Family & Relationships - 14 May 2007

"Maatru Devo Bhava"(Taittriya Upanishad)=I salute-I pay my respects-to my mother

"Nachay Devam Devo na Kalu Kushalu"=There is No God who shows as much concern on my welfare as you(Mother) are----(Soundarya Lahari)

2007-05-14 01:44:12 · 2 answers · asked by ssrvj 7 in Family

she has 3 kids and married to a man about 25 years older. i actually met her through the mother of my child. we both felt a connection when we met, and now both kinda want each other, in a sexual sense. nothing has happened between us, only chat.

2007-05-14 01:35:34 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-14 01:29:27 · 33 answers · asked by khalid 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i went on my partners history on his computer i found porn which didnt bother me its the fact that some of it was gay and some was live and i think he could talk to some of the girls on there shoud i keep quiet about it or should i confront him?

2007-05-14 01:24:04 · 33 answers · asked by lauren b 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in this relationship for 3 years with a girl. We have a good relationship and all just for the past FOUR months there have been some trust issues. Four months ago she was hiding text messages, calls, and emails from me, basically I was suspicious she was cheating on me.

Well we worked everything out, and this certain guy will text her "." or "?" in the middle of the night. She will say that maybe he is drunk, or it was an accident.

So I brought it up again and she goes, "Whatever your trust issues are, I want to help you with them. If you don't want me to go somewhere, I won't. If I wanted to be with him, I would."

She says if she wanted to be with him she would.. but that doesn't mean she can't be having an affair on the side, am I right?

2007-05-14 01:22:12 · 12 answers · asked by adam f 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My Husband had an Affair,he now lives with this Girl,problem is he has been txtn me a lot and has now asked if I phoned him the other night for any other reason than the kids,everyting he says points to getting back together,but I am still furious,have seen the mistakes we have made in our Marrage and would never make them again, do you think he wants to give it another go or is he trying to have his cake and eat it.
I kicked him out,up untill now I never gave it a thought but now am wondering if we should do you think it could ever work out?

2007-05-14 01:20:08 · 12 answers · asked by live life 4 in Marriage & Divorce

just doooo it!

2007-05-14 01:13:43 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when we talk it turns into a arguement i write but he dont read and see what im saying

2007-05-14 01:11:08 · 9 answers · asked by valerie j 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Saturday night i got very drunk...now this is no excuse for what i done...me n my boyfriend had a row n split up he walked out ...and i grapped a knife and started cutting my arms??// Now i have never thought of doing that //i always used to say Why do people do that to themselfves!! but here i am doing it myself!! And thats not only the thing i actually felt great after i done it i felt relaxed n didnt feel as upset... Even though me n boyfriend made up hes not happy about what ive done...neither am i! he's worried i might do it again...but i keep saying i wont....but do i have control over this? Should i go see someone about this ?

2007-05-14 01:07:13 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I got married in 2004 as per the hindu tradition, in our family (though not mandatory) there is a tradition of changing bride's name. My wife's name was also changed.

Now my query is how can I get my marriage registered with the my wife's new name.

2007-05-14 01:07:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a few years ago we were burgled whilst away on holidays, when i got back and started to sort things out i was in contact with a very nice sergeant, our friendship outside of what happened seemed to bloosom, we flirted a lot and both new what we wanted to do, but i didn't allow it to happen. Now through work i am back in contact with him, and the flirting has began but taking tiny steps, the feelings i feel for him are just as strong now as they were then, what the hell do i do? He is married with 2 girls, and i've been with my partner for 18 years and have 2 boys, there isn't anything wrong in our relationship, but i can't help these feelings. Of course deep down i know what the answer should be, but i have to work alongside him and i am really enjoying it. HELP, please don't be nasty, these feelings are real and i have never done anything like this before, and the only time i ever have these feelings are with my partner and him.

2007-05-14 01:05:28 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-14 00:57:45 · 10 answers · asked by Carlos G 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

im just wondering hehehe..?

2007-05-14 00:53:53 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a girlfriend who is pregnant now... And I would like to be it's father... But I don't want to marry the girl nor live in with her because I don't love her 100%, not even 80%... And I don't what to do or what to say to her. Making things more complicated is that in our culture here in the Philippines, once a guy gets a girl pregnant, they have to get married because they say that it's "immoral"... And I'm basically stuck and an advice would be great help.

2007-05-14 00:40:55 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to propose to my girlfriend. I know what wedding ring she's wanted forever, but I have no idea what to look for in an engagement ring. I want to propose on my knee with the little box...the whole 9, but I don't want to pick something she really won't like.

2007-05-14 00:37:57 · 19 answers · asked by Jim028 1 in Weddings

She doesn't wear any other rings so that won't work. Her Mom and best friend have no idea what size she wears. I really don't want to tip her off in the slightest bit. I heard about getting it resized but does this damage the look of the ring?

2007-05-14 00:34:10 · 27 answers · asked by Jim028 1 in Weddings

2007-05-14 00:31:17 · 4 answers · asked by ittybitty31290 1 in Family

I wish i knew what to do here. My recent ex is young and i know she dont know anything yet. I know give her time, i know give her space. Heres the thing, she left me cuz shes not ready to be serious. She loves me so much, i know. We been apart for 3 weeks now and she still says she loves me, one night a week, the rest of the nights she wont even talk to me. She says she didnt leave for any other guy but at the same time she got a boyfriend after one week and stays at his house almost everyday. Saturday i went to see her mom, i walked in didnt say a word to her and walked out not saying a word, she stood in front of my car starring at me So i got out and talked she took me in her room and changed in front of me and i left All night sat night she was calling and texting about how much she loves me and misses me and she wished i could see how much she does care and how she dont even like her bf My question is i love her so much i want her back but she wont come back what can i do

2007-05-14 00:27:39 · 8 answers · asked by importracer_6969 1 in Singles & Dating

My husbands family is always telling me that my husband will always love his ex girlfriend because she had his first children. He has confronted them and told them where they could go but they stil continue to say this. Is it true a man will always love the woman who had his first child?

2007-05-14 00:24:56 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

how do i socialize with somebody i don't really know

for example
i'f i see a nice girl on the mall which i don't know
and i wanna meet her
how do i do it

2007-05-14 00:23:12 · 4 answers · asked by jerenluis 2 in Friends

Just yesterday He was on the computer listening to all of our old songs. One of the songs he dedicated to me and stopped me and said to you remember this song blah blah blah. Just wondering.

2007-05-14 00:21:32 · 13 answers · asked by Jennifer G 2 in Marriage & Divorce

... with you, and you cant breath when they go up yo to an act or to read or something, are those sings of love? Because my little sister, says that happens with a boy at shool, and a side Q, do you think its fair to date only when you 18 and up, and not any earlyier?

2007-05-14 00:20:37 · 9 answers · asked by Kasey 2 in Singles & Dating

if I have a conversation with my man, no matter what it is the end result is him saying he's not dumb, and he knows this because he has been around the world twice,or he'll say just trust me......I'm not going too tell you anything wrong.

2007-05-14 00:05:04 · 12 answers · asked by shanon a 1 in Other - Family & Relationships