My family is being mean to me!?

Question

I'm 12 and the baby of the family, but really, this is getting too much! Here let me give you an examp,le of how mean they are too me:

We were all watching a PG movie and my big brothers kept covering my eyes even when the movie wasnt scary! So I said Stop it guys but they all started tickling me. And they are 3, 4, and 6 years older than me so I couldn't fight them all! They tickled me so much that I started crying and then my mom told my brother Sam to tuck me into to bed since I obvioussly couldnt stay up with the big kids. So he took me upstairs and made me go to sleep while he was laughing and teasing me by tickling me more the whole time! Isnt that mean! What wuld you do?

Answer 1

Thats mean. You will get over it though!! There are meaner things in life than siblings giving u a hard time at home. So i would say just suck it up girl

Answer 2

O.K. I was the baby of the family of six kids 3 brothers and two sisters all much older than myself. I was teased and tickled until I trhew up on a daily basis. I was tormented and forced to do their chores and wear their old clothes. I was very depressed as a child and wanted to run away from them. My revenge on them is my success today. I am a married women in my early 40's with a small child and a very successful business. I make more money than all my siblings combined in any given month. So go on and be a success. Use this torture and become strong by it. There is not much you can do right now besides maybe take it up with your parents and tell them how you feel without your siblings around. But rest assured you will get through it. Just remember not to be too sensitive about it. They probably don't realize they are hurting you.

Answer 3

I've been there ...for real! My brother is 10yrs older than I am including my cousins whom I spent every weekend with including the summers. It's apart of life that you have to learn to accept and become more thick skinned about. What I would suggest is if you feel things are getting out of hand and no one in your family will understand then get a hobby such as drawing or reading or visit friends or family. If you don't have one ask for a tv in your own room and dvd player and get your own movies. Basically the age difference makes you a perfect and fun target. And if you are not around they won't have you to pick on. If you seperate yourself from them more it's guaranteed you will cut your problems with their teasing way down. Good luck, sweetie! And remember the more mature you respond to their teasing the more they will treat you maturely.

Answer 4

Yikes....I didnt realize being the baby was that tough, but it sure doesnt sound like a lot of fun! The only thing I can think of to advise you to do is to talk to your parents. They and your brothers will always think of you as the baby, and you cant change that, but if you discuss how you are feeling with your parents maybe they can stand up for you a little bit.
Other than that, dont sit by your brothers while watching movies. Good luck!

Answer 5

Explain it to your parents. Explain the way you feel.

Yes they were 12 once too, but most likely they have forgotten what it was like. They need to be reminded.

If they don't listen, well then you have to make them understand that you are a mature 12 year old.

BTW, if you truly are 12, I have to say that I am impressed by how well you conveyed your problem. Better than most of the 30 year olds here!

Answer 6

that is nothing honey. I was tortured. What you described is normal big brother dork behavior. Get to where you can take care of yourself with them instead of crying and whinning about it. I had to. My 2 brothers are 19 and 20 years older than me. They would roll me up in blankets and stuff a sock in my mouth and throw me behind the couch and no one would kow where I was for hours. That's just one example of what I had to endure with them. And no, parents did nothing to stop it either. I had to learn to stick up for myself and dish it back whent they started their crap. Try talking to your mom and dad and tell them how you feel. What is the oone who is 6 years older than you still at home for anyway? That one should be graduated and out of the house. That one should know better.

Answer 7

It sounds like they might be trying to protect you. I don't know though. Just be thankful, they seem to care about you!
the oldest is 18, and that is still a kid. So just be patient and all you will grow up over time. Oh, and never EVER cultivate a relationship with your family that is less than forgiving and loving. Just tease them back and have fun with them! Guess what? these guys are going to be your very best friends when you all are adults,
so good luck!

Answer 8

Try to find ways to spend your free time with people other than your family: Scouting, church groups, afterschool activities, public library programs, etc. I think that when siblings are cruel to each other it is because they are together all the time and they need to "air" themselves out and realize there is a whole world out there and if they want to be cruel to someone, they can easily find someone their own size...I think you can stop being a victim or at least limit it by just not being available to them so easily.

Answer 9

bill seems a lot extra powerful in them! He makes then appear as if vogue and cool. yet Adam makes them appear as if various previous pair o' denims. Ugh, he's initiating to annoy me together with his bill obsession! They much extra demanding ingredient is, i do no longer even know who he fairly is? If I have been to assert Adam Lambert in college, all and sundry could be like 'Who the f*cks he?'

Answer 10

since your the baby of te family your parents dont want to let go and realize that you are growing up and dont need to be tucked into bed by ur big brother. dont worry it wont always be like this. dont worry about it you will be ok