for a long time of no communication, he sent a text message thru cellphone inviting me to his pad. seems to be insinuating to be intimate with me. but i was shock to know that he admitted he has a gf but they dont have sex. i got angry since to me it seems that he just want to use me though i never asked him the reason why he isn't having sex with his present gf. do you know what are probable reasons why he is acting that way to me?
serious answers only please. thanks :)
2007-05-14 02:32:15 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He wants to use you for sex, whatever his reasons are. Since he admitted that he has a g/f up front, I wouldn't waste time thinking that you can "win" him back by giving it to him. Remember, he is willing to cheat on his g/f with you...chances are, if you would get back with him, he would cheat on you too. He doesn't sound like much of a catch to me...throw him back, and find someone who will treat you like you deserve to be treated and will stay faithful.
BTW, I am not a guy, but couldn't resist answering this one.
2007-05-14 02:42:13 · answer #1 · answered by blondie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how long is a long time? A long time like a week, could be normal, 2 weeks, not normal. It just seems to me like he's not that serious about having a relationship that is traditional. Maybe just someone to hang out with when there is no one else. If he admits that he has another g/f, your definitley on the side and probably sees you as nothing more than a sex buddy. If that's fine with you go for it, but if you want to be serious, start looking else where because he doesnt see you like that.
2007-05-14 02:39:11 · answer #2 · answered by virgil_fre_wld 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
may be he have many way to act but the first way with his x-gf doesn't work so he try to act in different way with you i am sorry but he look like fool because not all the women are same
2007-05-14 02:39:10 · answer #3 · answered by Hamza m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He seems a bit of a ****... maybe you should just find someone else that hasn't already got a girlfriend!
2007-05-14 02:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by livvy_loves_it 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no offense, but he probably is just horny and knows it was good between you two. and if she isn't satisfying tha tneed for him, he may feel that if he is with someone he has already been with, it may not "count" as cheating (men, humph!)on his current g/f.
2007-05-14 02:37:27 · answer #5 · answered by chelley 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he wants sex. Period. Do you want to be used this way? He doesn't love you, he wants to use your body for his purpose;
he must be tired of working things out for himself.
2007-05-14 02:36:29 · answer #6 · answered by M S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he thinks he can use you for sex on the basis of your past relationship ---- he is being callous and unfaithful and total jerk
2007-05-14 02:46:14 · answer #7 · answered by trader1867 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have no idea
2007-05-14 02:34:40 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's horny. Booty call............
2007-05-14 02:35:47 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋