Family & Relationships - 14 May 2007

Question after question regarding complaints about the men and women people CHOSE to be their spouses.

I don't understand. There have got to be more people like me out there who cherish, respect and adore their spouse.

So who would be willing to put their spouse up against mine?

My wife is loving, tender, gentle and full of grace. She has character and integrity measured in megatonage, which forces me to constantly be a better man. She has an awesome sense of humor and never takes herself too seriously.

I love her beyond the limits of communication, but more than that I respect her, maybe even more than I love her. I am in aw of her.

Oh! And lets not forget, she is also GREAT in the sack!

So does anyone out there think that his or her spouse has got game?

2007-05-14 02:52:11 · 17 answers · asked by David P 3 in Marriage & Divorce

this is a question someone asked me and DO NOT KNOW the answer --- also is there a standard for beauty....

2007-05-14 02:50:53 · 15 answers · asked by gorglin 5 in Singles & Dating

Can a 21 years old Egyptian woman travel without her parents permission?
shes not married , she says that she has the right to get marry without her parents permission

2007-05-14 02:48:42 · 13 answers · asked by Ray N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why is it so hard for a man to show their true feelings? The men around here would rather check out your *** and smile when you see them doing it than say hello! That is just rude and disrespectful! Really how hard is for them to just LOOK UP! and say hello? And then when you say hello first they look at you like they are speechless and they are not sure what to say back?!

2007-05-14 02:45:42 · 21 answers · asked by beth0800 1 in Singles & Dating

Are the men very immiture or are they very sick. Isn't it like child molestation at thier age. Even if it is consensual why would a teenage girl be interested in a man so much older?

2007-05-14 02:44:15 · 20 answers · asked by Maureen M 1 in Singles & Dating

OK I'm 16 and I have this "thing" with a 21 year old....is it to much of an age diff or is it perfectly normal? when I'm with him its like everything is perfect and he's awesome to be around...what do ya'll think??

2007-05-14 02:41:13 · 33 answers · asked by Shelby H 1 in Singles & Dating

How would you feel if you woke up at 3 in th morning to find your bloke in a different room pleasuring himself while watching porn? im hurt by it not because its wrong, i agree with it but because of doing it over other women and been sneaky about it, he turned the TV off and tried to pretend he want there thinking i was still half asleep and now he has told me he does this all the time but feels guilty afterwards. I feel that he would just rather pleasure himself because he makes no effort in our sex life and he obviously prefers to watch women on tv and then lie to me!

2007-05-14 02:39:52 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

what if I'm not gay? what if I only like this girl because of how she dresses and how she acts. I mean baggy pants,big shirts,braids.what if I like her because she dresses like a boy, looks like a boy and acts like a boy.I'm really confused. I need to figure this out.HELP ME!!!!!! ( if you aint got nothing nice to write don't write nothing.if you aint tryin to help me then don't write nothing.)

2007-05-14 02:39:25 · 4 answers · asked by symone b 1 in Singles & Dating

Are you a man or a woman. What was the "receivers" response? Are you still together and in LOVE?

2007-05-14 02:38:59 · 21 answers · asked by wayouthere 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok i will give you all the short version .... it will be a year that hubby and i have been seperated we are now going for a divorce ... but in the year that we were apart .. he hooked up with a girl that was a friend of both of ours ... ( he is 47 she is 33) he is now moving in with her and my son is there with them .. i know for a fact and i have seen with my own eyes that she treats her kids like crap and i do not want my son to go threw this or even be a witness to it ... please keep in mind i am in canada and they are in the usa ... my son does not want to do school here cus his friends are in the usa ( my son is 13) .. my question is should i have some sort of invesigation done on her or if anyone has any idea let me know ... thanks

2007-05-14 02:38:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 3 1/2 year old son and he doesn't seem to like my new girlfriend. It's wierd because when she's not there he asked about her all the time and then when she's with me he is mean to her. I dont know if he is too young to have a talk with him or not. Any suggestions? I really don't want to lose my girlfriend, but i know i have to look out for the best interest of my son.

2007-05-14 02:38:33 · 24 answers · asked by karrtune 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 02:36:32 · 18 answers · asked by johnson109864 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband's family got upset with him this weekend because he brought me a new car for mothers day but didn't get his ex-girlfriend, which is the mother of his other children, a gift. He said he didn't feel he should. She is the ex so why should HE have to do anything on mothers day for her besides say "Happy mothers day?"

2007-05-14 02:32:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

for a long time of no communication, he sent a text message thru cellphone inviting me to his pad. seems to be insinuating to be intimate with me. but i was shock to know that he admitted he has a gf but they dont have sex. i got angry since to me it seems that he just want to use me though i never asked him the reason why he isn't having sex with his present gf. do you know what are probable reasons why he is acting that way to me?

serious answers only please. thanks :)

2007-05-14 02:32:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm beginning to get bored by always doing the initiative of striking a conversation with my man. I know he's a silent type and i thought i could bear it coz even though he's not much into talking in person, he's very expressive in e-mails and texting. But now even his messages are becoming unintresting already. Its kinda generic or superficial. I think I have done my part of doing the first move always in this area of his personality. I initiate conversations as much as i can but does it have to be always me? he's becoming a 1 question 1 answer type of person. I hope i could still bear this for a long time. I've once told him about this issue but he just keeps quiet and says.."this is me...". Well being silent could be an advantage at some points but...hello! Am i talking to someone here (a husband for that matter)? Of course he talks too but i think i'm looking for a real conversation. I love him but this doesn't make me happy anymore. Can i still do somthing about it?

2007-05-14 02:30:58 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i love being married to my wife. but our sex life has dropped off the face of the earth.. why is that.. sure ive gained a few pounds but is my wife no longer attracted to me ??

2007-05-14 02:27:53 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We have been married for almost 1 year, have 1 baby together and another one on the way and I am very much in love with him.
Despite of his several reminders I still have not updated my status with insurance, driving license, mortgage, passport etc (I am italian and got married in Italy) informed pension provider etc due to lack of time and lazyness.. I guess!!
I have at the back of my mind the say that "marriage is the death of love" and I am in no rush to prove it wrong so i just avoid facing it at all "pretending" that we are partners.

Does anybody feel the same?

2007-05-14 02:26:29 · 18 answers · asked by cant cook wont cook 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-05-14 02:25:36 · 6 answers · asked by rejecttf 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-05-14 02:24:09 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have been with my fiance for 2 in a half years and we haven't spent a night apart and we wanted the first night to be our night before the wedding. Is this chessy. I just feel too settled down to be going to friend's houses and spending the night. what do i do?

2007-05-14 02:22:25 · 22 answers · asked by summer_gurl0357 1 in Weddings

My husband and I have been desperately trying to get things back on track and for the most part have been doing pretty well. I;m still having some trust issues with this girl sarah at his work. I now find that he seems to be doing most of the texting first and then she responds. Also, he's been helping her set up a website and i got upset because the email account she needs to set up was on our computer. I was just caught off guard and without realizing it I called my husband on his way to work to ask him about it. I didn't yell but he got pretty mad and then just said let me know when you need to get up (I work overnights) and I'll talk to you tonight. He usually calls me and so I said, I don't ever get to be upset or still struggle with this problem? and all he said was he had to go. I guess now i wonder should I really be angry with sarah or my husband b/c it seems like he is instigating any texting between them. Am I right to be mad...to ask him to stop? I feel stupid.

2007-05-14 02:21:26 · 9 answers · asked by superwmn315 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i see this word a lot written on here, what does it mean? im guessin its someone whos a piss taker and gives rubbish answers. am i right? i thought a troll was a little leprechaun thing with crazy pink hair.....

2007-05-14 02:19:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am going out with a girl today. but most times she won't pick up my calls, but she always replying my txts. I told her I love her, she replied it is good for her to know that she is loved but she won't turn down my request to go out, but wants me to wait till after exams for party stuffs. just advice me and more tips if possible.

2007-05-14 02:17:15 · 15 answers · asked by diji 3 in Singles & Dating

At school, I talk with girls about only school subject, and that is not fun. I want to know her and bring up the conversation.
The basic question that should never ask are basicaly about sex, her body, sexual harrasment, personal question.
Those are common things. tell me if there are bad questions in this list to talk to girls who have just spoke.
This conversation is not at the first date, just talking with women to be just friends. I dont want her to think that iam trying to attract her.

asking about hobbies such as movies, music,food,etc.

asking about love relationship, such as type of men she likes, do u like American or Italian guy, do u have bf,
favourite acters, opinion about love, love sucks or not,

asking about life, such as how many parents do u have, whats your dream, story of her trip,about her accidents, what kind of
cloth u like, which college do u go to,
asking advice about love relationship,
asking about her hometown, what kind kind of place, her opinion about the place
asking about likes and dislikes.

I usualy asked these kinds of question to girls, some girls complained to me that it is persoanl question to ask, or should
i talk about other things to girls before I ask these things?

maybe there are more it are there any thing that have common error that girls would be suspecious.

2007-05-14 02:16:59 · 3 answers · asked by neuken 1 in Singles & Dating

SIMONE OZBOLT 360

2007-05-14 02:07:55 · 31 answers · asked by gorglin 5 in Family

I am not able to go (it is an out of town wedding) and I have already told my male coworker (the groom) that I'm not going. The wedding is on May 26th. Should I still send back the invite replying 'no' even though it is late?

2007-05-14 01:55:06 · 24 answers · asked by AtlantaGirl 2 in Weddings

I am 32 and he is 41. I met him 2 yrs ago and we've been married for 3 months now. Our sex life was great at the beginning, then later we started going 4 weeks without having sex. At one point i got pregnant and we both thought it wasn't the right time for us to have a baby so we decided to go for a termination. After that we stayed for about 3 months without sex. We were both traumatised. We got over it and tried to move on. But he still wasn't interested in sex. Even when i try to seduce him, he is just not there. Finally he confessed to me that he's been using drugs for the past 10yrs to get any sexual arousement. I was devastated. I felt demoralised. He said he's been using drugs with me from the beginning. I proposed he talk to his GP for advice. But he hasn't done anything. I just have the feeling he doesn't care at all. I thot his job is giving alot of stress, but went for wkend, away from all the stress. But my husbnd still didnot go for it. I'm frustrated n dnt know wot to do!

2007-05-14 01:51:26 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an affair with a married man over a year ago while he was 1000 miles away from his family working. The affair went on for a few months, but mostly we were friends. He worked here for almost a year. I thought he cared for me, but after he told his wife and they decided to work things out he revealed that in talking to their counselor he realizes that this came from depression and confusion about his own feelings toward himself and that it could have been anybody that it wasnt about me. He told me he never really cared for me at all and he apologized. This all happened out of the blue after a few months of no contact...before that I would call him or his wife and I admit I did try to cause problems...I care for him deeply and wanted him back, well the next day his wife contacted me...I told her some very awful details of our relationship...some true, some exagerrated. I hated her. Well she called and offered her forgiveness and also apologized for anything she said about or to me..

2007-05-14 01:51:11 · 16 answers · asked by lil ol me 1 in Marriage & Divorce

please answer for my class project...Who would you step on if you were 1000 feet tall and expalin in DETAIL how youd squash them with your giant foot??

2007-05-14 01:50:04 · 9 answers · asked by garyx22002 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Why do guys flirt with girls and then go off to flirt and hug other girls? (not all guys) Like at school guys flirt with my friends and methen they go off an flirt with other girls. Why do they do this if they don't even like the girls?

2007-05-14 01:47:31 · 10 answers · asked by InuSessgurl 3 in Singles & Dating