Family & Relationships - 14 May 2007

2007-05-14 04:36:22 · 17 answers · asked by thischick 2 in Singles & Dating

for me to beat my wife, even when im not enjoying it.

2007-05-14 04:36:03 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

.."ur gonna be the only woman in my life but i know that i won't be the only man in yours and i accept that..." i cheated in the past about 6 months into our 4 yr. relationship N now i'm 5 months pregnant & he still brings that up. He now wants us to get married before the baby is born but now i don't want to. I was trully sorry for what i did but seems like he's not ober it. Shuold i marry him anyway and prove him wrong?? I love him very much & i know he loves me alot too but he feels that his looks are not enough for me not to look around anymore. I don't care for his looks because even though he's fit & intelligent but his face doesn't help i love him & desire him only & no other guy. I feel terrible!! Should i ignore what he text messaged me?? i'm 24 he's 29 & about to get married in Sept. What do you suggest?? and no after the first time there hasn't been any other problems with cheating on my end. He's never cheated on me (that i know of at least). HELP!!

2007-05-14 04:35:02 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-14 04:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What qualities in men do you think are overrated and underrated by younger women?

Knowing what you know now, would you have placed a greater or lesser importance on certain qualities when you were younger? If so, what?

I have had a few married women tell me that they wished they married a guy like me. Not sure what to make of it.

2007-05-14 04:33:06 · 13 answers · asked by Gin Martini 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

Hi, last wk, it was my grandma's bday. My bf of 3 yrs (26 and I'm 25) was invited and he chose not to attend. He met my mom (once), not my close relatives. Yest, I was bridesmaid for my friend's wedding and was planned months in advance he would come. But at very last min., he told me couldn't come. His reasons are he is uncomfortable, and they are strangers to him, so what's the point of attending. The only function he attends is my bday (no-one else around). Strange part is that during our first yr, he attended almost all the functions I invited him to. He has social anxiety b/c for a potluck one time, he took social anxiety pills. Now, he backs out of everything. My friends/fam never said anything bad of him b/c it's impossible since he hardly met any of them. I attend all his fam/work events. He attends his friends' bdays. We discussed marriage. How can I get him to attend my friends/family functions?

2007-05-14 04:31:43 · 8 answers · asked by Mei Wah W 1 in Family

2007-05-14 04:30:32 · 31 answers · asked by Arie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Its called 550. You spend 5 hours or 50 bucks max on your object of affection and if you dont get any action you move on... Is it a good rule or too challenging? Because if you dont have any kind of guidelines you may end up spending tons of time and money without any return on the investment?

2007-05-14 04:29:16 · 15 answers · asked by Ronnie 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I try to be, but unfortunately not all my family members try as hard as I do.

2007-05-14 04:28:30 · 13 answers · asked by ticktock 7 in Family

Whenever she is gone, I worry about where she is and if she has gotten into an accident.

Today, I woke up, and she's gone. I know she had to pick up the pets from the boarder, and take them to the vet. But, she won't answer her phone.

Please only serious answers.

2007-05-14 04:24:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-14 04:23:52 · 3 answers · asked by sstepenk 2 in Singles & Dating

That probably sounds really bad, but it's true. I am 25. I have been married for 4 years and we dated for 5 years prior to that. He is the only man I have ever been with. I have been pretty miserable for the last year. He is disrespectful when he speaks to me and doesn't much care when he hurts my feelings. I have never gotten any real great pleasure out of sex with him. I've never been with another man, but i know it can be better.
There is a guy at my office that i have had a crush on for a while. It has always been innocent and one sided until about 3 weeks ago. In joking he asked me if I wanted to make out with him, in joking (kinda) i said yeah sure.... Not really sure how it ended up happening, but we kissed and it was amazing. Now we both want to go further, but I am worried and confused. I do love my husband, but i'm not in love with him any longer. The man at my work is married, but also unhappy. I don't know that there could ever be more between us... I am so confused. HELP

2007-05-14 04:23:39 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a husband that thinks its ok to lust after other women. I tell him its the same as cheating even if its in his mind,do you think im wrong?

2007-05-14 04:20:43 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been seeing a guy for over 3 years on and off but thing is, he said he doesn't want a gf! He had a gf when I met him but I didn't find out until like a year later, after I had fallen for him big time. But I carried on seeing him, then his girl found out and it all went **** up! We stopped talking for about 4months, I had finally gotten over him, it was hard and I still had feelings for him but things go easier for me. Then after about 4 months we started chatting again as him and his girl broke up and then him and me started seeing each other again... Not only did I know, he was still seeing his ex ASWEL! Then, that really broke my heart, I just felt like I wasn't good enough for him, he always has an excuse not to be with me but he will still sleep with me and stay at my house every other weekend! And then, to my horror, his ex calls me up to tell me she's pregnant, suprise suprise, we could all see that happening! So yeah, that's another thing I have to deal with! It really hurts. I've never been hurt so much in all my life.. its all take take take... the amount of money he's borrowed from me and not paid me back, and now I'm struggling.. I put myself out for other people and dont get any thanks for it. Even though he doesn't treat me with any respect, I still have feelings for him! And for these 3 years I haven't actually met anyone I like other than him. I've been so depressed and I feel like I'm stuck in a rut I cant get out of, a hell hole! I find it takes the pain away a bit when I cause physical pain up on my self, or cut myself sometimes.

2007-05-14 04:19:27 · 14 answers · asked by me_me 1 in Singles & Dating

Longest list wins.

2007-05-14 04:17:29 · 11 answers · asked by Bill W 【ツ】 6 in Family

Girl, snatched from her parents holiday apartment in Portugal. She turned 4 last saturday and has been gone for 12 days!

2007-05-14 04:17:10 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-14 04:17:03 · 9 answers · asked by xplecit06 1 in Singles & Dating

During a conversation a friend told me she had heard of one state but wasn't sure where it is. I have never heard of "legally" having two spouses.

2007-05-14 04:16:20 · 10 answers · asked by Catherine H 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Im a mom with a 3 year old son. I live with my boyfriend and his 7 yr old son. On mothers day I wasnt expecting anything but am I wrong or do I have no reason to be upset about no even being told happy mothers day from my boyfriend? I mean maybe not his mom or his sons mom but I thought Mothers day was in celebration of all mothers. And when I told him I was hurt he replied that I wasnt his mother and It wasnt "girlfriends day"

2007-05-14 04:15:55 · 31 answers · asked by Danity 1 in Family

i want to check with medical help that with how many men she had selpt with..

2007-05-14 04:14:54 · 30 answers · asked by rohail 1 in Weddings

2007-05-14 04:13:50 · 10 answers · asked by ladym 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-05-14 04:12:45 · 9 answers · asked by christian s 1 in Family

This is a tough one. My children's father has disappeared and I can't locate him to get the papers served to him so I can receive child support. He is self-employed and hiding by not signing a lease, getting utilities, etc. I have exhausted all of my resources shy of hiring a lawyer or private eye. Is there anything else I can do?

2007-05-14 04:09:13 · 10 answers · asked by SloanMercy 2 in Family

I'm American and my husband is from Greece we decided to move back to USA .
My husband has a good payed job and I have part time job, his salary is 1600$ and mine 400$ monthly, our rent here is 600$ monthly and our food expences are 450$.
The base sallary in Greece is for 10-12 hours work per day and without having the right to have any break at all is
600-700$ monthly.
Obvously we can not afford to buy a house witch will cost us 200.000 $ or a new car costing 15.000$ or having any children considering that the goverment does not help at all.
Our dream will be to buy an appartment , having 1 or2 children and managing all familly costs by a full time job for my husband and a part time job for me.
How high sould be each of our salaries to live an ordinary life without having wories how to pay at the and of the month: electricity,heat,food?
By the way our last electricity bill was
( for four months 1450$ !!!!!!! )
and we rent an 900 square feet appartment.

2007-05-14 04:06:54 · 3 answers · asked by Valerie N 1 in Family

i hear and read all of these stories about couples being unfaithful to each other and it scares me and makes me not want to get married for that fact? because i dont want to put everything into a relationship and then end up getting screwed? is this weird? should i get over it and trust my partner?

2007-05-14 04:06:12 · 15 answers · asked by Kelly*Belly 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Do women ever think of sleeping with another man if they are taken? And if you had that chance, would you? How would you want to be approached?

2007-05-14 04:03:18 · 11 answers · asked by brian w 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I are separated 1.5 yrs but we have very correct relationship. I moved with my mother and father together with my son (4.5 yrs old). Everytime my husband is free from work (and he works alot) he is with our son, I support and gladly provide that.

This summer, me and my son will move in with another man, that is really supportive, loving, understanding and trusting to both me and my son, and also I love him and my son trusts him a lot.

Since my husband is very bussy man, I thought that he would accept that I take care of our child (we are going to discuss this yet). Knowing him, I think that we could make a good agreement that is in good interest of our son.

However, my parents scared me that he could ask for custody and get it easy because it would be considered that I put our son in "immoral" surrounding (living unmarried with another man).

Is there really something in this?

2007-05-14 04:03:09 · 12 answers · asked by Wintermute 4 in Marriage & Divorce

why???

2007-05-14 04:01:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-05-14 03:58:45 · 6 answers · asked by harold 1 in Weddings

car. We get lessons off the same instructor who is fantastic - so she's really busy! We usually only get 1 lesson each a week. With a new car sitting in the drive our mum offered to take us out. She's a nice, laid back lady so it sounded like a good idea. Wrong! She's a maniac. I've never seen this side to her before. She's mean and if we get one thing wrong she constantly lectures and shouts til we get it right. She had my sister in tears the other day. We've tried telling her that she is too hard on us but she just says we are not practicing enough and will never learn how to drive with that attitude. What can we do?? I'm running out of excuses not to go out with her in my car! Please help!

2007-05-14 03:58:01 · 12 answers · asked by stargirl_laura 3 in Family