What I mean is that she wants me to take my time getting her "there"but as soon as she does,she wants me to get "there"as quickly as possible.I want to take my time and enjoy her body,because she is very good in the bedroom,but she keeps complaining that I take too long.What should I do?I feel cheated when she rushes me to finish,advice please.
2007-06-26 19:50:45 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Quickies are okay too,don't get me wrong,but I'd like to take my time sometimes too.The longest I've ever gone was about 45min-1 hour.Is that really too long?
2007-06-26 20:35:52 · update #1
dude most women have the opposite problem, the guy is too fast, hell now and agin im not good for 5 min.....lol that being said i have heard that some women dont feel sexy if there man takes a long time, they feel kinda like how long a guy lasts is dependant on how sexy they are. just explain that you want to takne your time as well, this may be a bit smart *** but ask her if she would like to have more quickies, hell she should be lucky you last longer than her, but ive been with my wife for 7 years, were both smart asses i could get away with that.....lol
2007-06-26 19:58:19 · answer #1 · answered by michael_j_p_42503 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
its like opening a can of worms there mate!...could be any number of things or any combination of things ... both medical and mental so the best way is to talk to her ...help her to open up to you so that you "both" can help over come what ever problem(s) there might be ... but the main this is to be there and support her ...because the rewards are great if the both of you are willing to be open with each other .... give it a go
2007-06-26 20:01:16 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi, You need to C u m before she does and maybe that will work. The best thing to really do is C U M together a beautiful experience. Nothing nasty about this at all!!!
poppy1
2007-06-26 19:58:16 · answer #3 · answered by poppy1 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This woman is being very unfair, try turning the tables... maybe you should just finish first one time then rush her to finish too, see how she likes it...
2007-06-26 19:56:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
One more reason why I wait for marriage. I'd prefer a guy who feels the same way about intimacy as I do: that it's special.
Anyway, it sounds like you're expecting a lady out of a tramp. She's just selfish. Sorry but that's my opinion.
2007-06-26 20:05:12 · answer #5 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 0⤊ 2⤋
It sounds like you are just a sex object to her doesn't seem like there are any feelings so if i was you i would say the hell with her and just do as you want she will be dumping you soon anyway so enjoy what you can while you can.
2007-06-26 19:54:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
She sounds very selfish. Raise the issue with her, if you'll pardon the expression, and if nothing changes, think about moving on. It doesn't sound as if you are particularly emotionally involved with each other....no criticism implied.
2007-06-26 19:57:59 · answer #7 · answered by lou b 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
maybe she is in pain?? How do you please yourself..(by that I mean actual sex)...is it the same way you please her... does she prefer oral?? If you are pleasing her orally...actual sex may be a painful thing...not a pleasurable one....ask her...
I've only asked my hubby to hurry when he was hurting me...
If she's not in pain it sounds a little selfish...talk to her about it and see what the issue is and see if you two can't compromise..
I think it's sweet you want to take your time and enjoy her...
2007-06-26 19:55:42 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful_mind1217 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her a dose of her own medicine and try to finish as quickly as possible then go straight to sleep or leave. The she will see what it feels like to be used.
2007-06-26 19:54:20 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋
I am with her. I do not enjoy marathons either. I makes me miserable and sore. I left my ex because he thought that every lovemaking session should last forever. I got to the point that I hated making love to him. He said that he was doing it to make me happy. Evidently, he wasn't doing it to please me, because when I told him that I did not enjoy it, he got angry. I really did love him, but I left because I got to the point that I dreaded making love with him.
2007-06-26 20:09:41 · answer #10 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋