Family & Relationships - 14 May 2007

Is it true romance is dead?

2007-05-14 22:24:40 · 17 answers · asked by dkins8 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 22:22:49 · 32 answers · asked by maRk tHe gReaT 1 in Singles & Dating

Their hair, eye's, leg's be honest now!!!

2007-05-14 22:21:15 · 18 answers · asked by dkins8 2 in Singles & Dating

Like say, A girl liked a guy in school that she really liked, and the guy liked her as well..but one day, the guy just left, and moved from one day to the next..and left without any contact such as no phone number, no address..Just left, and moved..and the girl has nowhere to find him..

would the girl just move on with her life? or would she be curious, and miss him, and wonder where he went? or will he ever return?

I ask this question, cuz it happened to me.. A girl liked me alot, and I liked her alot, but she had a boyfriend, so I decided to switch schools..cuz I didn't want to see them anymore.

but I wonder, if she thinks about me.. I know I do everyday..and I'm a guy..I hope I see her again someday.

any similar situations that you had?

2007-05-14 22:14:51 · 13 answers · asked by Malcolm 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 22:12:24 · 20 answers · asked by leela madhuri m 1 in Friends

hi, i'm struggling to get over this special someone i've liked for a while, i'm sure she liked me too, but i didn't get a chance to tell her before she left, i think about her everyday and its really starting to affect me, any help is really appreciated.

2007-05-14 22:11:19 · 16 answers · asked by abul 1 in Singles & Dating

What I mean is that I don't understand why it happens when it could be the worst timing in your life, when you least expect it, it may not even be with the right person for you and you know it...and yet you can't control your feelings and you still fall in love??? Anybody knows why???

2007-05-14 22:05:22 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this was me and my boyfriends first mothers day together no i dont have children with him and (no i am not his mom) but none the less i am a mom so he said he got me a card but after that phone conversation i didnt here from him anymore that day i called and he did not return my call the next day he tried to surprise me by calling and telling me to get dressed so we could go out i couldnt cuzz i work at night so he said we can go out wed i didnt want to nit pick him about mothers day so i just enjoyed our conversation and let it go since he tried to make it up or say something

2007-05-14 22:01:08 · 8 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 21:54:49 · 20 answers · asked by nita 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, Ive tried to understand this but have not been able to cause really I should have felt something, anything really - and it felt plain, dull even....
I dont understand why I'd just feel nothing at all - not even one little spark..... Gosh, Please help...

2007-05-14 21:53:10 · 22 answers · asked by Franky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I just barely found out a month ago we are pregnant!!! We are so EXCITED... But we really want a boy. I keep telling myself that we have to stop doing that, cause what if it is a girl? we will be crushed... How do we get excited for a gril too?

2007-05-14 21:48:45 · 14 answers · asked by src8784 3 in Marriage & Divorce

yesterday was mothers day i was depressed cuz it was my first mothers day with my boyfriend he called said he had a card and said call him once i get myself dressed i could pick it up so when i called he didnt answer his cell and he never returned my call so the next day he calls and tells me to get dressed so we could go out i couldnt go out and i talked i didnt fuss and all about moms day and the card and all we had i nice conversation i didnt want to nit pick but should i forget about it since he tried to make up

2007-05-14 21:41:53 · 10 answers · asked by latora_king 1 in Singles & Dating

most of the people around me fall in love with there dream girl

i am really missing the joy of love marriage

2007-05-14 21:34:06 · 2 answers · asked by coolspy 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-14 21:30:13 · 24 answers · asked by lkjgfyfukh 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently came across incriminating text messages on my husband's phone from some woman and when I confronted him, he admitted that he made a silly mistake and only had a one night stand with her. However,from the text messages she sent she referred to the many occasions he has made her "come"; it is obvious that they have had sex on more than one occassion. My husband cannot even respect me enough to tell me the truth about this fling. He insists it was only once. I am at the end of my rope, I feel disrespected by the lies. I am owed the TRUTH. I now want to file a legal separation but his family and mine are imploring me to give him one more chance, for the sake of our two kids. Every single cell in my body is revolted! I cannot stand the fact that he has been elsewhere and expects to return to our marital bed! Please advice..I am on the brink of depression because this is the second time such inappropriateness has occurred in our 3 year marriage. He blames me for his infidelity!

2007-05-14 21:21:25 · 24 answers · asked by Samara 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Four years ago I dated a guy, Sean. Well, Sean and I had still been sleeping together after that, up until about two years ago. I'm in a new relationship with Luke which is about a year long, and it's really going great, wedding plans are underway and everything! Except for one thing: Luke is not cool with Sean being around. "It's not that I'm jealous," Luke says. "I trust you, I know you'd never do anything unfaithful. The point is, it's simply disrespectful to me to force me to have him in our life. Especially considering the things you two did. I don't want to look into the face of the man who has carnal knowledge of my wife." I've respected his wishes and have cut ties with all my other exes, but Sean has been a close and reliable friend for the last four years, and I don't want to kick him to the curb. I guess I really just want help understanding Luke's feelings.

2007-05-14 21:20:41 · 6 answers · asked by Lee 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok 4 alittle background. We have been friends 4 almost 9 yrs but never dated. We did mess around a few diffrent times but nothing ever developed. She has only been married for a little less then a yr. It was a very quick engagment do to the fact she got pregnant. When she bacame pregnant she moved to where he lives (about 2 hours away) ever since then we have talked on the phone at least 4 times a week, we e-mail each other on the days we dont talk. So what i am needing help with is, the moral part of this. I have loved her for years, she is in a marrige she all but claims is loveless and I am in the position of her best-friend. Do I try to help her with the marrige & tear apart my own heart or should I tell her to leave him and cause her and her daughter the pain of a divorce or should I say nothing and tell her i am staying out of it (even though I am already hearing all about the bad stuff in the marrige. PLEASE HELP ME
THANK YOU VERY MUCH

2007-05-14 21:19:08 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been working at he same company for 3 years now and I am tired of it. I feel that I need a change but because my manager is going on leave I dont wanna give in my resignation letter until she returns (2 weeks from tomorrow). What can I do to keep acting like I am fine in the job when its pretty much clear I hate it? Its boring.... I learn nothing new. I developed this "I dont give a damn" attitude when I am here and its so unlike me. So while I am looking for a new job... any tips you can give to help me keep my sanity? Thanks in advance.

2007-05-14 20:56:53 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Also, my husband hates the slots. Claims it is just throwing away money. I had a wonderful time.

2007-05-14 20:43:19 · 25 answers · asked by Sheila S 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am in a fwb situation and am very much confused... im starting to ask questions ( that's what my partner told me) he told me that i do have expectations already...which i know am not because from the start i knew i dont have any to expect from him...our being "fwb" is top secret... nobody knows that we see each other ( at least 1 a month)..i tried to talk to him about ending what " we have "(not the freindship' cause we have been freinds long before).. but he didnt like the idea... he wants usto continue what we are doingn... and even to forget that we or rather i talked to him about ending the "relaltionship" i do enjoy being with him and what we do...i'm just so confused...

2007-05-14 20:38:32 · 13 answers · asked by luv_me 1 in Singles & Dating

Would any of u ladies get mad if ur bf watched porn? Cuz my bf told me today that he did..and it didn't bother me and i wasn't mad at him cuz the fact that he told me the truth about it. But I think i might get mad if he was doing it behind my back and I caught him or something! But for you guys out there..what are u really thinking when u wanna watch porn? It doesn't mean ur losing interest in ur gf or anything does it? I dunno i just wanna know if it would make u girls feel bad if ur bf did that i mean i dont think he watches it all the time he said today was the first time in a loong time but he said he felt guilty after watching it...and it did make me kinda feel bad...anyways what do u think?

2007-05-14 20:32:09 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

people treat me like im nothing and that they can punch or hurt me when ever they want to. well thats how i feel. someone punched me hard and so i got sick of doing nothing and just being someone who always gets runned over so i give her a decent scratch i scrath really hard and i meen in but people still annoy me? how do i win a bit of, i dunno, respect

2007-05-14 20:30:22 · 18 answers · asked by Chinky 4 in Friends

"Live right now; just be yourself.
it doesn't matter if it's good enough for someone else.."


You agree?

2007-05-14 20:28:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

We broke up about 2 weeks ago and have kept in touch via text. We met a week ago for the evening (there was hand holding and a kiss). Shes coming over in 7 hours and im feeling a little nervous. We broke up because she wasnt happy with the way i treated her (i was overly anxious/jealous and it got to the point of making her unhappy. I have been seeing a doctor about this and feel a lot better. So i guess my question is what is the best way to act tonight, im going to be "myself", but i dont want to appear too forward or not interested. Any help would be greatly appreciated

2007-05-14 20:21:42 · 6 answers · asked by Nick C 1 in Singles & Dating

guys, anybody please help!!! I have a crush on my ex prof. I'm going insane for two weeks already. I want to be around him all the time!!!! I have wierd intimate in nature dreams about him. and I can't freaking stop thinking about him. What should I do. We went out once. And now I just want to be with him. It's killing me. What should I do?!!!

2007-05-14 20:17:58 · 1 answers · asked by Desert Rat 3 in Singles & Dating

Please help me!!! She was so pissed at me. She is so pissed at me. I was just about to ***, and then I was out. I don't know what caused me to pass out. She's so mad. She warned me never to let it happen again the last time it happened. Please help me! I need your advice on what to do.

2007-05-14 19:56:59 · 21 answers · asked by Matt Harris 1 in Singles & Dating

My roommate just moved in with me in March and it has only been two months and she had already started in about how she doesn't like it because of the neighbors. I complained to the landlord and they are getting kicked out 6-15-07. She origionally said she would want to move down there, but now she is saying that because the neighbors have too many cats that our landlord will have to rip up the carpet and put in new carpet cause her cat will smell the other cats and it will drive the cat crazy!! Before she said this I brought up my boyfriend moving in with us and I think she is making up all these excuse cause she doesn't want to move in with him, and we would need him down there to pay the rent. Because she is pissing me off about her cat crap and not doing the dishes 4X in a row I want to move my boyfriend in and not even have him pay rent. What do you think about that? I figure she will just get so mad about it and move out. Our lease is up in June anyway.

2007-05-14 19:50:05 · 9 answers · asked by juniper555 5 in Friends

I recently saw the mobile bill details of my spouse...He has been making calls n messaging this particular female quite a lot...average msgs upto 50 per day..occasionally even above 100. in the bill details, this number is the first one n the last one he has messaged every single day since at least the past four months..not to mention the many in between. .i confronted him n he is like...nothing is going on..just friends..n what now i should ask u before messaging? the fact is when outstation, he does not ever call me or msg me. i always have to..n even then he is like i am out, in a meeting or like.... while the details show he has been without fail calling and messaging this female. never a day without the last sms at around 11 to midnight...n he always keep the mobile under his pillow in silent mode while sleeping. i am getting paranoid. do i believe him? please scrap in ur views...it would help a lot.

2007-05-14 19:43:47 · 19 answers · asked by rosey 1 in Marriage & Divorce

deciding to be bf and gf on the first friend date, later that same day having sex w/o protection, continuing to have sex w/ protection as dates go on, meeting each at a bar on karake day at first, and both being catholic? gf 21, lives on her own, bf 22, lives w/ his parents paying rent and a church canner (singer). what do u think of all this put together?

2007-05-14 19:32:14 · 15 answers · asked by Artsy 1 3 in Singles & Dating

can u people plz tell me that is it ok for a girl to think abut sex as boys do,is it normal?

2007-05-14 19:30:47 · 38 answers · asked by pooja p 1 in Singles & Dating