OK I'm 16 and I have this "thing" with a 21 year old....is it to much of an age diff or is it perfectly normal? when I'm with him its like everything is perfect and he's awesome to be around...what do ya'll think??
2007-05-14 02:41:13 · 33 answers · asked by Shelby H 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-05-21 10:12:36 · answer #1 · answered by smeusmc 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you're a little too young to be dating him. There is nothing wrong with the age separation, but there is a huge difference in maturity between 16 and 21. If you were 21 and he was 26, you'd be more ready to manage the relationship with him.
2007-05-14 02:45:55 · answer #2 · answered by jeepguy_2x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right now. It may seem like a big age difference. If you really do love him, then if you end up still having a thing for him at like 20, 21 then your age wont matter. Right now I have a thing with a 19 yr. old at my church. We arn't dating (YET) My pastors daughter is going to be married to a 25 yr. old on her 18th b-day. If it's God's plan for you to be with this guy then yes. Just wait it out. If you can't then try to talk it through with this guy and pray about it. (God does answer prayers. sometimes not in the way we want Him to though)
2007-05-14 02:54:46 · answer #3 · answered by Chicana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK your having a "THING" with man who obviously doesn't care about the law. He's a lawbreaker and people are actually insinuating it's alright? C'MON!!!!! It's not o.k.
Why would a 21 yr old MAN, have anything in common with a 16 yr. old teen.?! It's not even close to being o.k. He needs to grow up and you need to act your age. What happens when a 15 yr. old hottie walks by......................... Is he gonna take up with her, too? Where does he draw the line? Well the law says 18 sweetie.
2007-05-22 02:20:19 · answer #4 · answered by Honee-Bee93 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love, I think you should wait and find someone your age a 21 year old should not be interested in a 16 year old sorry no offense but he's probably only after one thing and it's not a healthy situation for you to be in just wait and find someone your age it will last a lot longer and you will have more in common! ♥ =o)
2007-05-21 20:33:05 · answer #5 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An elderly man is always advisable as a lkife partner. A younger man may be interessting for few moments but when it comes to spend time together beyond the horizon of love and intimation, then an elderly prevails
2007-05-22 02:43:01 · answer #6 · answered by simba 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is Love age should be a factor but it does depend on the fact that ya'll are at two different points in your life!
2007-05-22 01:37:44 · answer #7 · answered by emo_mando69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i know this is not what you want to hear but he is to experienced for you .16 years old is a tender age.your suppose to be dating guys in your school not with someone that 21.do your parents know about this guy and how old he is. if they did they could have him arrested.i think you are moving to fast i have a 16 year old daughter and i would be very upset if she was even talking to some one 21 .SLOW DOWN
2007-05-22 01:04:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At your age 5 years is probably too much. I would be concerned that he is not with people his own age -- not a junior in high school. Smells like trouble to me.
I would let the "thing" go for now.
2007-05-21 13:42:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This type of thing happens all the time. I would just be careful cause if someone finds out that isnt cool about the difference they will drop dime on you like the dickface earlier who says they think they should call the cops
2007-05-14 02:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by /N/I/C/K/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've said it before age doesn't matter, but since there is quite a gap between you two, you might want to see the things he has planned ahead, you might not be included in them. Also consider if you see yourself with him for long and for how long is this relatioship going to last, don't make him wait for you and worst don't let him rush you into doing things.
2007-05-21 07:34:38 · answer #11 · answered by Becca 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋