get a betr boy n he might get a betr gal..life is always fare 2 evry1,its v who make it worse..dis is not d end f d world dude..get over it..