Family & Relationships - 14 May 2007

my boyfriend is starting to get annoying! he thinks that he is so cool sometimes and it gets annoying, but he is so in love with me and im afraid if i break up with him he would be so devestated and hate me so much. He told me that if we ever broke up we would cry for days. What should I do?

2007-05-14 12:18:41 · 5 answers · asked by heather 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay so heres the deal. I dated this guy twice for the past year n half! i got pregnant with his kid and lost it last August! we stopped talking til feburary of this year. he broke up with me may 4th saying he dont have feelings for me! his cousins love me to death we still kick it n ****. they tell me all the time that he is scared. his bestfriend called me the other day we talked for like an hour about my ex. We both came to the understanding that my EX could not accept the fact or understand that someone other then family wanted him. Cause everytime he went to the bar without me he was taken he told everyone that i was his girl and he wanted me. so my question to you is do you think he will realize what he lost and come back or is this really done?

2007-05-14 12:13:44 · 11 answers · asked by mizzbrittaney87 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 12:12:57 · 10 answers · asked by Jo3-Jo3 3 in Singles & Dating

I met my friend back in 2001 and we were work friends for about 3 years till my husband and I moved out of state. She told me last year that she is getting married to the guy I sent her up with before we left. She asked me to stand up in the wedding and at the time I said yes. Now we have not spoken for a very long time and the only time she does contact me is through e-mail and it is only when she has wedding info. I bought my bridesmaids dress for $140.00 and she dropped it off at my sisters house for me to pick up when I come to visit my sister which is about once every other month. I have tried to contact her and talk with her but she never returns my calls because she says she is too busy. I am wondering if It would be wrong of me to tell her I don't want to be in her wedding maybe, just invited to the wedding as a guest. I know for a fact that after the wedding and after I have spent probably over $100.oo in gifts that we will never talk again. What should I do?

2007-05-14 12:12:42 · 5 answers · asked by Konstantin S 3 in Singles & Dating

Every time it's a holiday or birthday, my in-laws let us know at the last minute what their plans are and expect us to show up. My husband does not seem to be as bothered by this, it really bothers me when I have to cancel other plans because of them though. Oh, we've been married about two years.

2007-05-14 12:07:52 · 9 answers · asked by chocoextra 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-14 12:06:53 · 16 answers · asked by kenneth h 6 in Marriage & Divorce

my fiance is in the army, right now he is in AIT in Fort Leonard Wood, Missouri. we want to get married before he gets deployed (just in case he does go) the thing is missouri requires a 3 day wait on the marriage liscence and then you have to go back i was told you can apply online. does anyone know anything about this or have any advice period?

2007-05-14 12:05:00 · 5 answers · asked by dana 1 in Weddings

my parents sent me to a boys' school and I'm a social retard at 23. How do I catch up to normal men? Any crash courses?

2007-05-14 12:04:31 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How would you react if you like the person that you have never seen before and today is the first time?

2007-05-14 12:01:46 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have a boyfriend and we were together for 4 months and he would flirt with this other girl and i would see it and other people would tell me they would and i would ask him and he would tell me that they would just talk so it went on for like one whole month we were going out so i broke up with him but i loved him very much and he got with that girl that he would flirt with and some stuff happen with them and they broke up they were toether for 3 months and the whole time he sisnt talk to me but i loved him soooo much i wanted him back so they broke up because she treated him like crap and was talking to other guys and then we stared talking again and like 1 week later we got back together and just now this time it dont seem like he cares well it seems like he does but not as much i feel like i try to hard and there is this other guy that i like and he likes me and i dont know what to do because i am like IN LOVE with this guy that i am with now what do i do
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2007-05-14 12:00:43 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Only have 5 days till the wedding....need ideas...not too expensive. thought about massages but they are booked. Dont have enough time to order anything

2007-05-14 12:00:05 · 7 answers · asked by Jesse H 2 in Weddings

He suggested that I should not even consider it until I have a net worth of at least 35,000.00. How important is money to a woman and why?

2007-05-14 11:59:57 · 14 answers · asked by Knowledge Thirsty 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys send signals like they want something more, but say they only wants sex (which is not true if they hang out with you even when sex is not involved)?

2007-05-14 11:59:35 · 6 answers · asked by Svetlana 2 in Singles & Dating

it had all off my secert/inner thoughts...srry if this is repeating it wont show up on my computer. any way i mettion how no one likes me and how i used to cut my self...and stuff like that. It was just all my thoughts. that no one was ever going to see. But mom saw it and read it. I dont know what to. Now my whole faimlys gets to hear what i sick little girl i am.

2007-05-14 11:59:14 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 11:58:06 · 8 answers · asked by ravi s 1 in Singles & Dating

So would you rather be with a jock (say Tom Brady) or and artsy reflective kinda guy (say someone like Leonardo Dicaprio).

2007-05-14 11:56:47 · 8 answers · asked by edward 2 in Singles & Dating

I jst left my cellphone around back stage and lter i noticed his name and #on my list.Obviously he added himself to my cell.

So shoulda call bck? OR txt? (see him sundays)( I really lk him)
If Ireply, WHEN? tomorror or couple days lter?
(Like how long shoulda keep him waiting is enough?)If I did this, i'll be thinkin bout his call every min.lol

Used to guy askin for#, callin first .Not used to a guy jst leavin his number, will I seem desperate or somthin if I call?
Whatever that makes him want me more and not seem desperate or stupid and NOT seems lk i'm easy to get.

2007-05-14 11:56:11 · 4 answers · asked by Jenny 2 in Singles & Dating

well this one time i told a girl if she would do it with me and at that time i had a girlfriend so she found out the next day dont know how but she did and well she is willing to give me a second chance that a beg for ! !! i really do love her i really really regret wat i did i dont know if thats cheating but i still regret it ! ! ! i truly love her with all my heart and i want to marry her i just feel that she is going to loose interest in me when time goes by ! ! ! well right now its hard for me to smile and its hard for me to even do something that i usually do everyday ! ! ! i just sit and think of wat i done and all the pain that i gave her ! ! ! i'm just looking for some advices cuz i really really do love this girl with all my heart ! ! ! and i'll do anything for her to trust me again ! ! ! ! well thanks for taking your time to read this and hopefully you'll give me some good advices !! ! thanks and have a nice day ! ! !

2007-05-14 11:55:26 · 5 answers · asked by raidershot2 1 in Singles & Dating

w. him the other one was i was flirting back w. this other guy. but he forgave. me and im like why are u taken me back. and hes like its somehthin called true love. and im his first gf and hes 18. why do u guys think he still took me back?

2007-05-14 11:54:28 · 10 answers · asked by jcsmb124 1 in Singles & Dating

im 15 in 9th grade. this piece of sht kid keeps textin and callin me and keeps saying "im gonna get people to jump you"... shud i *** him up to get him to stop?

and dont tell me to tell sum1 older and im not gonna talk my problems out with this f.a.g.

2007-05-14 11:52:50 · 5 answers · asked by dru 1 in Friends

2007-05-14 11:52:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

that you would GLADLY pay again?

And no, I'm not talking about paying someone for their time, I'm just talking about out of pocket expenses for meals or whatever.

I think mine was about $250.00, but thats because we talked and laughed for most of the night.

2007-05-14 11:52:31 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend found naked pictures of my ex that my ex gave me for my birthday before we broke up. Now she's angry and won't talk to me unless I burn them or let her do it, but I don't want to burn them. What do I do?

2007-05-14 11:51:12 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

1 of my best fnds(we have taken vacations 2gether)lives app 1 1/2 hr away from me.she met a man abt a yr ago & they live 2gether now & have a baby.he is mean 2 her daughter from a previous marriage(whose dad died in iraq last year)& he doesnt work & my friend foots the bill for everything because she has money from the settlement from the military.anyway i go see her when i can.i am a student & work a min wage job & cant afford gas 2 go see her as much as i would like.besides her new man is a smarta** & he makes smart remarks 2 me & she just laughs & makes excuses 4 him.
anyway-i pulled out of my driveway this morning & i saw a truck like my friends.i sent her a txt message & asked if she was n my town & an hr later she sent back that she was & asked if i saw her.i am very offended she was so close 2 my house and didnt take the time 2 stop or even call.why should she expect me 2 be the 1 2 always c her when she is rite here & doesnt take the effort.i had surgery last week 2!

2007-05-14 11:49:46 · 11 answers · asked by Sarafinna 3 in Friends

theres this guy, 2 grades ahead of me, not in ne of my classes, kinda shy doesn't talk much, kinda cute. i c him in the hall but thats about it. but every time i c him he smiles @ me and looks @ me. he's asked me to dance once (but i didn't know how 2 dance and turned him down) i think i might like him even though i've only talked 2 him once! HELP ME!

2007-05-14 11:49:19 · 3 answers · asked by Cutie 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 11:43:33 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a girl doesnt seem to understand that you dont want to be her friend because shes backstabbed you numerous times and you have already told her in a calm way but doesnt get it through her thick enormous skull, and still acts like we are best friends well really you hate her guts

2007-05-14 11:41:49 · 16 answers · asked by blue24 2 in Friends

This girl use to flirt with me alot during a pe class we had together I mean like we were always around each other during the whole period, I was going to ask her out but then I got switched out, and we dont talk as much, but she still says hi and smiles... Would it be weird to ask a girl out over a message like on aim? lol

2007-05-14 11:39:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im 14, play lacrosse yearround (outdoor, box, club, and 2 or 3 summer camps) ive had i 6pak for over 2 years, im an A, B student in all AP courses, i am outgoing and love to make people laugh

on the other side, im kind of a player, care a little to much about a girl's looks, and i can sometimes do thing that arent... age appropriate (not anything past 3rd base, i swear!)

ladies would u date me?

2007-05-14 11:38:01 · 16 answers · asked by Lax Rules!!! 2 in Singles & Dating

I went to a friends wedding in college and right as the bride and groom were about to get in his car to leave, the groomsman grabbed her, threw her in another car and drove off. Someone told me he couldn't have her until he found her. They were Lithuanian.

I've been to a couple where everybody has to tell a little story about the bride and groom, which is cool.

What do your people do that others, might not?

Any weirdness you want to borrow from other cultures?

2007-05-14 11:36:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings